Question about the woman's role
Mon, 10/29/2012 - 01:55
It's been a while since I've read the way of the superior man, I'm going to reread it again soon. But speaking of rereading - I just went over manwhores "in the way you do anything, you do everything." Amazing article. Thanks so much MW.
It says "If you're trying to use this "PU" to fill a huge fucking hole in your life, your head, your emotional being.. well you're fucked. Don’t ignore that stuff, attempt to use PU to fill it, and then blame PU for the frustration you feel."
The article is obviously geared towards men but replace "PU" in the above quote with just about anything and it can apply to anyone. My question is that us men are responsible for penetrating the world and being emotionally grounded. It's mentioned in the article that woman are allowed to be ditzy, bat shit crazy, emotionally unstable, etc. because the man should have that handled. David Deida says that and manwhore says woman can play and experience emotions in the playground that is a mans stability.
But take say if my close female friend had some major issues. Her daddy touched her when she was young and now has weird issues. She just got dumped by her long term boyfriend of 3 years and is thinking of taking him back. She comes to me for some emotional stability and I calm her down and tell her everything is fine while allowing her to feel her emotions. The question I have is do I tell her:
"If you're trying to use "boys" to fill a huge fucking hole in your life, your head, your emotional being.. well you're fucked. Don’t ignore that stuff, attempt to use Boy friends to fill it, and then blame boyfriends for the frustration you feel."
Emotions play a huge role in woman's life but they shouldn't control it like the above situation does. So as a man relating to a woman how would you handle that situation?
I know what I like in woman. I know what I like in a fuck buddy, a gf, a friend, a ons, a girl to mess around in a club, etc. I got LOTS of time to figure it out but I wonder what I would want in a wife/baby momma.. I wonder if all girls when you get nice and intimate with them are emotional unstable. Haha cause that has been my experience so far. Which is cool, very womanly. I just want to know more about the woman's role as I know plenty about the mans.
It says "If you're trying to use this "PU" to fill a huge fucking hole in your life, your head, your emotional being.. well you're fucked. Don’t ignore that stuff, attempt to use PU to fill it, and then blame PU for the frustration you feel."
The article is obviously geared towards men but replace "PU" in the above quote with just about anything and it can apply to anyone. My question is that us men are responsible for penetrating the world and being emotionally grounded. It's mentioned in the article that woman are allowed to be ditzy, bat shit crazy, emotionally unstable, etc. because the man should have that handled. David Deida says that and manwhore says woman can play and experience emotions in the playground that is a mans stability.
But take say if my close female friend had some major issues. Her daddy touched her when she was young and now has weird issues. She just got dumped by her long term boyfriend of 3 years and is thinking of taking him back. She comes to me for some emotional stability and I calm her down and tell her everything is fine while allowing her to feel her emotions. The question I have is do I tell her:
"If you're trying to use "boys" to fill a huge fucking hole in your life, your head, your emotional being.. well you're fucked. Don’t ignore that stuff, attempt to use Boy friends to fill it, and then blame boyfriends for the frustration you feel."
Emotions play a huge role in woman's life but they shouldn't control it like the above situation does. So as a man relating to a woman how would you handle that situation?
I know what I like in woman. I know what I like in a fuck buddy, a gf, a friend, a ons, a girl to mess around in a club, etc. I got LOTS of time to figure it out but I wonder what I would want in a wife/baby momma.. I wonder if all girls when you get nice and intimate with them are emotional unstable. Haha cause that has been my experience so far. Which is cool, very womanly. I just want to know more about the woman's role as I know plenty about the mans.
Mon, 10/29/2012 - 02:59
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Re: Question about the woman's role
Yes you can still guide them and help them. Being free to be a "woman" does not mean being a slave to old horrible programming
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