Question about last night

Could be mouth herpes.

Srs

Just go for other escalation

@buddhagames:

Like what?

Neck biting, fingrrganging.. fucking her etc?

Yup. Picking her up, stuff like that. When I face situations like that a little bat signal goes off in my skull and I start doing.. dun dun dun.. OTHER THINGS!! ;)

Also just imagine that at some point in the interaction you calmly try to push her down onto her knees in front of you, while looking into her eyes.

@buddhagames:

Funny. I actually had the same EXACT problem w/this lil cute Mexican chick last night. Tons of moving her around the venue. neck biting, all that other stuff, picking her up. i even pushed her away playfully and she fell to the floor in front of her friends lmao. that was bad yo. but yea - she just would not let me KISS her. even saying stuff like "yea i feel like ur going to be bored w/me because i'm so conservative and will not make out w/you".

y i spent an hour w/this girl is another question in itself - well at least i got some quality manwhore drills in on her ass buttt yea

i'm thinking maybe she had some strong sort of fucked up social conditioning

@buddhagames:

ps i love how you always ask Manwhore tons of questions - love that rock solid determination and humility that you have. shit. like i need to start doing the same because he has the reference experiences that we don't have. i guess i'll be grilling him once i write up my FRs because i have had the same situation happen to me twice preventing me from pulling in the past week or two.

MW - And i'm about to ask you literally daily text game questions - not even about what to text but more theoretical shit. i have forgotten a bunch of stuff sir and need to surrender to the teacher - not that way lol ;)

@Katalyst:
I know. It's mind-blowing

Are you forced to do a bunch of memory retention at work? Something doesn't seem right to me. Check out lumosity.com I would absolutely start training there if you haven't already.

@Katalyst:

Eh, this shit isn't about "appearing good" its about "being good"I find the more open I am and the questions I ask, the more comfortable I am with my successes and failures.

I ask Manwhore more questions than he can possibly answer because it also just helps, after a night, to get those random thoughts out of my head.

@Manwhore:

I have an average memory so i usually write everything down at work as i have to remember a lot..... . I've gotten better at work because now i understand the context but i still write things down and flag all the emails that i have to get back to people on.... This lack of alertness is due to lack of sleep. Fuckin time constraints that i have - absolutely awful but I can't complain because I want to be a champion on two to three fronts....

It takes me longer to do shit because I'm just not 100% alert unless it's on the weekend when i sleep in - i'm usually at a 75% alert level. Like a part of me knows i need to cut something out in my life to free up time but it's hard for me to do so because i want to get closer to my purpose in life (running my own web business), want to be a better soccer player and stay in tip-top athletic shape , and be a better womanizer.

For example, take a day like Wednesday. I wake up at 8:45a. Get to work by 10. Leave at 6:30. Do prep work for my soccer game (i'm captain and organize tactics) and take a nap. leave the house at 8:15 Have a soccer game at 9:15 - finally get back at 11:30. meditate for 30 minutes. back out the door at 12:25. Get to the club at 1. Leave at 4.

And then i have to be up at 8:45 on Thursday. Not every week day is like this but it's pretty hectic usually. Also my sense of time management is bad.

I have notes from our text game sessions but even when I review them they don't make sense (i am going to send them to you and we will review soon please ;).... Like i'm looking at it and i'm like wtf "when do you use a challenge?" etc etc. I have to go back into gmail and transcribe every convo we had - but a lot of shit still doesn't make sense to me. A part of it is i remember the 1st session to two me being fuckin brain-dead by the time we would have our calls - but i couldn't muster the strength to say "YO - I NEED TO TAKE A NAP".

Now we've fixed that problem :)

This is also why i have stopped going out every night because shit just wasn't effective for me - after awhile the days of going on only 5 hours of sleep start to catch up with you and things like micro-sleep start to occur and you're always forgetting things (like remembering to even text girls back).

Whatever - i will get there. if there's a will there's a way.

I already feel resistance to lumosity.com but I think someone like me totally needs to start the exercises.

@buddhagames:

Yeah that's my big flaw. Like i just wrote that long response trying to let MW know about my flaws and in my body i feel some sort of resistance to looking bad and exposing my flaws. But it's partially because I'm coming from a place of wanting to feel important as like my shit don't stink so i think a lot of times i still want to appear good. A habit that i'm slowly eradicating but it's still a fuckin problem.

I'm definitely going to be asking him wayy more questions.

Ok man jump on lumosity it's absolutely incredible what it gives you. Fuck you have no idea. You're having a serious issue with retention and consolidation. Basically the part where you take lessons and actually learn and apply them and build off them. "Internalization"

I can definitely see what you're going through with your scheduling it's definitely an issue. Good you cut back on going out you didn't need that.

What's up with this soccer thing WHERE is it getting you what are you aiming for with it? It seems like some kind of exercise in social leadership (which is good) except it's circling the toilet bowl it seems like. Are you meeting business contacts? Are you meeting girls? You don't seem to be applying this leadership into other areas of your life. If that's the case it's basically worthless, there are other ways of staying in top shape and not mentally masturbating yourself by telling yourself you're the captain when in actuality it's not getting you SHIT. How many hours a week do you put out in total towards soccer.

@Manwhore:

I'm really against stopping to play soccer even if i potentially lose out on fuckin more chicks and it creates a hectic schedule for me on Wednesdays and Thursdays....Like I want to fuck hundreds of chicks (gosh i really do) but I don't think i have to cut that area of my life out in order to do so. It might take me longer but it's my only hobby. Yea being in tip-top shape thing is awesome but at the end of the day i don't care about that - i just love soccer mann...love to watch it, love to play it, love to talk about it.... . I've quit DJing, boxing, and playing jazz piano and soccer is one of the activities that i'm totally against quitting. If i quit, i'd only be learning programming and picking up women in my spare time which would be totally unhealthy.

I'm only spending about tops 8 to 10 hours a week on soccer. I only play on Tuesdays after work (2 hours), Wednesdays (practice for 3 hours or a game for 2 hours) and Thursdays (either practice for 2 hours or a game for 2 hours) and on Sunday mornings (for 2 hours).

I understand I'm going through a slump right now and those 10 hours could be better utilized (like sleep!/actually getting to read text game forum instead of skimming it like i usually did in the past) but fuck - i don't want to give up my one hobby besides game.. I'm only captain because I'm the one guy on my team that gives a fuck the most about winning - i really don't care about being in a leadership position on a soccer field and actually always have thoughts about not being captain because it's annoying and fuckin stressful at times.

With the little time I have - I'm only into networking for my dick. I hate networking most of the time because it's all a bunch of bs from my experiences. Hey soccer chicks are cool, but i'm literally always meeting new girls hence y me learning follow-up game and converting my numbers into dates would just make me player extraordinaire.

The leadership with girls will come and i'm starting school next month so i can be a BOSS when it comes to my eventual entrepreneurship activities, finances and etc.

I think in the past I just wasn't as focused as I am now (which could improve even) and my ability to execute consistently ridiculously fucked up - like I was hitting it up but I wasn't hitting it HARD with FOCUS.

Btw I just signed up for lumosity because i do want my brain to be on some top-notch shit.

PS. I think there's one area that i've been begging you to teach me for the past couple of months and it's PUSH and it's why I went through my whole internal bs a couple of months ago.. it's the sole reason why after 20 minutes of interacting with a girl she'll be like "you're fun and cool, but NOT SEXWORTHY so i will not give you my # - even though we may have been making out and this that and the third". It's probably one of my big mid-game sticking points to be honest and a BIGGER problem than the advanced escalation techniques you've been teaching me - which i have come to see are SUPERB. SHEESH.

@Katalyst:

I'm in denial hard as fuck right now but fuck i might have to call it quits to soccer for a month or two to reach that next level of game. Like i think of this video when I think of my current issues: http://youtu.be/lsSC2vx7zFQ

Just having that extra time so I can read the forums and do self-esteem exercises and being able to read would help.......I just might need that extra time actually. I just hate laying off because once you come back the soccer skill-set has regressed like 2-3 months

@Manwhore:

MW, how often are you hitting up lumosity in a day? More than once?

Cool continue on with soccer but do something with it. Start organizing soccer get-togethers outside of practice and games. SOMEONE in your circuit is smashing vag's. Also, start winning more. Or get into something else in it.

@Manwhore:

Went out tonight and had an "okay" night BUT BUT BUT something very cool happened...

I was in set with a totally hot asian chick (really really hot- did I mention that?) and we were getting super physical and she was dancing on me and i couldn't help my dick from poppin into boner mode and she felt it and started rubbin her ass on it.

Anyway- I go in for the makeout and she goes, "No... don't kiss me"

Continue to vibe and be physical.

5 minutes later I'm picking her up and she wraps her legs around me (she's wearing a mini dress) and her ass is being shown to the entire venue and I'm grabbin the shit out of it cause it's hot as fuck

put her down

5 minutes later- grab the number and lift her up again

put her down- go to makeout with her... and it's on

EXECUTING MANWHORE ADVISE IN-FIELD 2 DAYS AFTER BEING TOLD WHAT TO DO #WINNING