Quick Question: Daygame - Exercising those Cold Approach Muscles, Bit of advice
Thu, 02/28/2013 - 20:07
Hello ello ello bruvvas, I suppose a quick intro is in order since I'm a newbie on the forum.
Name's Eli, I'm from the UK and I've been aware of cold approach pickup for about 2 years- dossed about for 1 of those years- dabbled for half of the second- now I'm moving to get shit handled. Been through a month of MW Training (WOOP WOOP!)- and looking forward to a second.
Trying to keep it brief- I'm pretty comfortable talking to women, much more so at night in the club.
During the day though I've fallen into a habit of pussying out of approaching- like, I'll see a cute chick- hold a little eye contact and... just not go. It's a little ridiculous, I tend to just re-focus on some random shit- or lose focus entirely. (I know it's just one of those- BALLS UP AND GO SON, sitches, but I'm looking for a little guidance- or a kick in the ass. Either works.) Funny thing is, if I'm with the boys or somethin and we're actually out for pretty much that reason alone- I go, no prob.
What I'm saying is I'd very much like to be comfortable getting on with my day- seeing a cute/sexy beanie- and hitting her up on the way to whatever/wherever place I'm headed.
Anyways, what I'm asking you boys is- when you were starting out flexing those cold approach muscles- did you go through any motions to get your head in the game? did you give yourself "Approach 3 mixed sets today" goals? Or did you just balls up and go son? Just looking for your tried and tested methods- yadda yadda.
Cheers boys!
Eli.
Name's Eli, I'm from the UK and I've been aware of cold approach pickup for about 2 years- dossed about for 1 of those years- dabbled for half of the second- now I'm moving to get shit handled. Been through a month of MW Training (WOOP WOOP!)- and looking forward to a second.
Trying to keep it brief- I'm pretty comfortable talking to women, much more so at night in the club.
During the day though I've fallen into a habit of pussying out of approaching- like, I'll see a cute chick- hold a little eye contact and... just not go. It's a little ridiculous, I tend to just re-focus on some random shit- or lose focus entirely. (I know it's just one of those- BALLS UP AND GO SON, sitches, but I'm looking for a little guidance- or a kick in the ass. Either works.) Funny thing is, if I'm with the boys or somethin and we're actually out for pretty much that reason alone- I go, no prob.
What I'm saying is I'd very much like to be comfortable getting on with my day- seeing a cute/sexy beanie- and hitting her up on the way to whatever/wherever place I'm headed.
Anyways, what I'm asking you boys is- when you were starting out flexing those cold approach muscles- did you go through any motions to get your head in the game? did you give yourself "Approach 3 mixed sets today" goals? Or did you just balls up and go son? Just looking for your tried and tested methods- yadda yadda.
Cheers boys!
Eli.
Thu, 02/28/2013 - 20:51
#1
No advise. haven't done
No advise. haven't done serious daygame myself in probably 4-5 months
But I gotta start doin this shit more- so many fuckin CUTIES walkin around
But I gotta start doin this shit more- so many fuckin CUTIES walkin around
Thu, 02/28/2013 - 21:12
#2
The cool thing is walking up
The cool thing is walking up to a girl, telling her she's damn hot, and watching and enjoying her reaction to it. It's pretty sexy
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Thu, 02/28/2013 - 22:02
#3
Yup... THE BEST
Yup... THE BEST
Thu, 02/28/2013 - 22:47
#4
I hear that man- clearly
I hear that man- clearly looking at it the wrong way-
It is pure madness how many beautiful women I see strolling round left-right and center on my day-to-day-
But the Londoners mentality gets to me, "Get from A to B bro, GET FROM A- TO- B."- Fuck 'B', 9 times out of 10, 'B' ain't going anywhere.
Gotta stop and smell those proverbial roses more often- if only for that reaction.
It is pure madness how many beautiful women I see strolling round left-right and center on my day-to-day-
But the Londoners mentality gets to me, "Get from A to B bro, GET FROM A- TO- B."- Fuck 'B', 9 times out of 10, 'B' ain't going anywhere.
Gotta stop and smell those proverbial roses more often- if only for that reaction.
Thu, 02/28/2013 - 23:15
#5
Hey Eli,that's how I do it:
Hey Eli,
that's how I do it: When I see a hottie while I'm walking around town and in case I don't approach her I won't be happy afterwards... "Why didn't I just walk up to her and make her day?" The only thing that counts for me is that I take action and approach her. The way you describe it is the most romantic thing for her to happen. You just walk down the street you "literally" just saw her and approached.
It is more spontaneos than if you'd just be going out with your mates for daygaming girls and you "literally" saw her. In one word it is really really amazing and beautiful.
Furthermore it won't just make her day but it will make yours as well.
I personally don't go by the 3x approach rule a day. I live in a smaller city than London. I didn't see a 7+ girl in one and a half hour of walking around in the city centre ^^
That's how I did it I went solo in Soho (London) opened plenty of girls and after that I just implemented daygame in my daily life^^
By the way you live in the daygame heaven compared to my hometown.
Take advantage of that ;)
By the way something that helped me was this video of Todd: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GpaQidARpHk
that's how I do it: When I see a hottie while I'm walking around town and in case I don't approach her I won't be happy afterwards... "Why didn't I just walk up to her and make her day?" The only thing that counts for me is that I take action and approach her. The way you describe it is the most romantic thing for her to happen. You just walk down the street you "literally" just saw her and approached.
It is more spontaneos than if you'd just be going out with your mates for daygaming girls and you "literally" saw her. In one word it is really really amazing and beautiful.
Furthermore it won't just make her day but it will make yours as well.
I personally don't go by the 3x approach rule a day. I live in a smaller city than London. I didn't see a 7+ girl in one and a half hour of walking around in the city centre ^^
That's how I did it I went solo in Soho (London) opened plenty of girls and after that I just implemented daygame in my daily life^^
By the way you live in the daygame heaven compared to my hometown.
Take advantage of that ;)
By the way something that helped me was this video of Todd: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GpaQidARpHk
Sun, 03/03/2013 - 21:37
#6
Cheers
Cheers Deeb!
Good vid mate, and I like the perspective you've got going- I'll definately try my hand at adopting it.
Solo is most def the answer bro, I have actually never gone true solo. Always had a little something as a crutch, friend or otherwise- so It's about fucking time I did.
Good vid mate, and I like the perspective you've got going- I'll definately try my hand at adopting it.
Solo is most def the answer bro, I have actually never gone true solo. Always had a little something as a crutch, friend or otherwise- so It's about fucking time I did.
Mon, 03/04/2013 - 05:06
#7
Hey dude, I am actually
Hey dude, I am actually working on making this transition too
Posted an entry on my FR's where I broke down some concepts that will help with the logistics/get over some rationalizations about the daytime approach. http://www.rsdnation.com/node/347224?page=1#comment-1035728
Basically in the beginning you need to implement a RULE where you say, "I am going to do x on y day" and then follow through with it. It's all about taking the first step, after that it's easy
Posted an entry on my FR's where I broke down some concepts that will help with the logistics/get over some rationalizations about the daytime approach. http://www.rsdnation.com/node/347224?page=1#comment-1035728
Basically in the beginning you need to implement a RULE where you say, "I am going to do x on y day" and then follow through with it. It's all about taking the first step, after that it's easy