Pushing it on Day 2
Hey so I tried implementing Manwhores advice on my day 2's. On a previous thread I mentioned that I wanted to get to the lay easier on day 2's. Im pretty chill and good at converstaion, can get easy makeouts on day 2's but want to increase may lay ratio. So Manwhore gave the advice of tooling the chicks a little bit in a dominant quasi mean manner.
I went on a day 2 yesterday and it was the usual good conversation with drinks. Made the girl laugh alot and got her real comortable. Good conversation. I tried to implement some of the advice above. I dunno if I executed it in the best way but there were certain times when I tried to throw in some things. We were talking about food and cooking and I asked her if she would cook for me and stuff and she was like no that I had to cook for her. I was like "I dunno I kinda only want you to be like my cooking servant" and just went off on how it would benefit her and how I can pretty much use her this way. She made a face that looke like she was taken back with it and it was clearly making her feel overwhelmed or like kinda like didn't think it was nice and or felt bad or whatever. I dunno I couldnt read it correctly. Anyway it did amp the situation up a bit and I could see that it kinda made her feel like I wasn't tryin to get her in a desperate fashion and felt like she got the idea that she would have to put up some sort of fight and that I wasn't just gonna be that guy who would do anything for a chick. Im not sure if it got her chasin a bit more but I also saw in this situation pretty clearly that a push pull was required so then I was like "but you know what then youll have to make me do something for you". I believe this increased the sexual tension slightly.
I did other things although I cant really remember the tooling that I used because we ended up friending the bartender who just kept supplying us with free drinks. I did bring up the servant thing again and the funny thing is she looked like she kept getting the same reaction toward it.
Anyway everything else about the day 2 was pretty much like the other ones Ive had. She told me she wanted me to come back with her "but that I had to sleep on the couch". I just said sure but never really pushed the issue about leaving or going back with her. When I got back to her place I definatley didnt do any of the time wasting in my last "near lay" post lmao (inside joke for anyone who read it). I went to the bathroom and came out and basically just threw her on the couch and banged her for rest of night.
Im not sure if it was do to either my game or the implementing of the quasi-mean stuff, but definatley see the value in it and will try to get better at it give some more posts on this on my next day 2's
So it worked? Haha well there ya go.
Lol, yea well it definitley added a different dynamic to my game that I never used before. I def need to work on it some more and make it a bit tighter, as I think Im a little clumsy when it comes to fucking with chicks in that way. I can see how it increases attraction and her wanting to chase you a bit
You should say these things assertively but also be smiling. Julien calls this a "what are you gonna do about it?" face.
So picture how you would as that statement to someone and what your face would look like?
Yea I totally get what your saying. I actually tried doin that yesterday. I think I got a positive reaction from it. I was actually on a day 2 last night again and tried implementing it again. Although it was hard to kinda tool this chick cuz she likes to tool me as well. We got a cool chemistry with eachother. Anyway we met another couple and were partying with them all night. My girl got drunk and we were hooking up whatever. She started jerking me off while we were dancing and I eventually just pulled her outa there and took her to my car. When we got to my car I started driving home and she was like "I can't come with you and shit". So I was like in a real cool voice " look your not goin home, I wanna fuck you" with a straight "what are you gonna do about it face", like you were saying. I said it in a dominant way, coulda changed the word "wanna" for "gonna" but either way I think my tone leant more towards me taking control. She was like clearly saying "im not gonna have sex with you tonight" lol whatever. It was the second time we met but I def think I can bang her next time.
I like that Im starting to kinda give the girls incentive to chase, not because I want them to want me, more because I understand that its fun for her. Its also cuz I really started to stop giving a shit alot. I also like breaking through with these kinda verbals that show this. Im sure the more I use it, the more masculine energy Ill be giving off, and its making the ball be in my possession .