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(copies from rsd- directed towards him)
www.youtube.com/watch (The video I'm referring to- for reference)

One thing I found interesting about your talk in the video which was posted, was what you talked about, with regards to how you treat women who are chasing you, or who aren't attractive, or where you truly have the "Buyer" dynamic. You mentioned that you are a total dick to these girls, whereas, with girls who are harder to get, you're "nicer" or more "submissive"...

You mention how this difference is something that "interested" you... but, PERSONALLY, I found it interesting that after this, what you seemed to get from it was that, it was the way you were treating, "The HOTTIES" that was skewed, or off... not the other way around.

Obviously- if you're being "submissive" to the hotties, that's one thing. But for me, I treat girls who are chasing me or who are fat or who I'm not attracted to, just as kindly and with just as much compassion and love as I would treat a super hottie.

The main difference I see, is something within ME... The main difference I see is that (and this will dissapear as I get better at this and more experience) with the STUNNERS... my ability to truly be compassionate and kind and understanding is less simply because I'm more nervous around them (When I'm ON though, this isn't there and I'm able to treat them with the same compassion, empathy and love that I treat less attractive girls with.

Now I'll say this- Whether it's a fattie or a hottie- if she's treating me like shit... You bet your ass I am going to turn it on and put her in her plae and let her know that her behavior is not okay... BUT... I don't just treat unattractive girls poorly, for the simple fact that I find myself, naturally, having the "Buyer" dynamic...

I mean, on some level, THIS is what "having standards" is about... right? Like it's easy to "have standards" when it fits in with your picture of the way the game is supposed to work... but what about when those same "standards", CONFLICT with what you know about game... THATS when "Having standards" seems to really come into play..

I'd be really curious to hear some kind of a response... mainly because I'm trying to learn and maybe my view of life is WAY TOO "rose colored" or maybe I'm being too much of a "little bitch"... I'm totally open to that... Not tryna put you on the spot... just challenging something I saw that doesn't match up with the way I PERSONALLY approach game- and maybe this is the reason, I'm not, currently a MASSIVE pimp.
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Re: Question about something Todd from RSD said
@buddhagames:

I'm curious what people think... Am I being too "rose colored" in my view of people? I tend to be very "ideolistic" but at the same time... I really DO like to think that I actually practice what I preach (everyone fucks up every now and then) but seriously... like when I say I treat ugos in a relatively similar fashion that I treat STUNNERS... I'm not just SAYING this... I practice what I preach

It's the same with guys- like, it's easy to be cool and nice and chill with the, "Popular Kid"... but then as soon as you realize you are "more popular" than another kid- so many people start treating these "less cool" kids like shit... and it's NOT okay. It's fucked up. Like they are still people and cool and it's like, if you just do YOU- you'd be surprised how even the most weird, "out there" guys wlil start acting REALLY REALLY cool.

Anyway- I also want to clarify that when I say "compassion"... I have a... "unique" view of what compassion is... like for me, "having compassion" means, being able to give a girl your dick, because you understand that she wants it... or not reacting to shittests because you recognize that she's just BEGGING for some solid dude to come around who will do JUST THAT and not react... it's compassion guys- I guess you could call it, "Radical Compassion" or, "Buddhagames Compassion"- although I am HARDLY the only person to think this way (I'm pretty fucking sure lmao)

Anyway- thoughts?
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Re: Question about something Todd from RSD said
@buddhagames:
Yo mang that link is NOT working out.
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Re: Question about something Todd from RSD said
@buddhagames:
Good video, I agree with Todd. Maybe you're on another level buddah.
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Re: Question about something Todd from RSD said
@sentry303:

Hmm...

Okay. I mean, I kinda assumed I was gonna be a lone wolf on this one- Any more of an explanation at all?

I guess I'm less concerned as to whether people "agree" with me or todd and more concerned with the "why"...

I'm concerned with the "why" becuase I'm a pretty flexible dude and if this is something that is going to be a hinderence to my game in the long run, then I'm willling to change it (although, I'm never just going to be a dick to ugly girls... simply because I can- like I have a hard time seeing how that's gonna get me laid and more importantly, I just don't want to be that kind of guy)
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Re: Question about something Todd from RSD said
@buddhagames:
Point me to the part in the video where he's actually speaking on this topic I'll take a look.

Understand one thing, RSD is currently in a stage where they're playing up the "polarization/drama" side to things.
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Re: Question about something Todd from RSD said
@Manwhore:

16:00-17:45
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Re: Question about something Todd from RSD said
@buddhagames:
I just farted.
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Re: Question about something Todd from RSD said
@Manwhore:

lmao... did everyone smell it?

After sleeping on it, i think I was just reading way way way too much into it.

Not that big of a deal.
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