QUICK - I NEED THREESOME ADVICE FAST
Been texting a girl I met at the bar a few nights ago. She changed our plans from icecream (its snowing lol), to me just coming over to her house and hanging out. Sweet.
Its gonna be me, her, and her hot friend....
Guys. Help me pop my threesome cherry. Regardless, I'm gonna fuck my girl...but can't leave one customer unattended for another ;)
This is going down in about 2hrs
Here's my gameplan:
I'm just gonna walk into her place and flirt with her like normal, turning her on and shit, completely oblivious to the other girl. Then bring the energy to both of them and warm up the other girl I'm not familiar with and finally, create a strong bubble between me and main girl, and even getting real hot and heavy in front of the other girl to allow the other girl to feel like she's missing out.
Then kinda give my girl the look of "Ya, lets bring her in too. She's looking like a lost puppy". And izzz onnnnn like donkey konggg.
The downsides are that I haven't fucked my girl yet and the other girl is her best friend. So naturally, they'll have better chemistry and if I'm not careful, they'll walk all over me and no sexytime for daddy :(
So I'm basically gonna turbo charge in the beginning with my girl, bring it down, engage the other one, then back on my girl, and make the other feel left out.
EDIT:
After typing that out above, I'm thinking I may just actually go balls to the wall with my girl and enjoy her fully and let HER game her friend into the threesome. Cause she'll see her best friend not getting this bomb strapped dick
All while putting my intentions on the line of having a good time with all of em.
Yay or nay?
I dig the last game plan my dude. Go kill it homie!!!
...wish I could help but I am a threesome virgin. I would imagine you don't want to logically bring up the idea of a threesome at any point during the interaction, but you already knew that.
Wow, what a time to check out the forum!
My first thought was how Tyler would setup threesomes with his (bi) girlfriend and the chick he is picking up by first having them compliment each others looks, then ask if she's ever kissed a girl, then talking about them kissing or telling them to kiss. Basically stepping it out with his already compliant and interested bisexual girlfriend.
The other questions is are they less bi-sexual and you're trying to fuck them both while they all 100% focused on you.
I know Manwhore has some posts on threesomes also.
I'd say find a way to probe it with little questions and then go from there. If they don't seem to be about it, then don't push it and just try to bang your girl, non-committally, without her considering you as a bf and being more open to sharing you in the future with her roommate.
Perhaps some non-judgemental sex talk to open them up abou their experiences, or if you're young and it fits your vibe the "never have I ever game" etc.
Nowhere here have you mentioned a prior discussion of this with your girl, so I'd play it more as reconnance for a threesome, with the possibility of setting it up in the future, while making sure to at least establisht he beachhead of fucking your girl (and you know, fuck her well... you know she's going to give her friend the full report lol).
I dig the last game plan my dude. Go kill it homie!!!...wish I could help but I am a threesome virgin. I would imagine you don't want to logically bring up the idea of a threesome at any point during the interaction, but you already knew that.
I'd say you can logically bring up the topic of sexuality, in a way that indirectly applies to the girls.
And you can calibrate to their responses to decide how/if you can guide it to talking about threesomes generally and talking about sexuality with them directly, or finally threesomes with them directly.
I wouldn't force any bisexual agenda Jihad. I haven't explored much into threesomes but I do remember MW discussing how a threesome doesn't have to be bisexual for the ladies and that making it appear that way is the quickest path to make the situation uncomfortable for them.
Ah Ya Ofcourse...thanks guys! LIke the idea of just being a sexual dude around them and setting the frame that "ya this is me".
This sums up my gameplan lol. Been reading every threesome post by MW the past 1hour lol.
"I want to make a big point here. I made sure that the first girl felt like she was the most important. I’d pay attention to the new girl but always go back to the original girl. You have to handle her emotions. The second girl is there to be a toy and she knows this. Don’t let it be anything else that will fuck it up."
That was never the plan to begin with homie.
Here's what I've collected from MWs stuff on threebees
-Set the frame from the onset that you are a sexual dude. Not a dude with the agenda to have a threesome. Its just what you do. Talk it and be it.
-You can't fuck up a threesome because its a high value thing to do. So be detached from outcome and blast that shit and enjoy it.
-Your original girl needs to feel like she's the one and the other is just a toy. So be emotionally aware of that dynamic.
-Don't force it or go balls to the wall on the 2nd girl. She is supposed to feel like an accessory and should be inspired into it after seeing you and her friend go at it. Allow her to come into it and set the stage for it to happen.
-Part of being the sexual dude is that you can and should just start playing around, ripping your girls clothes off and juggling her titties around. Its OK to do that around other girls if they see the other girl giggling and enjoying it. Escalate on both.
-POWER MOVE into it. Picking your girl up and messing around with her. Getting them to play with eachother. Whipping your dick out int he midst of it after the stage is set.
-Prize your sexuality like a mofo.
-Set the frame from the onset that you are a sexual dude. Not a dude with the agenda to have a threesome. Its just what you do. Talk it and be it.
-You can't fuck up a threesome because its a high value thing to do. So be detached from outcome and blast that shit and enjoy it.
But you're not a dude who "has threesomes", although you can certainally be a "sexual dude" generally (and probably are).
Help me pop my threesome cherry.
...and those girls might have already had threesomes. Hell that might be their plan, and they're just testing you to see if you're cool.
I think some of these inner game gymnatistics can be self-defeating, at least when I don't seem them coming together congruently, that's just me. If it makes sense to you then roll with it.
I for one would want to be able to talk with them about their sexualities, in an open and cool way, and with that you might find out that one or both has done threesomes before, or even together, or maybe sepearately and now "It's such a shame you haven't had that experience together. I mean, are you even really 'roommates' if you've never had a threesome together?" Gotta christen the new place right? lol
All those tactics Manwhore discussed are good, and also probably easier to pull off after you're already fucking the one chick and have discussed the plan with her in advance.
Ya meant sexual dude not threesome dude..thats pretty clear. And that "threesome talk" you mentioned was already in my headspace.
I think you're breaking down my word choice to take everything in the literal sense as if im desparately trying for a threesome right now and am making quizlet cards to memorize and fill in multiple choice blanks on...uhh no.
Ya meant sexual dude not threesome dude..thats pretty clear. And that "threesome talk" you mentioned was already in my headspace.I think you're breaking down my word choice to take everything in the literal sense as if im desparately trying for a threesome right now and am making quizlet cards to memorize and fill in multiple choice blanks on...uhh no.
It wasn't 100% clear to me, and no, that's not what I'm doing.
I've only got your words choice to go off of, I'm looking at letters on a screen; I can't hear or see you so that's how I interpreted it and that's my help.
It's possible I'm biased by the innner game mental gymnastics I often see with people trying to grasp RSD mindsets, and that wasn't you at all.
All that's left to say is I hope you come back here and write up your experience.
Good luck!
Jihad message me. And yes Merv's annoying as fuck with that shit
Jihad message me. And yes Merv's annoying as fuck with that shit
No worries MW! (and Jihad)
I thought my analysis was helpful. I'm only here to be of benefit and stimulate learning.
If people are annoyed, I'll remove myself from this or any other discussions.
I still wish everyone success in their goals!