Rael Infield Reports
I'm not a real Nazis, I just take the world famous German work ethics as an inspiration and not the Supreme race philosphy; for all faggot out there lashing supress emotion on a fucking keyboard....
If it's not appropriate or nor endorse just delete this shit manwhore.
Lol. Link to your other fr?
Dafuq?
^^My reaction
EFF Sunday 06 April 2014
I meet up with Jesus in what will be from now on our backyard, in the middle of Paris.
I sense from the start the guy is cool, good sense of self, a lot of experience in life, and the right mindset to touch the stars.
We bounce from pub to bar to street. He and I actually do not have AA, it’s just that….we don’t do it.
Jesus would like to have a drink in the street of Doom.
I know the street, you need a group of female to enter their shitty bar.
We ask anyways. Bouncer say his line and I turn around, point to a group of girl smoking who just stare at me with haze in the eyes, yeah bitch, I don’t care.
We then bounce to bar where we exchange our storys, Rael and Jesus start to vibe together and I like the guy, he will be in my crew for sure.
He got the aura of the high value chic guy + the look of the prisoner.
When we exchange our experience, two female in front of us in the bar, especially the blond, keep looking at Jesus, I guess that what they call “peacocking”. But that’s just him, the guy got style.
Anyways she keep turning back and giggling.
We ignore because we do our stuff and I dig his storys.
At some point Jesus go in… like that. Motherfucker isn’t scared. Of course, he’s Jesus.
This is news to you, girl got approach anxiety, lol ?
I finish my drink go take a shit downstairs and wing him. It’s the Classic two females two males. I engage the one on my right, she’s kind of nervous we talk about her study, travel etc… but it got no sexual threat in it. Her boyfriend is two table behind…cool.
I’m not physical and asshole as my usual self. More man to woman would have been great instead of talking about project and shit, I got my wing Jesus for that, need to go the core of it: you female me male LET’S DO THIS.
We say goodbye and bounce. By the way the blond girl kill me when she say “…..I…follow…” to the Jesus question “what did you do when you go out?”.
Jesus does the job he approach guys, group of girl, we walk around a lot and I want to sense the guy.
I personally talk to a lady in front of a bar, another lady in the bar vibe with her it was apparently her birthday claw her but again no man to woman.
Jesus enjoy himself with a girl who keep staring at him. Look matter a lot and we are the most amazing good looking guy on this town.
We then proceed to bounce again. Talk about logistic and our plans, the place die around 1h A.M.
Jesus point to a group of girl while finishing his sandwich and we’re in, for me again I’m not man to woman enough physical etc… It’s very non-threatening.
That’s basically it.
We go in front of a bar and as I talk to Jesus and… a cigarette hit his chest. I snap immediately grab the cigarette and go straight to the group where it came from, I check the group not sure it’s them, they apologize anyway.. it’s cool. Love to be confrontational.
We walk back to our home I grab a couple hugging each other I told the guy “I love you more than she do” the guy is afraid, and a fag, and can’t vibe. He don’t get it. The girl love it. I eject kinda fag at my taste, next time when I see the girl receptive cut off the guy or go for the three way make out. Or kill the guy right there and take the female.
Anyway Jesus know what is up, and Nazis are back in Paris.
RSD don’t come to Paris ? For real ? The number one destination in the world ? Yeah because our inner circle is fag and people are stifled as fuck but as Nazis we take over no matter what.
Next time we hit this shit properly.
Lesson:
More man to woman.
Number one objective take the habits to approach everything everywhere like an afterthought.
Take a bootcamp.
Rael
Same session by Jesus:
10:00 I meet Wing in front of the *******************, Lionel is super cool dude, confident and plenty of good vibes! He knows what’s up with things! We discuss a bit of RSD Material and hit the road with a lot of bars to get familiar with the environment. While walking we warm up and salute a bunch of girls without opening up …
We hit the first bar and the bouncers tell us we need to have women with us … We turn around Wing points at these chicks smoking to join us but they were refusing (Great move from Lionel!) … I point at this girl telling her to join but no success. That’s a cool move though! (I think we could’ve actually jumped on those chicks and establish a little bit of connection then drag them in, let’s not lose it when we get a refusal, chicks were laughing but we just moved on)
We walk up to the end of the street we check that Latin bar … I bullshit with the bouncer as if I’m a tourist not knowing French … he asks again for women … Right beside me I take a look at these 2 girls waiting they’re about 5-6’s I ask them if we could go together and they had big smiles on their faces and were checking us from bottom to top, we were probably their 8-9’s but the bouncer breaks it by saying “Not possible” … It was a funny situation and I even sensed the bouncer wanted to laugh.
I’ve felt that the street was short that we’re starting to get noticed moving back n forth, approaching vibe goes down a little bit, and we’re heading to Odeon. We see this random bar, we stop by for drinks. Wing and I discuss a lot of deep subjects and get to know each other more and while chilling in a corner of the bar. Lionel’s got this cool boss confidence and personality, love it! The type of guy who can push things forward! I’m stoked he’s going to Vegas for the RSD Summit!
2 girls sitting alone in front of us keep checking us out, I’m like let’s approach, Wing is like they’re totally into you (I love the state pumps even if delusional!) Bam no thinking! I move and I open up introducing I’m jesus and I ask for their names and I sit down, I keep talking non-sense to dissolve any awkwardness … They’re like we don’t speak English, I convert to a bit of French and I ask “Tu parles un peu d’anglais” and the bitches open up and start talking in good English. In the moment not thinking of what will be next … Wing hits the bathroom and comes back we vibe well with these chicks.(Got to love Wing’s boss attitude, pretty powerful vibe … jumps in at the right times and helps!) I got the “I have a boyfriend” card … I didn’t care, chick was interested and kept asking questions and we touched during conversation and laughed about French expressions etc..
We’re out of the bar we hit a Greek bar … We vibe well in the place, it’s loud it’s a nice environment … We order drinks, Bar tenders are like “you look like Jesus” high 5’s talking to a greek guy beside me. Wing is like this girl on the corner would totally suck your dick … I get the beer, I talk to her … Talking in French a bit and she was really shy and then I got cock-blocked from her friend. We move back to original spot, Lionel opens up these bunch of chicks behind us but lacked the motivation to go on since they were a bit old and not fun(I sensed the same thing but who cares). Guys beside me tap on the shoulder, I bullshit with them a bit. Wing is like opening these cool birthday chicks(Awesome job!)
We hit back St. Michel it was dying, we walk around … something to eat. We hit the fountain while eating. 3 Chicks by the fountain waiting for a bus. “Let’s Approach” Wing is totally in! We open them up and keep talking … we did a good job. Perhaps we can play this card as me trying to learn French and you can help me with finding the words.(You’re my French teacher could be fun!)
We hit back the bar street … Messing with 2 girls on the way back, street vibe goes down … Stagnation … it’s 1:15 we hit the metro.
Notices:
- At 10:00 and above it’s more challenging to get into clubs so our game was limited to streets and bars without bouncers.
-The interval between approaches wasn’t that good. It’s like we were waiting for the perfect opportunity. And sometimes there were chicks that we didn’t open just because we weren’t motivated enough or thought it wasn’t the perfect timing.
-It’s alright to be offensive to eachother or laugh at eachother in our friendship, you can push me or call me a “Pussy” everytime we lose a chance to approach. It’s no big deal on my side, you get my green lights!
-As a team, for our first time … to get to meet and know eachother + the challenges and the limitations of clubs+ time … I’m sure it would’ve been easier in clubs but that was our challenge for the night and we pretty did a great job!
Yo Bro, what's cooking? Some updates ...
Well Tuesday I said I would hit ************ ... Didn't happen as I had an urgent deadline with work and couldn't have gone out by any chance.
Yesterday I insisted on going out. A friend of mine "*******" from ****** she texts me and want to meet for a drink, she has a BF(in ******) but we hangout. Anyways I meet her at 6:30 ...
She works next to my place, close to ********* ... She has her working friends ... They were all girls. 6 girls with different nationalities and no other guy but me ... 2 from Germany, 1 Belgian, 1 Swedish, 1 from US and 1 from France... they're like 7's-8's
That was easy one, I talked and had fun with everyone of them. The fun part was me on the table with 6 cuties (I'm like yea that's the least I deserve) ... They're cool and all but I wasn't strongly attracted to them ... But it was just fun chatting and laughing ... I could tell that some of the girls were very attracted though
We leave the cafe, I go back home to grab a jacket ... I feel like a bit of adventure and some adrenaline ... I take the bicycle, I hit *********** around 9:30 ... I walk around looking for a crowded place ... I see a place called "********" in ************ ... I enter, order a beer start a conversation with bar tender, his friend comes we talk all together ... I'm radaring girls this moment and lots of eye contacts. We keep talking, the DJ jumps in, he's from mexico I meet him, cool dude wants to show me around and to take me to underground parties. By the time I built status and wanted to approach, most of the girls disappeared ... It felt super chody
No approaches, again I keep repeating the same shitty mistake ... I wait to approach due to "Resistance" even if at very minimum level. Fuuuuuuck!!! most girls at the place were checking me all the time ... Wherever I would look, I would see a girl looking at me ...
Sometimes I felt it's a bit impolite when I'm talking to the guys to leave in the middle of conversation and go talk to girls ... then it was too late as most of these girls disappeared because of me super chody waiting and waiting ...
Solo night Wednesday ... hahaha I need to Man the fuck up or I'll chop off my balls. Tonight I go again solo! But hey I built status around that bar as I get to meet the workers and the DJ who has access to other cool parties. Still not satisfying to me!
It's good to get pissed off ... because then it pushes you for more!
I entered that bar in ************. No girls around, 2 old guys right beside me. French they don't speak English, I open we talk in french bullshitting while radaring girls(to avoid stifling). The babies are starting to show ... I leave the guys politely, I'm like "J'aime rencontre nouvelle gens" ... Booom man to woman strong eye contact walking straight to a girl(cecile) "Je m'appelle Omar" I bullshit with her while touching a lot and she touches me more, we vibe for sometime. She talks to a male friend ... I said no cockblocking, I introduce myself to her guy friend and vibe with both him and the chick ... we all know eachother now. I'm like "Are you guys friends". She is like "He is not my boyfriend" lol nice answer ... another chica friend (frederick, seriously?) comes,I Open her. Talk n talk vibe and touch. I'm building a lot of status in the bar.
I sense the Vibe is going down, I see a guy beside me, I open him. Talk talk he goes to smoke cigarette outside. I choded a bit and was going to leave the bar as I sent you in SMS, but I didn't end up leaving the bar. I talk to 2 nice guys who are developing a "Dating" app and telling me it's a problem "How Men are afraid to approach women" ... I told them guys let's approach ... they're super stifled. Cute Spanish chick wants to order a drink, I open her. Vibed really well strong eye contacts, dragging her forward and backwards ... give her hugs she got her drink and wants to go back to her friends but she stuck for sometime. She goes to her friends. 2 nice guys are like hell yea that was cool!
Here is my favorite part of the night! A guy jumps in he's like "********" we keep bullshitting, he is like asking me about religion, I tell him I'm against religion and I don't believe in god. He throws a judgement on me, he is like "You have long hair and you look cool but I know you have problem with girls and women" I'm like big lebowski style I was like "Well that's your own opinion dude" ... In the mean time the hot chick appears on the bar ... Furious eye contact!! I leave the guy in the middle of the conversation impolitely ... Walkin up straight to hot girl ... You know when the wolf sees the sheep and there is no fucking chance to delay!
I grab her, strong eye contact, open her ... Pressure on pressure off, I look at her lips go close then go out and she is laughing uncontrollably during eye contact. Her friend comes Bang! I open her friend to avoid "Logistics" problems ... I'm cool with both now. I leave 29YO ********(Hot girl) I meet guys and girls standing behind me. They thought that ********* was my GF. By that time everyone is walking around winking high fiving me "Owning the place" ... ********* keeps chasing me. We order a shot together and while waiting for the shots I grab her from her hair and pull her towards me. I go for a makeout but she refuses so I hug her and go for a neck bite. She's like "Fuck I just met you and I really like you" and I'm like "Then come here" another makeout trial ... she's like "Fuck you if I fall in Love with you it would be very hard for me to get out" ... I'm like whatever she's like "You're a bad motherfucker" hahaha and i'm like why don't you spank me too ... and she's like spanking me, I'm like harder, that was funny. We're like holding hands and grabbing eachother and strongly flirting BF/GF frame most of the time.
Another funny part was looking on the other side of the bar while holding the chick and looking at the guy who told me I have problem with girls, I see fucking jealousy in his eyes!! It's a bit egoistic but FUCK YEA! Was a moment of glory!
I leave ********, I go outside I talk to new people ... and guess what?! Bitch comes again! I introduce her to the new people, she's like "Who the fuck are you? Who did you come up with? I'm like alone, she's like you're very courageous" ... her friend comes and wants to take her inside for a shot ... I claw ******** hardly, I'm like man to woman "You can't take my girl away from me" then I'm like whatever you're cool so I give you my girl please take her for more fun. They're both laughing ... They go inside and I keep talking with these guys. Bitch comes out again and standing we talk and she's like I'm going to leave ... I grab her from her hands to isolate and take her behind a tree away from the crowd ... I'm holding her on the tree... Strong eye contact goin again for a makeout and she's like "Fuck I just broke up with BF and I'm not ready for another heartbreak now!" ... I'm like "Fuck it, hey I adore you give me your number I wanna take you out" and she doesn't want to give it. She's like "Fuck this is so weird I hate it I feel so connected to you" ... She walks a bit away, I'm like you know what "We just met and perhaps we'll never meet again, let's make it special and have a kiss"... she walks away cursing me "Fuck you I love you!" and blowing kisses ... I'm like I'm not going to chode myself and run after her.(That was logic vs emotions so no worky but I was like who gives a fuck)
I go back talk to different people ... *********'s friend comes over and she's like where did she go she's so into you and she couldn't believe she just went back home. I'm like hey what's your number I would love to see you guys again ... she's like "No you don't want my number you want it for *********" LoooL stupid busted me ... I'm like whatever you're right she's like but hey we will see you again definitely if you come to this bar. I grab her for hugs and leave her.
I had a satisfaction with the night and about to leave. The "*******" guy comes and tells me he is "pissed at me as I left him during the conversation" ... I give him a hug too LOOOL ... It's the jealousy probably that was killing him. The 2 nice guys tell me fuck that was pretty good ... I got validated from the tribe I guess :P
I take a velib and back home. Not bad getting very physical quickly! Fuck yea, that was cool shit! Let's hit the shit again tomorrow!
Lessons to remember:
-Present state
-Fucking strong eye contact
It's very very very powerful! Tonight whenever my eye hits a girl's eyes, I wouldn't change direction of my eyes no matter what! ... I Keep it stuck and will not look away. Yes I look at you and I want to fuck you and I come to talk to you (Acting through your own intentions)
-Opening up quickly it doesn't matter what we open with but always leading by choosing what I want to talk about(Jumping between french and English)
-Getting physical while talking
Gaming was fun tonight. There is a magic to the eye contact! No hesitation!! No looking away!! If the eye meets the eye, wolf runs to eat the sheep, no delay! Cheers brother let's get down tomorrow!
Cheers bro!
EFF Saturday and Sunday 19 & 20 April 2014.
On Saturday Jesus have been hit on like 4 times because of his style.
He approach group of girls easily, and he’s good at engaging the whole group. We fedayin out a bit and we are not quite approach machine.
I approach a girl near the train station.
It was awkward and she freak out at first because I touch her from behind on the approach, she freaks out but I don’t care. She calm down and I told her that I saw this guy talking to her and want to know if she know him. She say no and he bore her, she also say she don’t know. Which I respond of course I just find you very hot and want to talk to you. She blush and told me I can’t say that.
Then the running out of things to say hit me.
Damn.
On Sunday we fedayin A LOT but approach from time to time, the area is not the same as yesterday and kind of suck shit.
But we both have no AA we just don’t execute.
I approach a girl by singing she fall for it right away. Then I fail to lead the conversation and Jesus take care of it.
I go to a partie to a friend of mine I vibe with everyone I’m in the Zone right away because I’m with my brother. But I should have approach the blond girl and vibe the redhead more. Also I should have close a girl with a jealous boyfriend trying to start some shit….
And I meet a big cook, she was funky and cute. I should have close her, I like her vibe and go direct on her ass she was digging me….
APPROACH AND CLOSE !!!!!!!!
I also approach a group of two girl by asking her if they speak English but again I wait for HER TO LEAD instead of taking responsibility about the interaction and it fade off.
Anyway for me the lesson:
- BE AN APPROACH MACHINE
- Put myself in the responsible seat when Jesus told me to approach I do it right away but when I’m on my own I don’t give myself permission.
- Lead by all mean.
- Who care about being akward.
- Gaming without needing Jesus.
If you have something to had you can Big fellas.
Rael
EFF from Monday 21 April 2014
I go out to the mall to buy some food. On my way I see one cutie, small brown hair cute face nice ass tight little body, she look like a chrismas present, same type as last Saturday but I don’t approach…. What a bitch.
I could have also hit on the casheer I spot 2 who were cute but don’t go for it.
On my way back home I was about to bounce to the train station to approach a girl there but instead I keep my diary in order because it will decay all the rest, so it’s a new leverage if you go out and don’t approach on the time you invest it’s gone…. F O R E V E R.
Damn.
Lesson:
- Approach machine. APPROACH EVERYONE MOTHERFUCKER
Rael.
EFF from Tuesday 22 April 2014
I go out to buy some food on my way to the mall I don’t approach but I don’t blame myself.
I go back home same thing Fedayin as fuck.
It’s not tolerable so I go to my town train station and I wait there to approach some females I say to myself approach 5 women and go home. TIC TOC TIC TOC time is money, money is amplitude of movement and I need that.
I approach an old lady saying:
- This is an Iphone ?
- Blablabla
- A women of your generation with this kind of portable…
- It’s a galaxy.
- Samsung.
She was a little bit afraid and I bounce.
I hate that I don’t do it what Fedayin… I will go out EVERYDAY until I do it on my own. It’s crazy when Jesus point to a bitch I do it but on my own I can’t…..
Same lesson:
- Approach machine on my own
- BOOTCAMP IS INEVITABLE
Rael.
EFF from Wednesday 23 April 2014
Meet up with Jesus. The guy is relax from the start and I’m a bit tense. We walk around a lot before approaching. Then Jesus point to some girl and I approach saying some bullshit.
I approach a mom and her daughter saying : it’s a mom and daughter day ? They look at me who is this guy, yeah no one does that bitch.
At the end we are pretty much unstifled, I scream do the ballerina. Jesus told me to approach a group and I don’t do it.
This is in my opinion very dangerous because we need to have authority on each other.
Then I told him to approach twice but he don’t do it. The guy do not realize how money he is.
I approach an ugly girl typing told her it’s unhealthy to use so much her phone she’s receptive and shy. It’s fucking funny guys, the girls GOT APPROACH ANXIETY.
And, out of nowhere she appear, blond checking her phone shining in the crowd.
I approach her do you know my friend Omar, she’s receptive and b e a u t i f u l goddamn.
Lesson:
- Being approach machine on my own.
- Unstifled deliberately on the way to the field.
We are gods.
Rael
You've done a fucking awesome job with the last approach mother fucker! I was so stuck in my comfort zone ... You didn't even need me to tell you to go approach the girl. You approached a hottie all by yourself!
You wanted me to approach, I am hesitating ... You did it all by yourself you crazy motherfucker! You broke through my resistance and your resistance ... you didn't even wait for me. Fucking awesome job! I see your future with solo gaming!!
My observation for you today:
I feel like you have a very serious vibe on the field and it's not a bad thing because you want to accomplish and you want to do it! This attitude is successful for making things happen but with women you need to remember to find the balance in the seriousness of taking action and also having fun. You don't want to be too serious about approaching that you're either stressed or missing out on the fun of playing the game. That's why you can approach but might lose momentum after opening because you're not "in the moment"/self amused or having fun.
It's a challenge we all fall into, sometimes we focus on doing that we miss out on having fun while doing.
Hit me up with some observations or critique ... Today although I'm having really good emotions/vibes but the momentum of taking action is low and stuck in comfort zone duuuuh! weak leverage but there is a rise of new feelings doing this everyday ... It's getting cooler and cooler!
Cheers Motherfucker and see you tomorrow!
JESUS
EFF from Thursday 24 April 2014
Go out to Champ Elysée my train is late so I only spend 20 minutes in field. On my way, and while preparing, to the field I have this internal resistance. But once there it disappear.
Jesus have already approach 3 groups.
Thing is I don’t remember my approachs.
I approach a group of 2 girls here to celebrate a commemoration. While crossing the crowd of people all this fedayin look at us like we carry a Bomb…..
Anyways I approach the girl asking what is their flag for ?
Female leader (kinda cute): blablabla….
I proceed to lock eye contact, the thing that make all the difference is the EYES.
She start to heat because my eyes burn her.
I bounce.
I approach a group of 3 girls saying:
Rael: Can we know what is this hat ?
Female leader: It’s a cat. (energic happy)
I take it and put it on asking Jesus how it looks like.
Rael: You girls are very open, it’s great because people here suck shit.
Females: Yeah so true.
This girl had a great vibe, they were not physically beautiful but they were very Funky.
I remember a girl, she was showing her back to me and looks like an Asian so I approach her saying: Asian. She say no…. and was waiting to being lead, I can tell.
And I don’t persist. Its there: I don’t persist when I hook.
Jesus told me I wait for a reaction after my opener.
Anyways we talk about taking a bootcamp and I bounce.
Later at home I want to go out again, it’s done, I’m addicted to this shit. I know I will probably spot nothing, got get some cash at the ATM. I spot a blond girl walking with heels, it’s hilarious this bitch wear this shoes for some conformism reasons but are not comfortable at all, look like she is about to break her legs….
And I did not approach right away, I take my cash, bounce, see her go for approaching then rationalization kick in, it’s at night she will freaks out.
Fedayin ? Really ? And you want to meet fuckin D ?
Rael
EEF Friday 25 April 2014
I go to my mall for 25 minutes.
I ask for the condoms section to a women from the mall but didn’t approach where the glory is. And the glory was the group of two girls and one guys making their purchase. And approach the blond on full intent mode.
This lack of willpower, I make it so beat myself up for not following the process which is simple:
A P P R O A C H.
Lesson:
Being an approach machine.
Rael
Will post the rest tomorrow digest this and give me your tought.
I have 9 hours of decay so we can't interact live but i still love you bitchs.
EEF Saturday 26 April 2014
We go to the George café with my crew I go in stifled, a little bit I should unstifled on the way to the bar on PURPOSE.
Anyways at some point I get in the zone we own the shit, but I fall in the trap of staying in the fun zone, I don’t close. Number close, kiss close, finger close. I’m not a closer.
I also don’t approach girl outside my alliances or by my peer group willpower.
Lesson:
Not a closer.
Approach machine.
Rael
EEF Sunday 27 April 2014
20h30 at Champs Elysee we sing a bit talk about tracy chapman. I approach here and there but not quite like I want.
I remember Jesus approaching a girl at the end.
Lessons:
Approach machine.
Rael
EEF Monday 28 April 2014
I go out to saint germain park my car because I spot a blond but don’t approach her when I see her with a group of guys.
Lesson:
Approach machine.
Rael
EEF Tuesday 29 April 2014
Go out with Jesus it’s raining but we don’t give a fuck.
We don’t approach quite like we should do. I approach a group of two Asian one is like : no sorry sorry.
The other is hook but I’m weak in my subcom as fuck and don’t push it.
At the end Jesus send me in a girl checking her phone, I go in don’t know what to say so just look at her in the eyes, she’s into it right away. She’s not cute a 6.5 for me but I shoot the shit, she ask if I want to go for a coffee she’s down to fuck as hell, I can tell. But I have other project for tomorrow. We vibe very well I’m in the zone. She’s Italian and I’m attractive as fuck. I facebook close her and bounce, have to check if she got some hot friends.
When I tell that to Omar he’s like WTF??!! You should have CLOSE motherfucker he want to slap me.
And he’s right I should have push it = experiences = adventure. This is here is the key to have a wingman he push you beyond where you think you should.
JESUS = +6
A girl is under the rain on the phone I tell her to come here and claw her under our umbrella. I should have taken her phone turn it off and make shit happen.
We bounce. I want to approach on the metro station but don’t……
Then on my town see a group of girl and don’t approach. I would have go “Girls what are you doing this late on the street? Come to my house and we fuck the 4 of us.”
Go home to watch the webinar of todd.
Lesson:
Approach machine.
Rael
Lionel and I meet around 9:20 at the venue … its pouring rain and we don’t give a damn, we’re going out and we’re making things happen!
We start walking in the rain and at night, there are less people on the streets. We have been looking for interesting subjects to approach or let’s just say we both have a bit of resistance … We’re discussing a lot of state related material and tips … I open 2 random chicks super girl and her friend from Belgium, was an easy approach. Lionel opens 2 Chinese chicks. These were like warm-ups.
We walk down the road again looking for subjects then Lionel is like let’s go back home and I say “One more” ozzie style … Lionel opens up Italian chick with yellow umbrella … I’m standing away watching the interaction sensing that Lionel is rocking it there once it passed 2-3 minutes period. I can tell that dude hooked up, He comes back after 10 mins or so mentioning that it was awesome and that lady italiana wanted to have a coffee with him but he refused, for me it’s good but it could’ve been pushed further. It’s good because it defines his ability to refuse and to take decisions which is man to woman and also coming from a position of abundance but if I were in his position I would’ve taken the chance to push it further and see how the experience unfolds … Who gives a fuck, dude is happy and we both know that we’ll have better experiences anyways. Lionel went straight from “let’s bounce and go home” to “Shit I want to approach more” and state was oozing out of him so I point to him at a girl standing by the street lights, he opens her … we talk before leaving and he grabs a girl talking on the phone and brings her under the umbrella … Oh shit girl with trash bag on her head going into the metro, See you again soon Lionel ….
Jesus
EEF Wednesday 30 April 2014
I go out alone to my train station at night and see nothing but it’s a fucking excuses of course.
Tonight it’s a shame because I don’t take action and I go to sleep because my 1 goal require sleep, otherwise I would have bounce to a club, free tonight, near my town.
Lesson:
Approach machine
Rael
EFF Thursday 1 May 2014
Go out at Champs Elysee to meet Jesus. We walk a bit but still don’t approach as much as we need.
Wasted night because I don’t follow the process of being a fucking approach machine.
Then we hang out and have fun, Jesus is one of a kind.
I should also have been better on the logistical side because we could have gone to the club for free, our bouncer game is on point because of our natural co-understanding of the front door club dynamics, don’t supplicate in front of what represent the authority AKA the fucking bouncers.
We make a deal we have to approach on our own before being able to wing with each other.
Lesson:
Being an approach machine.
Rael
EFF Friday 02 May 2014
Go out to champs elysee got headache but who cares ? I encounter train agent who ask for a ticket I say straight away I got nothing, I remain unfazed and don’t supplicate, I’m also well-dressed which will make the quenelle easier to insert.
Its three agents and one of them is a female, it’s funny how the female love to use their “power” when in a position of authority. But I burn her with my eyes straight hood, she do not maintain or try to make eye contact anymore this bitch. I’m friendly and cool to the other agents give him a false address and name, then bounce.
I’m in the zone.
I meet Jesus, we apply the rules of approaching on our own before winging, Jesus is not hot today but I’m on Baby.
I approach 2 women who search something in Paris I help them out (unattractive), I continue walking, I spot a hot girl, libanesebitch, and a man sitting on a bench I walk past her and didn’t approach I spot redhair on the other bench and don’t approach neither, I check my phone pretending to do something like a faggot, take a good 10 minutes before approaching libanesebitch. She stand and start to walk away I follow her when I’m 5 meter behind her, she look behind see me, I dodge and go to a grocerystore pretending to read a book….. WHAT THE FUCK. I go back and approach Redhair:
Did you do henne ?
No it’s a color but I fuck it up.
Did you know henne ?
Yeah.
Maybe it’s the light but it looks like Henne.
I bounce leaving it as that…. She was receptive I could have close…
I go to meet Jesus again. Send him in and approach an blond girl who look great, go for it right away, I sense people looking at me like “Game ? In the street like this ?” Yeah you fedayin. Anyways I go too light and not enough grounded and also don’t persist. But she was still into it.
Then I meet my hero:
In my report I post a picture here. But you will never see my face ever, bitchs
Anti CK Hero aka the reincarnation of prophet Jeremie AKA Henry
We bounce to the other sidewalk, we walk around ain’t doing it right.
Omar approach a couple of girls who “reject” him right away. Yeah who cares...
We go to the club ZIGZAG, I’m used to DUPLEX and let me tell you DUPLEX ain’t shit. ZIGZAG was great I shoot the shit with the staff and I go to give my coat to the locker room. I pay for a guy who don’t have cash because I don’t pay the entrance and I feel like it, I do what I want to do.
We wait for the dancefloor to be crowded, I check the place out Jesus shoot the shit with a guy and told me to talk the guy next to me.
The guy got a fucking beard of Glory, told me he let it grow for 6 month.
I put some wet paper in my ear so I don’t become deaf.
I’m in the zone so I don’t remember some moment I was in the zone. I remember one little girl that I claw she say to me she lost her friends I should had grab her hands and go ok let’s find them out and isolate her, hit her with my aura and go for the close in a dark area…
I claw a women from the staff I’m weak as fuck in my sub-com.
Then I claw a girl for Omar saying my Gold opener who open 100% no rejection: Hey did you meet Jesus ?
She’s from Marseille, we vibe with her. At some point I say yes she’s a bad girl, she look at me like she want to kill me, I keep eye contact and say to Jesus see she want to kill me. She giggles.
At some point I go to a bench in the club and a guy come to me and say that there a lot of bitch in the club. The guy keep touching me and I was thinking he tell me there a lot of “dick” in the club so I grab him by the neck and told him I’m not gay straight away.
He told me noooo I mean a lot of bitch. I laugh told him yeah you’re right and claw a girl on my right. She’s into me, I love her cheek and keep poking it, I could have push but once again I’m an underachiever.
Then we bounce and I play with my scarf of love by whipping girl with it. Hilarious.
I head back home in the fucking cold.
I APPROACH ON MY OWN WITHOUT NEEDING A WING !!!!!! BITCH !!
Lesson:
- Approach “everyone” in machine mode. And commit and push the shit with girl.
Rael
EFF Saturday 03 May 2014
We hit trocadero again. I was there before Jesus and my first mistake is to not unstifled myself, constantly sing in the metro, start arguing with someone, scream in the crowd.
To reach full not give a fuckness, come back full circle to childhood have to go through all this shit.
Anyways Jesus arrive we approach nothing until we meet one friends of mine, then Jesus send me in a group of two blond they completely ignore me. I could have use the “so racist” to push trough.
The only approach I remember is this one.
I spot a group of 4 policemen, policemen in France look like shit in their uniform by the way and they’re supposed to represent authority….
Anyway in the group there a blond. After wander around doing no approach no crazy shit at the end I approach this group I HAVE TO STOP THIS SHIT. Approach right away BITCH.
I go in to her:
What did I risk if I told you you’re sexy ?
Her: (blush) gibberish
Leader guy: You can’t say that.
Rael: Why ?
Leader guy: Because she’s a police women. And first of all you can’t say this to a woman.
Rael:….Yeah…but she smile.
Leader guy: No she don’t.
Rael to the blond: Didn’t you ?
Blond: No I’m not….giberrish (she smile nervously while saying this shit HILARIOUS)
Rael: Yeah she do.
Leader guy: It’s because of the sun. (Very shiny today)
Rael: I don’t think so she got an Icecap.
She was not that cute, I keep talking a little, they are done for life this fools….
Rael: And this guy? (Pointing to Jesus in a group of 6 girls, this motherfucker love big group) Can he hit on girl like this?
Police man: blablablabla
Rael: Let me tell him.
I go to join Jesus, I’m in the Z O N E.
I shoot the shit with the german girls, they love it. They are in Paris and leave at night. WE SHOULD HAVE PUSH TROUGH. They dig us like crazy, keep giving Eye contact when we left.
We are not quite approach machine and I see me and Jesus at the top of this shit.
Lesson:
- Approach machine on anyone. Shoot the shit talk with guys and everyone especially the situation you are scared of.
- Persist trough the interaction to the limit. CLOSE
Rael
Yeah here it all comes out. Dudes that can't close focus on being approach machines. Lol
EFF Sunday 04 May 2014
We meet at trocadero. Today it’s approach machine day.
We take the Vlib I’m the shit, I look fresh here we go. We walk down to see my friends who sell macaron and the way I don’t remember any approach which is a shame.
I remember a woman trying to cross the road while the red light is on.
Rael: HEY !!
Her: (scared come back)
Rael: Don’t do that I just save your life.
Her: (she laugh)
Rael & Jesus laugh too.
We go to talk to my friend. He’s a natural like no one else, he meet two girl the precedent week who offer him a room in a hotel in London for his birthday. They took his number not him… One of the girl is an actress in LA she’s in Paris to shot a had for 30 grand the day…. Yes..
He never cold approach and he is the essence of Calvin Klein ALWAYS situational. They meet him while picking macaron that he sell.
We continue walking to champs de Mars and Jesus approach a group of girl.
We sit in Champs de Mars I see a group that I don’t approach….
We go back to Jesus place eat a bit and bounce to field again.
Jesus approach a group of girl and they told him there father is just their he should leave, Jesus reply that it’s OK there father is a cool guy. I laugh at that so badass..
I don’t want to approach badly, Jesus send me in a group of like 9 women sitting, I ask them in English if they know a shop near the Trocadero….F A G G O T.
Then I take 4 minute to talk to the next group a girl and guys look like a couple say to her in English that I want to marry her in Vegas this summer. She explode out of laugh she don’t speak English, Jesus and me shoot the shit with her and some Asian girl. Using the classical JAPAN !!
We walk around I talk to 2 Algerian women, SALAM.
Jesus approach two other girls.
We go back to Trocadero place I diss a fat cunt eating a crepe with nutella. She don’t reply, her blindspot is as huge as her ass this fat bitch.
I discussed with Jesus about the fact that I’m a bitch and we need to push ourselves harder…
I want to send him in but I’m too intense he don’t like this shit. I approach the old woman he don’t want to approach by mimicking her…she just leave.
Then I head back to my place. I approach a girl right away on the train station:
Rael: I love your calf (I love calf of this bitch for real)
Her: What ? (Headphones on)
Rael: Did you ride a lot of bike ?
Her:blablablabla
Rael: I love your calf.
Vibe with her she’s into it. I separate without taking the number (7.5/10) but should have done it. CLOSE BITCH!
I walk some stairs faster than a girl on my left and say to her she’s slow, she giggles..
On my way back home on the train I read out loud my text with my brother, and it has a lot of hoes, fuck, dick and unstifled word in it.
I arrive at my home station, head out of the station see a girl staring at me point to her military style with a little mirk. She say me with her hand. I nod. She head toward me.
Shoot the shit with her starting:
Rael: I thought you were cute.
Her: (blush) blablabla into it….
I bounce again without taking the number. CLOSE BITCH !!!
Anyways since I go out every day doing this shit here the symptoms:
- I got headaches. And since I’m extremely strict with what I eat I never, ever, get sick or have headaches. The student from bootcamp experiment the same shit. It’s brain rewiring.
- The notion of time disappear the day before look like two weeks away….
Lesson:
- Approach machine still not on. Need to build the willpower to breakthrough.
- And CLOSE BITCH NUMBER FACEBOOK INSTANT DATE AND DICK SUCKERY
RAEL
By the way Manmotherfuckingwhore we're not friend anymore. I don't like your haircut anyways.
It means you're overcompensating for a lack in the real area.
It means you're overcompensating for a lack in the real area.
It's noted.
EFF Monday 05 May 2014
Go out solo to my mall:
Didn’t approach shit didn’t do shit.
SHAME…..
Lesson :
- Bootcamp
- Approach machine
RAEL
EFF Tuesday 06 May 2014
Go out to my mall:
Have a nap before so feel relax.
Talk to the first women I meet asking her if it’s broccoli season ?
Her: (headphone on)
Rael: repeat
Her: blablablablabla
It’s not.
I didn’t do the approach I should, girl with boyfriend especially.
SHAME AGAIN….
Lesson:
- Bootcamp
- Approach machine.
RAEL.
EFF Wednesday 07 May 2014
Meet Jesus at one of our spot.
He approach and facebook close a group. I don’t do shit, I approach while playing to not lose. At some point I talk to a women around 50 years.
She want some bread for sure. I open by saying I love her coat. We vibe and eject. Should have push to close.
I approach here and there but not quite as Jesus.
Lesson:
- Bootcamp
- Approach machine.
Rael
EFF Thursday 08 May 2014
Meet Jesus on one of our favorite spot.
Didn’t approach shit on the way….
Approach a leopard girl, weak subcom as fuck. I’m lazy and it’s like a cancer. She sense this and bounce. She smile while going away but too weak to deserve this pussy.
Jesus approach and facebook close a cute Czesh girl. You could have use the Umbrella excuses to be physical. ANY DUMB EXCUSES. Anyway approach and close. Props.
At the end I approach a group of 2 girl by singing, they are not French. I don’t lead like I should anyway they love me I vibe with her and introduce Jesus in the mix.
The vibe was great but we should have engaged the girl sitting more, to make her invest otherwise it will blowout in our face. The other one was digging me I can tell.
Jesus told me later she say she want to take a picture but I didn’t hear it. We should have stay here longer.
Yeah the one sitting should have been tease and lead to invest in the interaction. I love girl for sure.
Then we bounce. Tomorrow Club bitch.
I see Henry at some point and go say hello to him.
I have to find a way to be a massive action taker. I mean I’m such a bitch. I should have approach more.
This set was great. Destiny is coming.
Lesson:
- Take responsibility, be alive and COMMIT.
- Massive action taker, approach machine.
Rael.
EFF Friday 09 May 2014
Meet Jesus on Champs Elysée with my brother. I don’t approach right away the women I see. I remember a Hoooooootttt one with a guy. Irrelevant.
We shoot the shit with Jesus and my brother, we go take a piss near the park and I approach two girl sitting with my carrot:
Rael: Hey you need to eat some carrot you look pale.
Girls: Giggling blablablabla
Rael: Awesome shit
Girls: blablablabla
then bounce to the club.
We enter the club, Jesus go approach right away, I don’t approach right away which is a shame and the sticking point I should work on for being an approach machine.
Here the best thread about it.
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/207883
With this answer as the best:
Tyler
You're losing within the first 30 seconds.
Three hours later you're wondering why you can't approach, but it's because in the first THIRTY SECONDS you entered the club you established a rhythm of "I'm a loser who doesn't approach".
Nobody who stales out can suddenly "Jump back into action". You're brow beating yourself for not approaching, when it's impossible to approach if you have no momentum as your brain blocks you with emotional impulse controls. You must take control of your brain -- be the horse rider and riiiiide the fucken horse -- and prove to it soon as you get in the venue that it's okay to hit it up hard.
The time you've gone out hasn't been a waste. You've learn what DOES NOT WORK. (Seriously.)
Take all that emotional pain you gained from going and NOT approaching within the first 30 seconds. Approach IMMEDIATELY FUCKING IMMEDIATELY RIGHT FUCKING NOW and DO NOT BE OUT OF SET FOR MORE THAN 30 SECONDS THE FIRST HOUR.
The second you stop approaching you are DONE for the night. FUCKED HARD. You are a LOSER.
All you want to do is immediately approach as soon as you get in, scamper up those two "hills" the video talks about, and you will pull the finest girl in the fucken club by the end of the night.
**Remember: if you don't approach within the first 30 seconds and maintain that the first hour, your night will be a waste. If you haven't hit it up immediately upon entry just leave and go to another bar, because otherwise you'll sit there getting drunk and wasting your night.
Tyler
RockNRollPUA
Dude this was my sticking point for about 5 months. This is what you need to do. Make it your ONLY GOAL FOR THE ENTIRE NIGHT TO APPROACH THE FIRST GIRL YOU SEE, Thats it, if you don't do that, GO HOME, LEAVE, GIVE UP, MASTERBAIT, PLAY X-BOX. That is your only mission until that becomes a habbit. and totally automatic. If you fuck up and still want to try again, leave the bar, go sit in your car and listen to music for 20 minutes. Then try again until you can approach the FIRST GIRL YOU SEE after leaving your car. Even if you just say Hi and introduce yourself and ask boring interview questions. You only goal is to talk to her. Pickup starts as soon as you leave the car, not in the venue.
AFTER you have completely integrated that behavior, THEN start chaining approaches together. Just approach EVERY GIRL you see with no hesitation, don't worry if she is hot, just keep your mouth moving, use the claw and make it stronger, and get the ball rolling. Your only goal now is to remain in set for as long as you can with no longer than 1 minute of not having a conversation with a stranger. I even joke around with other dudes in the bathroom if I am in line to take a piss or even while taking a piss. Its GO GO GO all the time. Eventually you won't need to go this hard, but until then this is the fastest way to learn how to build momentum. Do this untill it becomes automatic and you don't have to apply conscious effort to it. Once you can do this, its just a matter of going out, escalating, and going for the phone/facebook/pull/etc. This is when all this game shit will actually help you. Untill then, don't worry about the specifics, most of your problems will autocorrect themselves just by being social. If you run into a problem in set over and over, then look for the answers here or attend an RSD Hotseat/Bootcamp, or read Physical Game by Ozzie.
Anyway Jesus send me in a group I do it and I don’t feel like it. I spin one of the girl and go for the other she don’t comply I walk away with the loser and sad body language, laugh. I start to be in the zone.
I approach girl and guy left and right, I do the Magical opener who open 100% and the girl is into my brother right away and I shoot the shit with the other girl.
I should have been SELFISH AS FUCK and claw this bitch for me, stop trying to not bother your friend brother mother and every other person than yourself. YOU COME FIRST AND YOU GO FIRST.
I use this opener on a guy for Jesus to just test it. It work on guys too. A M A Z I N G.
The carrot girls from before are all over us, we should have close this troll to commit to this shit.
I see the blond of glory and don’t approach her. I also approach a blond but go weak.
I also see a stunner, staff girl and don’t claw her.
At some point I reach the DON’T GIVE A FUCK STATE. Which mean you can spot a guy walking on his knees in the club creeping people for fun.
We bounce at the end, walk past a group of 3 girls don’t approach them. And I can hear the thoughts of Jesus, tell him this is unacceptable. I go back and approach the group, the girls look at me in the eyes, shit test from the start I look at her like I’m about to stab her. She crack and smile then bounce. Our subcom are not there already so they bounce. JOB DONE.
Go back home, Glory.
Lesson:
- Approach machine: APPROACH ANYTHING AS SOON AS YOU STEP OUT OF HOME.
Rael
Jesus eff same day:
Outside Game:
I’m super on and I’m in total control of my reality and it’s my inner game … I have been meditating consistently every day to increase head space and reduce resistance, don’t try to stop thoughts or be against them … the more watchful we are of thinking the more we dis-identify so do not care to reach a state of no mind or zero thought. Just watchful enough not to buy into tricky thoughts of the mind like “What if I fuck up? What if I can’t pull” these autopilot limiting thoughts that can create anxiety and limit one’s behavior and performance before even going out. That day more than any other day I strongly insisted that I will watch these negative thoughts pass by but not let them affect me by making a conscious decision I’m not my mind and that I allow myself to approach and pull and do whatever the fuck I want to do. Just a burning desire on positivity no matter how negative my mind can be on autopilot …
I had the following written down during a meditation of just watching the quality of my thoughts … “You can make a conscious decision that even when a negative thought comes you will not give a fuck about it. You can also drive your mental state up by keeping positive thoughts on the foreground of your head by repeating +ve things consciously like I’m the shit and I’m going to have a fucking awesome night. Cut the negative crap and replace them with awesome vibes … It’s this burning desire to fucking rock and be a rock star no matter what”
Now I also was watching a video for PUA Cajun where he talks about confidence it reminded me that day of a saying of Rumi where he says “You are not a drop in the ocean, you are the entire ocean in a drop”. I am so empowered right now, it’s my fucking reality and welcome to my fucking awesome world. There is a strong sense of detachment from everything but a strong sense of aliveness. It is a strong realization that this is my world and it will be of no significance if I come to death … “I can do anything I want as long as it’s my dream” … people are like random guests in my world like in a dream and they only come to my reality when I interact with them. This puts an end to a lot of the social pressure and conditioning in game which is aka. high confidence because you’ve de-sensitized yourself to people and environment. Welcome to “Matrix” mode!
I am always the cause of everything! I choose to open the door for all these random guests around me and invite them to my world! Welcome zombie land, you are only alive when I decide to touch and invite you to my world and if you’re cool you can stay!
On the field:
I take a bicycle and head down to Champs Elysees to meet Lio and his brother … State is so on that I hit a random high “Yeehaaa” on my bicycle around Trocadero … this is my fucking life and I do whatever the fuck I want to do … I meet the guys at the Arc. We hit it, the world is so fresh and alive and I’m super confident I compliment some ladies while walking and get a bit stupid. There is no place for anxiety, it’s my world and I’m in control and I don’t give a fuck if my mind comes up with any negative thought! We hit the club I dance for a very short time and bang a group of 5 girls I can’t remember exactly how many … I jump in no place for lazying tonight, learnt a lesson from the week before … entered the club last week no approaching and was weak but this time I have a conscious decision that I will open the first girls I see no matter what! … I jump on the group and put my hands on the back of two of the girls I’m like “Where are you guys from” and it was on! They were so into me and I didn’t even ask a lot of questions they were investing more than I was investing high fives they want to take pictures with me … I meet everyone of them it’s her birthday one of her friends shout … I go loud “Ohhhhhhhhhhh HAPPY BIRTHDAY” and sing a bit … A girl tells me “You are a swag! Do you know what that means?” I reply no although I know what’s a swag … she’s like “You’re really so cool” mhmm thanks for topping up my awesomeness. A stylish cool guy comes and he’s got the RAS on him so I friend the guy quickly high fiving him then I’m like I want a picture with that guy … Funnily enough it’s 2 random guys the girls just met and they’re taking photos of the 2 of us with their camera like stars haha then they jump in and take pictures with us. I do a random move and I hit the dude’s glass unintentionally the glass falls his drink is all over the ground, he’s pissed I’m like don’t worry I’ll buy you a new drink and he’s happy … The set gets fucked up as we both leave the girls to get a drink for the dude but who cares, me and cool dude are now good friends we talk and get to know everyone’s background yadda yadda … We high five eachother whenever we see one another in the club. I look for Lio and his brother and they were up. I go up but I smell a vibe of stagnation … no dancing to pump state or doing stupid shit for unstifling … I keep dancing and doing whatever that I want, the Asian bartender is playing with a toy in her hand … I jump and I’m like “Star wars!!” she’s laughing, I take the toy from her and bullshit around … we go hit the dance floor, more dancing … I see a nice girl, I do a shoulder tap and the hand of god but she refuses she’s like I’m with a guy … I dance more I see a girl right next to me so into music and closing her eyes, again shoulder tap hand of god spin her around get her closer to me what’s your name and what do you do then dance a bit with her and then leave … I see Lio doing the “Scan of going no-where” this is when everyone is dancing and there are a lot of girls in the club but Lio is still pretending to be scanning without taking any action … no dancing and no taking action and I get pissed so I tell him “It’s either you dance to unstifle or take action” but don’t just stand right there when there are million things happening and you’re still like James bond standing in the middle of the party. He moved his ass … I see a group of 4 girls, they looked bored so I’m like you guys are so bored “did someone die here” they get a bit bitchy they’re like no English only French and honestly their vibe was boring so I gave them flying kisses and gave them a not giving flying fuck and moved away … High fiving random people on the upper floor to the club … I see two cool girls with tattoos and piercings standing there I open them “You guys are cool” blablbala … hey “nice tattoos” on your hands and I’m all over her hands feeling the tattoos and asking her what they mean blalbbalba and then left them … I go down again I’m so on! and state in the club is on … 2 girls look at me, I grab both of them while standing in the middle I can see that there are a lot of dicks standing on the peripheries of the dance floor looking at me as if I was doing some rocket science, one of the 2 girls was into me right away and the tension between us was nice but the set got fucked as her friends came in, the tension diffused quickly I open her 2 girlfriends who just came but got bored nothing interesting so I left the set … Lio’s bro opens a chick I talk to her friend we chat a bit she’s like 19 I wanted to try Todd’s exercise and was like I wanted to marry you but “we won’t get a long” due to age difference and the girl was like investing “Why, how old are you” while laughing and not resisting the idea of marriage … I keep bullshitting, dancing and opened a couple more different sets I almost lost count … Groups, mixed sets and all but yes more dancing and stagnation at some point, team’s vibe is down! Grrrrr!
Lesson:
- Opened a lot of sets but no closes and felt hooking was a challenge but there wasn’t also commitment to the night by having the intention to really stay late to pull. When girls have danced and are in state that’s when it’s all about pulling.
- Lionel and brother wanted to go home and I was a bit pissed at lack of commitment … The attitude that I want is that if we opened a couple of sets the first 3 hours, We’re in state and have status in the club due to opening different sets let’s try again and go for make outs or pulls … State is FUCKING GOLD and not to be wasted! I feel like if we’re going out together, everyone needs to be pushing hard. It’s a combo of epicness where girls would actually want to be with us. But if one of us is not feeling it, it’s a vibe killer and reduces chances of the success we want. I want to be the best and my team to also be the best. If I take action I want my team to be taking action as well! This is how we inspire each other … it’s not about challenge it’s about creating something awesome together. Always try again and again! This is the spirit of adventure, but taking a bit of action and then relaxing is not the way. In Barcelona hooking up with 2 Scandinavian chicks, I’ve done it all alone by myself and it comes down to one thing “How much do you really fucking want it?” I was pissed for breaking up and I wasn’t going to sit all alone by myself cry in a city where I don’t have any friends (only 2 the ones I lived with and they were 24/7 at school) ... Strong refusal to choding and I was extremely thirsty to experience life to the fullest and no one could’ve ever stopped me. I went out at 9pm jumped from a venue to another, fail 1st venue, fail 2nd venue, 3rd venue I changed entire location at 1am “If this was my last day ever, I wouldn’t go back home like a loser” … One of the craziest days in my life! Returned back home at 9am not believing what I experienced. This is dedication not to game but to life!
- To lionel: I want to see you jumping in, taking action without waiting for a single sign from me. I love your dedication to the game and to going out but it’s not enough, you need to find the challenge, inspiration and control within yourself. We have winged for some time to break resistance & approach anxiety and to get some reference experience and there is progress but it’s about time to step up your game and find your higher level. Break patterns and be fresh … If I don’t take action in field go ahead and start it don’t wait for me to direct you or give you a sign! Full control over yourself/minimizing resistance/breaking through limiting beliefs/full trust in yourself is all part of your game outside game. I want the attitude of “Let’s fucking do it 100% full belief success” you know it but you are not fully feeling it yet. Don’t keep repeating things like “I can’t wait to vegas” and “I need a Bootcamp”, It’s either you take a bootcamp and do it or you don’t but don’t keep yourself hanging like this … believing you will only get better if you do a bootcamp. I cut this crap for myself, I decide no bootcamp and I put full belief in myself that I will fucking rock without any bootcamp so it’s done and that’s why I’m playing hard because there is no other way around it and I still need to push more. Full belief full authority in myself in the now and not the future. If you believe that you suck and will be better after bootcamp then at least go suck big! But don’t keep this shit going on in your head like a bitch … Play hard or wait at home till bootcamp date because this attitude is weak and is not inspiring. Monday, Tuesday always suck … I say Fuck this shit! Tyler says it takes him time to be in state … Fuck this shit! If tyler says I access state when I snap my finger … everyone on the forum will say when I snap my finger I access state … Only believe in YOU! We do not need guru or master to show the way … We are already masters! Just put full belief in yourself!
Remember:
-Mind can have all kind of negative bullshit that can keep state down if you buy into it.
-Conscious decision that you are not going to buy into any of the negative shit your mind can say. These autopilot farts.
-Burning desire that it’s fucking on no matter what!
-Reality is in you but you are not inside a reality of someone else’s imagination. The world comes to an end only when you come to an end. “You are not a drop in the ocean, but the entire ocean in a drop” how of a glory is that feeling!
EFF Saturday 10 May 2014
CK
Meet Jesus at his home I fucked up the logistic. It’s a dead day don’t approach the rare girl on the street.
Go home and sleep.
Shame.
Lesson:
- Approach machine.
- Look up the logistics and make shit happens.
Rael.
Jesus eff same day:
I have had prepared a hangout with my female friend ****. I wake up after a late night in the club with the Lio and his brother. I find a message from her I tell her to come over. She’s in a relationship but I love having female friends who I don’t need to think about gaming or sleeping with. She comes over and we discuss a lot of matters, she checks my white board and the stuff that I have on it and we start discussing concepts like value creation etc… we have breakfast, we jam she plays guitar and sings and we really came up with very creative stuff like making new lyrics, drawing crazy non-sense on the white board and becoming very creative to the point of exhaustion she came at 1 and left around 7 or so. Now the reason I mention this in the report because this is part of my game outside the game. I’m not hitting or waiting to sleep with my female friend especially she has a BF so I’m not wasting my time in that direction but I know for a fact that I enjoy and prefer to hang out with an attractive lady friend to a male friend. It’s a lot of inspiration to my game because we’re doing all these crazy and fun activities which opens more opportunities for exploration of subjects that I can integrate within my game whenever I invite a new girl into my reality … playing games on whiteboard and jamming and freestyling with lyrics and singing songs in different tones etc etc …
Now the lesson from this is that I think there are a lot of advantages to have female friends that you don’t need to game as it provides a lot of insights about different female energies, inspiration and provides this smoothness with different women but it’s no reason to chode and stop gaming other women. Replace useless male friends with good looking female friends even if they’re in relationship or are lesbians.
Anyways I feel tired from the day before and too much talking and jamming with my friend and I felt like some rest but lionel is still on. He comes around 1:00 but it was too late and the logistics fucked up so we take a walk around the area but nothing too exciting going on. We go back home and sleep.
EFF Sunday 11 May 2014
Meet Jesus at our favorite spot. Don’t approach nothing except a brunette that Jesus send me in, no go.
Also a girl with glasses it don’t mesh and I keep going instead of changing courses of action on I got her RAS on me. I could have hook but don’t show emphaty and she stay quiet.
I say to Jesus to do one more, he told me he do one on his way home….. Yeah. One more, right now. He approach a girl by herself on a bench. She dig him but he don’t commit and close.
JOB DONE. We separate and I approach 2 girls right away.
Rael: I love K-WAY.
Girls: (smile) blablabla
Rael: amazing stuff.
Girls; (giggles) blablabla
Rael bounce.
See a girl with a couple, cute face in the metro station but don’t approach.
Job almost done.
This week we go each on our own. Let’s see who is who. Love this competition shit.
Lesson:
They’re something I realize, the first 25 years of my life (while cutting the youth) have been living in a fucking haze and nothing put you more in front of your blindspots, incongruent self image and success barrier than this game. I mean NOTHING.
I realize the magnitude to which I’m not in control of my own reality, and always living in reaction, more simply in FEAR.
For where I want to be this have to stop, and quickly not in several months or one day. ENOUGH, this is a world where nothing make sense anyways, put all the rationalizations you want in front of your eyes. But you can choose from there.
Masturbation vs Sex with female.
“Chilling” vs Fear.
Ozzie did you hear my call ?
- Approach machine.
- Approach mixed set direct on the female.
Rael.
Jesus report same day.
I meet with Lionel around 8:40 and we start walking, my state is good but physically dizzy in my head after a speed ride on the bicycle on the way to Champs Elysees. My level of grounding lately has been hitting high levels and life is spectacular and fun lately. I didn't take any step or initiate any approaches on purpose waiting for lionel to start getting pissed a bit to start taking action. I sent him in once ... but then stagnation. He gets pissed and wants to head to the metro to leave ... I don't mention "one more" as usual or push it any further to see how far the anger can build up ... but I can see that lionel is starting to come out and started to push it on his own now, he is approaching a walking girl on the street without me saying anything.
He wants me to do one approach so I approach a lady sitting on a bench with headphones on her phone I open with me just walking up in front of her and staying silent while looking into her eyes ... *I realize she's cute"
Lady francaise takes off her headphones looks at me and I say "I think you're beautiful", she smiles right away and stands up to talk to me ... I'm like where are you from and she's like I'm french and I'm like but you look Russian and then I was freestyling with conversation and coming up with new random questions ... I'm like which part of france do you come from ... blablabla I ask her what she does and she's in the pharmaceuticals field and I'm like "And are you happy with your life?" she's like laughing and yes. She was cool and all but I kind of got bored in the middle and I let the conversation hit a dead end of silence without trying to make any effort to keep it, and I watch her reaction in the midst of silence, she's like waiting for something to happen and then was like okay I have to catch my train ... I'm like just saying your beautiful and wishing you a happy day ... No rise of any bad feelings or wishing to have continued or taken it any further ... she smiles she was attracted but I wasn't fully feeling it and I literally didn't give a damn about the whole interaction, the eye contact was strong and all but I just approached for the sake of taking action and not out of attraction.
Lionel and I talk a bit and we discuss how we'll be having a solo week to see the level of solo progress. I am quite satisfied with my progress and in last Friday and I believe I will be flying powerfully soon but I also want lionel to be able to challenge himself to take action on his own, and to build strong trust and belief within himself by himself. A significant change has taken place within me as I remembered a saying by rumi which said "You are not a drop in the ocean, you are the entire ocean in a drop" ... The concept has been also discussed in quantum physics and it's about how reality exists inside of us and not outside ... Without existing, the world would be of no significance. When well understood it opens up a whole new dimension for life and game and keeps a high level of grounding and low levels of anxiety. To Game the feeling is amazing and you're basically welcoming all the random people you come across as guests in your reality waiting to be explored and when you open them you're exploring the boundaries ... either getting to welcome them if they're cool but you're also letting them go if they're not compatible. You are the star of your life everyone else is just a guest ... the random guests are of no significance if we didn't exist ... It is permission to "do whatever the fuck you want" and easy access to state ... this is a tiny bit of how it feels and I forgot this feeling for sometime. Love life, love everything ... Cheers!
Other reports will be coming soon!
EFF Monday 12 May 2014
This week is solo time , so here I go.
I go late to a bar near my town, at around 00h00. I park and I spot two girls with 3 other person and some of this are guys. And I spot another group in front of the bar, 3 girls talking.
I don’t approach I walk past it. I’m like you either do it or leave you bitch.
I take my car to go home but on the way I say no mas! And come back park again. And don’t do shit again…
I say ok leave and use the emotional pain for tomorrow.
RAEL
Caught up in work and writing missing reports text gaming Czech Girl:
Me:Lucie in the sky with diamonds! How was your weekend in the midst of this crazy weather?... I just checked your music and was wondering apart from sum41 what other bands are you into? Offspring? Do you play any instrument? Have a lovely one xxx
Monday 4:19pm
Lucie: I love the song [Lucy in the sky with diaminds] btw! Weekend was quite active, cause i felt the need of experiencing the most of the city [leaving soon]. How was yours? Sum 41 is my teenage guilty pleasure. I enjoy Inverse Cinematics lately..and generally oldskool hip hop mixed with funky beats! What do u listen to?
I played flute, but i was like 10 yo.. It turned out that im not a new born flute queen do u play anything?
12:20am
Me:Pretty kickass! You usually get the most out of a city when you're about to leave and then realize how come you missed all of this awesomeness! (not always the case but happens)
I'm into a lot of genres of music but lately I have been listening to a lot of indie like Alt-J and latin music like Buena Vista Social Club. Something about the vibe of south american music makes everything super cool and makes me want to live somewhere in Cuba! Vintage cars, awesome people and food mmmm! Yes I do play guitar but more on the rock, alternative rock side though. Too bad you've quit flute, we could have made a super hippy duet of guitar and flute like "Sweet Smoke" back in the 70's ... Dammit Lucie!
Anyways let me know when you're free this week let's discover a place you still haven't discovered or do one thing you still haven't done in Paris ... What is one thing that would make this trip an awesome experience before leaving?(apart from the usual baguette, fromage and macaron)
I took a lot of time to reply back as I was busy with other stuff. I messaged her back at 12:20 at night after being done with what I wanted to do. Still no reply from her side (but also not waiting for one) …
JESUS
EFF Tuesday 13 May 2014
I go out solo to my mall dress with an icecap for kid too little for my head anyway…I arrive and approach a women sitting in front of the mall:
Rael: I like KWAY.
Women: Look at me nodding.
Rael: It’s the best clothes in the world.
Go in walk across all the long ass line of casheer with the little girl pink icecap….
I approach nothing once inside. I check out the underbra to cultivate myself and bounce, on my way back I see two girl smoking I pass by, no way…, I come back start vibing with the two, I’m a little bit in fear.
But they dig I should have taken the bike off and coming in their personal space. They teach me some stuff on the gypsy culture, and one girl is name Jordi.
I don’t lead the conversation in the right direction, should have engaged the ugly, diss the other a little bit and facebook or number close this females.
And I go home.
Lesson:
- Being an approach machine with anyone, right mother fucking now.
Rael.
I leave home at 7 and go to Trocadero indirectly through Rue Passy as it usually has some crowd in it. There were some subjects on the street but I didn’t approach … I am close to Trocadero now, I see a sex bomb with her exposed tummy walking fast in my direction and I can’t lose this approach! … Bang I stop and open her “Excuse me. I think you’re cute” she stopped for a second “Thank you but I’m really late and need to go” … She wasn’t pissed or scared but she seemed really busy … Alright cool (I could’ve turned around and walked with her a bit but didn’t think of it at the time). I’m in Trocadero now, there is some protest going about the kidnapped Nigerian girls … I see a good looking girl with style and a lot of piercings, out of everyone around me I walk towards her just letting her know I’m hitting on her … I open her “What’s going on here”, she describes the whole thing. I’m like cool hey “I’m ****” She’s like I’m **** we talk a bit but vibing was weak, she’s more involved with the protest so I leave and look for more subjects but mainly everyone was in the protest. I go to Champs de Mars and I can’t find solo girls and I stagnate. I hit Trocadero again and I talk a lot with a Senegal seller who sells stuff for tourists, he was trying to sell me some but we ended up having a long conversation about life and work all in French and discussing religious matters we became like good friends … Wasn’t a waste of time, was good practice of French especially that he doesn’t speak a shit of English. I’m leaving Trocadero and scanning for subjects then an Indian family wants me to take a picture of them, they were very happy and grateful and their vibe was just peaceful and awesome, I tell them “Have a good day” and it felt like I gave them a million dollar … anyways I remember I need to buy some wraps … I head to the supermarket there are some interesting subjects on the way but on the other side of the sidewalk but I don’t move my ass to open … A guy in the line at the super market makes me go infront of him to leave faster … Back home cool neighbor and I meet we talk a bit and we organize a hangout tomorrow to get to know each other more.
Remarks:
- Game is getting much easier and better
- Breaking social resistance solo on the street and approaching a hottie naturally. I’ve never stopped a hottie on my own in street game.
- High level of confidence creates some kind of a public attraction to everyone + a feeling that things are moving in my direction
- The more interesting/hot the subject is, the more I have motivation
- I don’t approach subjects that seem to be far away … like on a different side walk. They either have to be walking my way or near by. I need to be more flexible.
JESUS
EFF Wednesday 14 May 2014
I promise my brother to look the uefa final with him and I approach nothing except a seller with a cool hair cut and I holla at her:
Love your hair.
Female: (smile) blablabla
Bounce. Meanwhile Jesus is having 3 closes on Champs Elysée…..
Lesson:
- Commit to the 3 goals I have set for myself and not say yes to look a stupid match… INTERNAL BOUNDARIES.
Rael
Champs Elysees with Hedi. Opening a lot of different sets and got 3 facebook closes. Best approach was hot elegant Ukrainian facebook close in 5 minutes. We were approach machines that day! I liked the guy’s style with very weird openers like asking girls who are holding cameras “What is this?” the girl is like “Camera” he’s like”But yea what is it?” she goes like “Errrrrm Canon?” He’s like “Good or bad?” was pretty funny! Also loved the dude’s flexibility with running back n forth with opening girls. If I open and lose set, I find him with another set. He didn’t stop that day. Always good to bring someone new to the table and see what they’re like.
JESUS
EFF Thursday 15 May 2014
I was fuckingly inspire by Jesus in 2 ways, he told me this: stop being a bitch, stop waiting for me, stop the girl for anyone to be put on to take action to feel validated. Stop saying you will take a bootcamp, and the Rsd World Summit. What ? Is the Rsd world summit and the bootcamp will do it for you ? Even if they push you, you do it but you transfer your authority to someone or something else, you don’t take the glory ! and that’s the point, where is your willpower, your anger to be growing until you die, you live this circle of comfort and it’s disgusting, this attitude disgusted me if I don’t feel fear I’m not the man I’m meant to be. I should kill myself if so.
And this, my friend, is why you pretend to be a fucking Fedayin.
And the approach he did on Sunday 11 May to the cute French chick, he was in the I’m enough style even the way he approach, he wait a bit but when he walk up to her, just the walk you sense the intent. His face was relax and chill, pure manhood.
This was the call to masculinity.
I go to my mall. Just before I play some sport and I’m injured and little bit tired so my mind try to dwelve again in the lazy tought pattern, comfort zone shit. But in front of my office it’s written BILL THE BUTCHER on the wall. So I pay homage to my master, Derek and Ozzie.
I go into the mall, I start to dwell around at first then I take action.
Some men walk by with a cool jacket.
Rael: I love your jacket, got some style.
Men: blablablabla
I keep walking I don’t even look at the reaction either they are what you call “good” or “bad” which doesn’t make sense by the way…
I spot a women with a flashy green jean. I take 5 minutes to approach her, keep in mind I don’t got approach anxiety, it’s purely out of habit or maybe some unconscious fear only Ozzie know.
Rael: hey, I love you jean, it’s very…..green.
Women: Don’t make eye contact and blush. Oh thank you.
Rael: Did you know that if you drink a water who got more than 100mg per liter of dry residue, the water is not efficient to clean and hydrate your body ?
Women: gibberish
Rael: (I take off) So don’t drink this not good for your kidney.
See a women with a cool coat:
Rael: You are beautiful you and your coat.
Women: (Shock) blablabla.
I bounce.
I go pick some eggs and vibe with people.
That’s pretty much it.
Lesson:
- The success of approaching in this one, is the little step I take, I talk to a man, then another one, then I approach the green pants women etc….. momentum bitch.
- I don’t feel this uncomfort in my stomach that Julien talk about in his “Top Inner Game Concepts That Landed Me Playboy Models -- Part 4 “ video.
- I should approach quicker, and more approach machine.
- I improve, which I measure internally never externally, more at ease which means I should push on my limit again.
- I see the LAHWF VIDEO, so I use it do some drills.
Rael
That was a good day! Hedi and I hit Etienne Marcel around 10 or so … We head to the Bar’s area, we hit my bar but there are no subjects we keep chatting random people and we walk a bit, he discusses with me the structure of energy during the night of how it should be like the first 2 hours then the preceding 2 hours etc … we compliment a couple of girls while walking on the streets and I show him the area but it seems like nothing is happening there tonight … let’s take the metro and go to another venue, we’re about to hit the metro and a young dude standing with a bunch of other party kids come and talk to me about my hair and we talk about parties and things like that they were like come party with us blabla but we refused so we took the metro having in mind Grands Boulevard … We wait for the metro 3 chairs, a cute girl sitting in the middle, Hedi tells me let’s sit beside her. We go sit, I open “Where is the party tonight in Paris?” … We keep talking and talking we take the metro with her, getting to know more about her and she asks more about me she recommends rue oberkampf to grands boulevard so we change the plan, I ask her to come with us but she has work early morning, it was good vibing but I didn’t close as I had no battery on my phone. Anyways we hit rue oberkampf and we randomly pick a bar with dancing people in it which turned out to be cool. We open straight forward, Hedi opens a hot chick and keeps hitting it with her, I see a line of 5 girls waiting for the toilet so I opened the five of them and I stayed with 1 but mixed another set with it … I open the 5 by saying “This is the longest toilet line I’ve ever seen in my life”, they all laugh … I start talking to the girl closest to me, it was a very playful conversation about pissing … She mentions “Girls pee more than men”, I say “I’m not sure” here I mix with another set, I open the girl infront of her “What do you think about this… Girls pee more than men?” and she joins the conversation, Hedi joins … The girl that I first opened was pretty cool and I got physical quickly with her, she’s from south America, hugs and high fives, hand over her back we vibed well yet it was still the beginning of the night. Hedi and I want to hit another place … We go outside 2 girls 1 guys, one of the girls look at me so I jump in right away and I open but I don’t remember what I said … They were 2 swedish girls who have a band and were recording in the guy’s studio … I think I asked her “Where do you come from?” She’s like Sweden “I’m like Hur mar du?” and she was like Oh! Cool! We kept talking and talking with a little bit of physicality I make fun of the way she talks … I ask her a question and she looks upwards in the sky and points her finger up thinking of some answer to a question I asked and I tell her, does your answer lie in the sky? Or are you trying to connect with spirits for answer? I make fun of family names in Sweden and I tell her is your grandfather’s name “Johnny Ericsson” she’s quite laughing and all and I say we’re getting married but I lost the wedding ring while I was taking a piss , the ring fell in the toilet … Very random stupid shit. Facebook close and we left. Hedi and I keep looking for a club around the area, we walk and keep opening random sets then as we were walking towards a club we chose, 2 guys with a Mercedes stop and ask us for the address of a street, they’re cool dudes from Amsterdam … I say that we’re going to a club so they can join and the guy opens the car’s door for us … We hit 2 clubs but they didn’t allow us in without girls … We hit duplex, the 2 guys get rejected even though they hooked with a bunch of girls, they’re like it’s not working. Hedi and I say let’s give it a try, we hit it we’re talking and having a good time and BAM they let us in the club! We enter at perhaps 2:30-3:00 we dance we open more sets, I got blown off a couple of times I’m opening everyone, I see a guy with tattoos I tell him you look cool, he has his table and his bottles of drinks, he fixes me a drink. We keep opening but more blown offs for me, I don’t give a fuck, Hedi dances with 2 hot chicks but the sets got fucked up … One of them I open but I don’t stay in set, he re-opens the same girl and keeps talking to her then drags her to the dance floor. For me the insight was I’m not putting much energy in my openings, and I have to stay in set instead of tap tap hand of god for dancing then girl refuses and I leave. He basically did the same thing but he insisted in talking the girl. Now it was the end of the night and we were looking for pulling subjects, a girl that Hedi opened before is passing and he stops and talks to her, she has a hot blonde friend with her so I start singing with her and going loud then we start dancing and talking, she asks me “Are you a musician” I say “Yes perhaps I’ll teach you some guitar” … We got physical strongly and quickly and Hedi was working his girl … My girl goes to the bar to order a drink but it’s closed she tells me “I want to get drunk and fuck” I’m like cool … She’s pissed that there are no drinks and wants to leave, we try to pull “I say after party!” she asks “Do you have alcohol” and I hesitate and the 2 girls are like okay we’re going to go … we lost the pull we run after them but they disappeared quickly! We’re like fuck it, that was the last cool set we’ve had!
Lessons & Remarks:
-The pull lesson – Lie or do whatever it takes to get them back home. Who cares if I have alcohol at home or not. That was a stupid mistake, the girl was into me and Hedi’s girl was into him but I fucked it up. My logical mind was saying there’s no alcohol at home so I would be lying if I said I have alcohol at home. Funnily enough even if I had alcohol at home, they would’ve forgotten all about alcohol once we’ve reached home. She’s like I want to get drunk and fuck so it was pretty easy Funny shit! But at least it was very close!
-It’s not only about opening like shoulder tap and hand of god … Sometimes like Julien says you need to give a bigger sample of your personality by talking the girl a bit. Hedi and I basically opened the same girl one after another, I tap shoulders and do hand of god she smiles but refuses but then Hedi shoulder taps her and starts talking to her more and pulls her to the dance floor.
JESUS
That's it and Manwhore is more good looking in his last vid but I'm 7% bodyfat so keep the intermittent fasting fat ass.
EFF Friday 16 May 2014
I go out to my club. On my way I see a girl sitting waiting for the train, sitting next to her a couple shooting the shit.
I see some fear around this situation, I see myself go in direct to her but I don’t do it. It’s this type of situation where growth is.
On the train I sit next to a girl and shoot the shit but should have push this shit harder.
I meet Jesus and a guy from the inner circle while waiting for them I go talk to two girls asking them if they see my friend Jesus, we are on the champs elysee while asking this I see Jesus coming my way so I let the girl and bounce.
We shoot the shit and I realize I hate this talking game shit or self-improvement with guys and not just vibe talking about life and adventure.
Jesus approach a group of 5 girls and I remember we walk past another big group and I realize it’s my duty to approach this shit, I have to be in before my wing I have to be on top of this shit to push each other and stop this stagnation.
Anyways the girls are fucking young under 18 from the vibe I can tell they do not usually go out but I guess bitch want the dick earlier this days, but it don’t click in my mind that something is off….
The group hook because Jesus lead and they are fucking young. I keep talking with the new guy we meet and then I hook the leader of the girl that I spot right away. Me being myself she’s into it touching me and grabbing my arms. Anyways we go in the line in front of the club and the more we approach the bouncer the more I sense a tension in them, pinging me harder and harder.
Rael: Cool off don’t be tight the bouncer pick on this, you never been out in your life?
Leader girl: blablablablabla.
Arriving in front of the bouncer he is uptight right away for some reason I can tell. The girl put out their ID and they are false so the bouncer put all of our group on the side. The girl disappear without excusing, what can I say they are females…
I try to settle this shit with the bouncer in an absolutely not supplicating way. We negotiate I sense he is defensive so I let him deal with the line a bit and come back talking to him. So because of the situation he remember me for sure, I got his name and he is the guy in charge of all the security staff. Gold.
But he say we have to pay its 20 euros per person, the price of the lesson of not picking up the fact that:
- The girls hook so easily which mean they got no firm plan or are not sure to enter which lead to…
- The fact that they look so young by their vibe and look should have click in me.
Anyways once in the club, I go put some customize earplug which are a prerequisite for night life cats. And I gangnam style on the middle of the dancefloor.
So the new guy wait for us to go around, make me think of myself of with Jesus at the beginning searching for him because I have no authority over myself. I claw left and right guys and girls having fun.
A guy come to me:
Drugdealer: MDMA ?
Rael: clawing him What ?
Drugdealer: MDMA ?
Rael: What is MDMA a university ?
Drugdealer; Laugh… no it’s a drug, I have mdma cocaine etc…
Rael: No man but if I want some I know you are there. What’s your name?
Drugdealer: Ben.
And I bounce. There a blond I spot with a guy which whom I vibe in the toilets and he is fucking cool you can tell by the mannerism and vibe.
I should have approach and commit to this set.
Anyways we bounce early. In the street the Jesus and, let’s call him H, want to stay in the street approaching girls..
At this point I do not want to stay so I should have bounce the fuck out taking the bus, I was thinking about staying at Jesus place but since he want to stay I should have hit the road.
Anyways we say two guys who are into pickup you can tell right away. And H want to see them in action I don’t give a shit especially since this community is full of weirdo..
H talk to them and the guy told him they wait for girls to come out of the club.
We go to the other sidewalk and spot a girl who wait for a taxi I go to ask her about sharing hit but we don’t go the same way, EXCUSES take it ADVENTURE, I shoot the shit with her and some guys from my town join in, I shoot the shit with them and they bounce, I go back the girl and I’m not man to woman no physical escalation which mean faggot I realize that grab her coat, tease her on it, give it back she got no facebook was alone and go out the next day alone again…… I don’t even ask for the phone number, I screen the logistic she is in co-location with two other girl.
I bounce we stay around doing nothing which mean, again, I should have bounce. The vibe of H is not fun, the guy approach right away but got this not so cool vibe, talking about prehistoric rules of pickup up. So I cut myself from all this “pua” stuff and I think about connecting with some guys at the summit because you can screen them.
Jesus, since you will read this, if we want to slay the “10” and “9” first of all we have to step up to:
- Most expensive club, I get my hand on this.
- Start dressing in a more polarizing sense you are an artist, philosopher, traveler and I’m more confrontational, adventure, crazy. So we should dress accordingly because the venue where we will go the staff will pickup on this shit. Stop this shitty pullover weird jean and I don’t talk about being Calvin Klein clearly the opposite, dress IN YOUR OWN TERMS. That’s how I feel for me.
- Define clearly our value, so for me it’s my numero uno passion, then money (because money equal amplitude of liberty), then females. Which mean seeking the guidance of people who are tight in this area, which for me it’s what I do, going to England for my passion and Las Vegas for the females.
- Being grounded in our reality and stop talking about game 24/7, let’s grab the guitar, let’s sing, let’s travel. If women are the center then we are not men….that4S a no brainer.
Lesson:
- No internal resistance SO FUCKING FIND FEAR AND FACE IT! Otherwise you shrink.
- PUT THE LOGISTIC DOWN.
- Approach machine mode.
- Push it, push it, push it.
Rael.
Lionel me and Hedi hit Champs Elysees walking towards the club. We walk and talk, I open a group of young girls not recognizing their ages … We’re walking I see a group of mixed girls I go like “Where are you guys partying tonight?” … We are partying in xxxx and they’re like we’re going to xxxx, lionel and Hedi jump in and we drag the girls. We chat them up on the way to the club, we stand in the line, bouncers checking ID’s and the girls have fake cards so they kick us out of the line. We ditch the girls and insist on getting in, they let us in since we’re regulars but they let us pay as a penalty. We pay, go in but the club and the party looks a bit different. Who cares we go around do our thing, lionel is doing pretty cool stuff like the Gangam dance and crazy shit, he was doing a great job on his own. I opened different subjects yet I had only 1 cool set with a girl who works at Zara. She’s really cute and was dancing, I tap her shoulders and she wasn’t open at the beginning I could tell from her facial expression, I jump in quickly and start talking fast and she was into me and was investing and we had good physical contact then ejected. We left the club, the party was dead early and people were leaving early as well. We look for more subjects but nothing’s going on. We chill on the streets and Lionel opens a hot chick who was trying to get a cab, doing a great job. We walk a bit afterwards and opened weak sets afterwards then we bounced!
Lessons & remarks:
-Check the girls age before going to a club :P
JESUS
EFF Saturday 17 May 2014 EFF RESET FOR THE ONE YEAR CHALLENGE.
I don’t go out this day. WHICH IT A RESET FOR THE ONE YEAR CHALLENGE.
I use the I’m tired and I just, literally, stand there waiting, day dreaming…fuck this shit I do this too much. MAKE SHIT HAPPEN. Snap out of it right away.
I see the hour to be able to enter the club go away…. This is your life you disrespect man.
THE WAY YOU DO ONE THING YOU DO EVERYTHING. What D would say ?
Another brick to build the fury.
RAEL
I was really tired that day and wanted to go out for a very short period of time, literally exhausted from the night before. I checked a couple of clubs and “Mix Club” sounded interesting, wasn’t sure I wanted to club but I add Hedi’s and my name on the guestlist. I get dressed thinking of a quite bar or something, I get a bit excited, we have to be at Mix club before 12:00 … I head directly to the club I wait for Hedi, I talk to a random guy and chill a bit until Hedi comes. He arrives takes cash from the ATM, 2 girls sitting on the sidewalk … “Hey girls, first time to come to mix club?” they reply “Not really oh most of the people spend their time in the bathroom for sex” hedi and I are like “Uhuh cool!” we keep talking a bit … The girl asked me “Where do you come from?” “I’m like Egypt” then she’s like oh well that’s in Morroco?right? “LOOOOOL!!” We eject and we go stand in the line to get into the club. We talk and chill, hot girls standing behind us with a lot of black dicks, I hear one of the girls having good English, I turn around and open “Your English is so good, Where are you from?” “Canada” and little bits of chatting … Funnily enough the black dicks had their eyes on me but I didn’t give a flying fuck … I’m just getting sociable before getting into the club I don’t want moments of silence to come when we’re in front of the bouncers… Another group of new hot girls run and come behind us … Hedi and I in front of the bouncer waiting, I open hot chicks “Are you guys French?” they’re like “Oh yeaaa” … The bouncer let’s Hedi and I in the club, I wink at the girls and tell them see you inside. We’re inside the club discovering it … I jump on 2 girls next to us and talk a bit, no intention to hook or do something super crazy, we talk with them a bit and chicks were into us, we eject to open more sets. 2 other chicks standing next to us, I open “First time in this club?” “They reply no” conversation turns into French, I don’t understand all so I bring Hedi in the set … I use my French anyways and the 2 girls turned out to be working in the club as PRs. I ask the girl to buy me a free drink and she laughs I bullshit a bit and eject … Girls were into us, they later were following us in the club all the time and the girl would stop by and ask me random questions “Are you coming back here? Do you like it?” … We open more subjects and we start dancing, I see cute hot chick, I open her and put my hands on her shoulder and ask her what are you drinking? She’s like vodka redbull, I’m like ewww I push her away and pretend I’m leaving, she laughs and drags me back I try to take her drink and act as if I’m going to drink it, she’s like no! I’m like go away then she comes back and talks to me more French I tell her “Je ne comprends pas” and I bring Hedi in the set … He talks to her and I’m dancing as if she’s not there, she gives him her drink to tease me, I’m still like whatever. He whispers in my ears “she doesn’t want me, she’s more into you”, I’m like “Yeaaa” she is dancing infront of me and I grab her from her hands to dance but she’s holding her phone in her hands so I make fun of her the way she holds her phone and dancing … We dance a bit and she turns around to stick her ass in my dick and keeps grinding it while dancing and then she leaves … Hedi and I hit the dance floor and keep dancing. We do funny shit, like opening 2 latin girls they refused to open up so the 2 girls started dancing together not allowing anyone in, I point my finger at the 2 girls and start laughing loudly then I bring Hedi we both point our fingers at the girls and keep laughing at them then we leave. Hedi opens a girl with shoulder tap then hand of god but the girl refuses. I gave it 2 seconds and I repeat what he did with the same girl while I saw the rejection, so the girl looks at me and laughs that I’m repeating the same shit he did, I jumped in and talked to her a bit (wanted to give insisting a try and it can buy you some time yes!). Hedi opens a girl walking by and he claws her, he takes her to the dance floor they dance a bit and they madeout … I kept dancing and opening different sets, funnily enough I opened 2 sets with girls who were dancing with guys but I didn’t really notice. First mixed set, the girl is dancing right beside me, I said no hand of god shit, I will straight forward hold the girl’s arm and spin her around … so I did it, the girl laughs and spins around then I dance a bit with her to realize she had a guy with her on my side and I eject. The other mixed set were 2 girls dancing next to each other so I grab one of the girls from her stomach and stick behind her but then a black guy jumps in and separates us … Hedi and I are back again, it’s getting very late and we try to open more subjects for pulling … We would open whatever subjects were in front of us, opening girls very randomly but weren’t going anywhere … I remember also walking out of the dance floor and I see a group of girls on the bar, I jump on one of the girls randomly start chatting her up … It’s getting more late and Hedi is pissed off inside his head and for me the fun part was actually looking at everyone in the club and most of the faces had no smiles and girls looking bored while dancing and that made me quite laugh … I was having this smile of glory on my face that I’m happy with my life every single moment, why be sad while I can be happy? And actually I remember a girl walking by she sees my smile and she hugs me, I remember reading somewhere that smiling is a characteristic of an alpha male and I keep self-amusing myself no matter what, keeping the smile! I also remembered Tyler when he said that the way some guys look on the dance floor tells how they haven’t got laid in ages. It was the epiphany of the smile! A girl on the dance floor establishes eye contact with me I walk straight forward pointing my finger at her while she’s in a group of 5 girls or so I say “I WANT YOU!” … she talks to her friend and I hate to look needy so I left within 10 secs. Hedi and I go relax a bit and the girl comes, grabs my head from my hair and kisses me firmly on my cheek, I grab her back again and smack her a kiss, she’s moving quickly with her friend while holding hands. Hedi is stressing on the fact that he’s pissed and that we should pull … I tell him get more crazy as I know this stressful vibe is likely to go nowhere … One more set before leaving, he opens a girl and they argue. I open one more set, the girl doesn’t speak English and I eject however she still made eye contact and smiling at me as I was leaving the club. I kept my smile all the way back home, why not smile! Smiling can actually be a way of revolting against society, in metros, on streets, everyone is fucking serious … but I’ll just keep my smile, not part of the rat race!
Lessons/remarks:
-Club is a fun type of vibe … Body language and facial gesture is important. You don’t want to look like serious or in a funeral. Keeping a smile has a value and tells other people that you’re having a great fucking time no matter what! You don’t find a lot of smiling faces in the club whether it’s girls or boys … it’s like everyone is doing some serious business. Smiling is an alpha male sign and you stand out once you have it on your face. Erect back, smile and laser eye contact all the way!
-I got blown off with shoulder tap and hand of god a couple of times. Hand of god can give the girl the opportunity not to take your hands. In the meanwhile to hold a girls hand straight forward works good, especially for twisting girls around. I didn’t open or anything, just straight forward hold the girl’s hand and raise it up and she will fucking twist around.
-I’ve had a lot of social hook points with opening different sets but I need to Focus on sexual hook points in different sets by being more playful and saying something that either challenges the girl or creates some sort of intrigue. “Are you from Paris?” “Yea” “I can’t talk to you right now” “Are your parents divorced?” … Don’t keep the conversation nice and smooth! NO! Be playful “Do you like the color blue?””I hate the color blue” Fuck with the girl a little bit! This is what separates the social hook point from the sexual hook point! “You and I won’t get along””I Can’t talk to you!” Playfully challenging! “You’re too nice, you’re too beautiful, I can’t deal with this shit!” Strong eye contact “Poke Poke!Watcha gonna do?”
Examples from last week: - What do you drink? “Vodka Red bull” ewwww and I walk away she’s like more interested and grabbing me.
-What did you have on your pizza? Ham and Pineapple … “Eww Pineapple?!” yes whyyy? You don’t like it? Stop again with strong eye contact “Did you just say Pineapple?” “emmm yea” “Let’s walk”
-What are you doing in the morning? “Sleeping” “You sleep too much, you’re even worse than Garfield” she’s funnily pissed off that she hits me slightly
By actually teasing and challenging the girl she’s investing also in physicality by either touching or grabbing plus she’s also getting sexually hooked!
Sexual hookpoints could be fast way of establishing physicality in daygame apart from highfives as well.
JESUS
EFF SUNDAY 18 MAY 2014 LACK OF WILL KILL YOU
GO OUT to one of our spot and do nothing walk around since it’s late I use this excuse to not approach the few females I see.
So I bounce to another spot but do the same thing, however something interesting happen I spot a guy on Champs Elysee alone and just by looking at him I can tell he hunt…. Which mean he is not slick cos when you’re slick you are undetectable you are aimless, present and godlike.
Anyways from all the people I see in my peripherie I spot the easy girl standing alone against the wall, yeah the easy the set, the fatty FUCK THAT.
And I see the guy hunting around spotting this, he smell blood go in and eject in 10 secondes….CLASSIC
I do nothing bounce home on my way home I see a women with a huge bag. I engage her with this indirect shit….
And that’s it.
Lesson:
The lesson is approach right away the 30 secondes are crucial approach the anyone female male shoot the shit small talk, it’s daygame baby come on!
To be in approach machine mode you have to commit to the lesson above.
RAEL
Saturday after a hard part Hedi and I decide to hit Champs Elysees around 2:00 … Didn’t sleep long enough from the night before (8:00-1:00) yet felt really awesome. He comes to my place at 4:00 and we start walk I showed him my neighborhood we’re around champs de marse and Trocadero, I’m throwing nice comments at random girls like “Nice shirt”, “Nice glasses” … We’re at Trocadero, the crowd is sitting on the stairs watching a couple of dancer throwing a show. We’re both standing at the top of the stairs scanning for subjects and we see 2 hot girls far away sitting behind the dancers and infront of the crowded stair … I ask Hedi “Are you also looking at the same subject” he says “YES!”, I say “Let’s do it” … I took the lead, Hedi is following me … The adrenaline is running through my veins as I walk down between the crowd and straight to the 2 girls BAM! “Hey I’m xxxx” offering my hand … She replies back “Hey I’m xxxx” shakes hand, I speak in English she’s replying in French and then was like can you please step to the side because I can’t see the show … I didn’t commit to the set and left right away … Hedi asked me “Why didn’t you stay and commit” but I wasn’t ON to flip the script or have a funny comeback … He grabs a sandwich we chat a bit then tell him to do one more approach before leaving Trocadero but he’s not feeling it. We cross the street, 2 french girls crossing with us, one girl is wearing similar red glasses like mine, I’m like “You must be really a cool girl because we have the same glasses” she’s like merci but didn’t go anywhere. We hit Champs Elysees and Hedi starts approaching and running after women and opening but no closes … I stagnate feeling super lazy he points to me at a hot girl walking fast and I do my first “run from behind” approach … I run and open her “Hey I think you’re cute, what’s your name” she “Je ne parle pas anglais with a bitchy smile” … Me “Tu es tres mignon” she smiles but I leave … I go back and stagnate, Hedi opened a couple more subjects. He’s like “What’s up with you?” I’m like “I’m not fully in, lazy and not giving a fuck about approaching” may be tired due to lack of sleep and a bit satisfied with approaching too much the night before … Anyways we walk and I say to myself in my head “One more” … Walking among the crowd I look beside me and I see 2 cute girls sitting outside of a shop and I approached very quickly
Me:“Hey girls are you russian?”
2girls:”No”
Me:”Where are you from?”
2girls:”Germany, but some guys also told us that we look Russian”
Me:”Oh that’s cool, may be you should apply for the Russian nationality then”
2girls laugh
Me:”How long have you been in Paris?”
2girls:”It’s our first day”
I keep leading the conversation by mentioning things like I can help you with visiting some of the good spots in Paris then conversation shifts to clubbing and I offered to give some good advice about the best clubs etc … What are your facebook contacts and give them the phone they put their names into my phone.
For me that was a close and I was ready to leave afterwards but then Hedi hits it hard with me … “Listen girls, what are you doing right now?” “They’re like nothing really we just had pizza and were smoking outside not knowing our next step” Hedi is like “Would you like to have drinks with us?” They were like yes definitely … Hedi and I pause for a bit trying to figure out where we are going to go … We have a couple of seconds wondering where the fuck we’re going to go … I have no clue but I was like “C’mon lets walk there are a lot of places to have drinks” they stand with us and go … I take a girl and the lead and Hedi takes the other girl … I see a good spot that I have no fucking clue what it’s like, I’m like “I like this place, let’s go here” we go inside … The girl I was talking to sits beside me and the girl Hedi talked to was sitting beside him … Now Hedi’s girl was sitting infront of me and it was very easy to have strong eye contact and conversation with her and it was also easy for him to do the same with my girl … So we switched girls. It was funny and confusing because I didn’t who is going for who but I just gamed the girl sitting infront of me. We talk about random shit and she turned out to be a guitarist “Hi five” … Into Rock and Metal “High five” ! I put pressure on her with strong eye contact as we were speaking and she started blushing, the cheeks are going red and she starts to stutter and say random things while talking … I’m like a mother fucker strong lazer eye contact! We keep it fun and cool but there was lack of physicality … We leave the first place and the girls say let’s hit another place … Hedi and I decide to pull them to a place close to my apartment. Anyways we’re about to leave the first place and hedi goes to the bathroom, I chat and bullshit the 2 girls … Hedi comes from the bathroom and we convinced them to take them to a bar near by while having Trocadero in mind … We switched girls again as we were walking toward trocadero … It’s 20 minutes walk from champs elysees. So I hit a bit on Hedi’s girl and he hit on mine. I get to know her and she listens to Goa trance “Hi Five” getting a bit physical with her … They ask “Where are we going” I tell them “adventures” and keep leading … I walked them inside the bookstore/market and we laugh inside, we get a couple of beers and go for the 20 mins walk … We were supposed to go to a near by bar but we diffused it with a lot of talking … So We hit Trocadero and there was a fire show and indian music … I start my artistic exaggeration, I’m like wow this is so mysterious and so romantic and I get more physical by grabbing the girl and telling her to stand beside me … We watch the show and I lead by saying “Let’s go there” it’s picture time … We start taking pictures with the 2 girls, now more physical … The girls are touching us, heads leaning over heads … But I was confused myself which one is taking which one. We bullshit around trocadero and literally everything I was saying was funny to the girls … I came up with nicknames for the 2 girls “Garfield” after knowing that she likes sleeping … the other girl had a very beautiful face and I felt she was more fun and hotter than the other one. I hold her face and tell her to give me a profile look. I’m like you look like “Einstein”, they’re both like WHAAAAA? and laughing their asses … I tell her seriously is your grandpa Einstein or what … they’re really cracking … I was like “Let’s party or do something crazy” I just wanted to pull to my place for “shots” but yea the girls were like “We’re staying at a friend’s place and we have to go back at 12:00” … For me it was hitting a dead end … I wanted to leave it and go back home since I felt it was going nowhere but Hedi insists “NO!” let’s walk them back home … Me being open to experience and fun I was like okay let’s do that … So we walk the girls back and we switch girls and we now know who is for who … More physical and clarity of intention we grab our girls … Hands over their shoulders and talking … I start to throw negs at my girl “What pizza did you eat today?” “Pizza xxx with ham and pineapple” … Holy shit “Pineapple?!!” please don’t talk to me she’s like whyyyy what’s wrong and I stop back again with strong eye contact “Did you just say Pineapple” she’s like “yes” … I’m like “whatever let’s walk home” hahaha … More physical I’m playing with her hair I tell her I will dye my hair blond and be an Egyptian Viking … I tell her friend very clearly while talking about favorite places they would like to travel to … “Hey Listen, I like your friend and I’m marrying her tonight, we’re spending our honeymoon in GOA like hippies, we’ll be doing LSD and dance on the beach and our kids will be like monkeys climbing coconut trees … We’re so flower power baby” … Now everyone understands it clearly that I’m hitting on her strongly and everyone’s laughing ... We are laughing the whole way and we stand in the middle and chat more with the girls as they decided to stop for a smoke … I felt that Hedi’s girl was also a bit into me as I asked her “What are you doing tomorrow morning?” she says “Sleeping” … I say “OMG Even garfield wouldn’t have said that … You’re even worse than Garfield” she is laughing and she hits me on my chests playfully after making fun of her … We walk the girls back home after the long journey. There was a lack of physicality as we were looking for the address … it’s 12:00 now and we are still looking for their address and got a bit serious … We’re under the building now and saying goodbye, the girls say “You guys are cool, friendly and polite” … I know it’s off after hearing “Friendly” … I look at hedi and he’s pissed off it was funny! I open my arms to my girl and she jumps in strongly and had a firm hug and I was kissing her cheeks then went for a makeout but she refused … I give a nice cheek kiss and a hug to the other girl but Hedi is pissed off he didn’t want to kiss or hug any of them … he was like “Ohh do you remember the 2 swedish girls we met 2 days ago, how they say goodbye differently in Sweden” and I was hahaha hell yea it was funny … and the 2 girls gave us like weird looks. Okay Good night byeee!! Hedi was pissed off after they left that he shouted directly “WE’LL NEVER SEE THESE BITCHES AGAIN!!” he’s like “CLOSEEE, CLOSE MOTHERFUCKER CLOSEE!!!” … It was so funny to see him burst in anger. We discussed what we did wrong and the lessons learnt. I’m like whatever first daygame pull! There’s always one step more and when you get there, you realize there’s more to it!
Lessons & Remarks:
- It’s actually easy to pull. What are you doing now? Okay let’s go have a drink and pull to another place. Now when women drink it’s easier to pull as well.
- Decisiveness. We kept switching girls and hitting on both girls. If we were clear from the beginning, we could’ve escalated faster. It’s funny and stupid.
- Getting physical from the beginning … but we got physical late. Getting physical when the girl is sitting infront of me was limited to high-fives. May be I should do hand touching like let me teach you a new way of saying hello or if they have like nail polish … I like that color and hold her hand for touching.
- I could’ve gone for a makeout around Trocadero but we didn’t isolate. We should’ve isolated around trocadero!!! This is when the magic would’ve started happening!!!
JESUS
EFF MONDAY 19 MAY 2014 GO OUT TO THE MALL AND FAIL WHY?
I’m dress in my typical cultural background clothes and it’s out of my comfort zone.
Anyways once in the mall I don’t do shit. Standing there pretending to check out my phone…..
I fail in the 30 first seconds…. So I fail at the entire picture. You can always snap out of it, so I do not let it be a limiting belief but man do this shit. You are the one.
Lesson:
- The first 30 seconds.
RAEL
Monday-Saturday 19-24 May 2014
Working hard and writing reports from the week before, re-studying RSD concepts but no socialization!
JESUS
EFF TUESDAY 20 MAY 2014 NEW WING
I meet with a wing from the south of France, we shoot the shit a bit, I feel good it’s raining which is the shit.
I point to some girl full dictator, they freak out, giggles are intrigue and bounce.
He and I approach left and right but I feel the challenge is approaching with social pressure and mixed set.
At some point I see a girl with a green jacket and let her go while talking with wing. He is heavily into RSD but approach for real.
I bounce and he bounce too.
Lesson:
- Shortened the approach time.
Rael.
EFF WEDNESDAY 21 MAY 2014 GO OUT TO THE MALL AND FAIL AGAIN?!
I fail to fail. Damn man if I don’t fail I don’t grow….and today I don’t fail.
I go out to the mall and approach no one.
I got some insight though, they’re a lot of couple at the mall it’s the way to go to approach mixed set.
Staying infield until I approach is the mission so I go to the bar of “fear” near my house, which I will have to conquer, he’s on the list.
I don’t do shit so I bounce to my train station, I park, walk and see 2 women waiting probably for someone to pick them up, it’s 11h00+ dark and not a lot of people, I afraid a lot of people by my vibe + I approach weidly hanging to a signpost with my arm but also in my vibe.
Rael: I find you really sexy misses.
The leader: Yeah, you better leave my brother will come.
Rael: It’s cool, I find you sexy anyways.
Approach done, go back home glory.
Lesson:
- I do the job.
- Weak willpower.
- Stay infield until the job is done.
Rael.
EFF Thursday 22 May 2014 DEATH
Go out to see my aunt on Paris so I was on the metro for 20 to 30min could have been in fear but did not do it.
It’s a dead for growth, I sense myself slowly take a step back
EFF Friday 23 May 2014 SHOWCASE CRAZYNESS
Ok tonight I go out with my brother who is CK as fuck. Another CK guys should have come but he dodge the meeting because most guy will do anything to no be rejected. FAGGOT.
So we park and head to the club it’s raining, SHOWCASE is under the bridge, excellent placement.
Anyways I brief my brother about continuing to vibe in front of the bouncer and not waiting to be judge like 99% of people, because we don’t care and I have a plan B if we don’t enter.
Oh yeah the guys who play to win, who are on a fucking mission always have a plan B if you don’t you don’t go out enough to realize it’s MANDATORY.
So at the entrance I can feel the bouncer gauging our vibes and I stay center in myself, not caring. We enter.
Once inside not a lot of people, so we shoot the shit it’s early I joke with Vision (my brother) and our bubble is at the fucking top at some point I claw a little 7 fatty black girl with a cute face, we shoot the shit with her and told her to go smoke her cigarette which I give her a lecture on because it’s disgusting.
The night start to take off and I start doing all sort of crazy stuff because I’m bored. That’s the point in the club I’m fucking bored…
I was in the zone but I do not feel this internal resistance, feeling in your chest which mean I don’t grow…
Anyways here is what I remember :
I claw some guys saying just what my brother told me. Like my brother told me it’s too early, I claw a guy
Rael: It’s too early
The guy: WTF face ???
I laugh. I go talk to a girl against the wall isolated :
Rael: I allow you to dance, you are no more punish.
Laugh and bounce.
I vibe with my brother some more told him I really don’t give a fuck and start walking on my knees.. looking at people with my hand like I beg and some guy walk past and help me to stand up.
Rael: You are funky as fuck and you got a soul not like this civilian.
Guy: (alpha as fuck) blablabla
We vibe introduce him to my brother and he bounce.
At some point I claw a girl by reflex and that’s the thing, it’s the first time I do it unconsciously it’s like pur instinct.
AND SHE WAS A 8 the hottest of the club, I want to fuck her face all night and I introduce her to my brother, we vibe we own it and because she is hot my brother told me later he just want to kiss her and not rape her like the other girl, that’s why I feel the interaction start lacking leading and owning LIKE A BOSS. So I immediately start to lead again, the thing is I should have keep her for me, FULL NARCICIST MODE.
I ask her where is her friends, in the VIP area….
At some point she say she go smoke and told her I hat that shit so I let her go…. Next time do not let this go ever motherfucker.
Go around the dancefloor, go back to talk to my brother and I put my hand on some liquid….So I go on the dancefloor claw two guys and start doing the Russian dance, they go with me.
My hand is clean, I go back to my brother and claw a female a 7.5 should have commit but I’m too much in the little fun I get in the interaction and leave.
I approach some girl searching something on her purse and she end up asking me if I want some MDMA, another drug dealer…. I should have cut her instead of listening to her bullshit (seeking approval here) since I don’t tolerate this shit at all.
I go back to my brother and told him the story and I say:
Rael: The next time a drug dealer asking me for drugs I slap the shit out of him I swear on my honor.
So next time this happen I know what to do.
We decide to bounce on the way out we see a girl with the same look as a black girl inside, she got some style, the beret, the glasses and the skirt.
RAel: (Some magic shit since I’m in the zone)
Female: (loving hit)
Rael: I bounce
Female: She mimic a kiss to me.
And we bounce again I have to push EACH FUCKING INTERACTION TO THE FUCKING END OF THE WORLD.
Lesson:
- Great momentum
- Commit to all the girl you approach like a velociraptor
- Don’t share anything to my brother which is benefic for him and my dick. So he have to rely on his balls either way he’s fuck.
- PUSH THIS SHIT AND FINDS THIS INTERNAL FEELING OF PAIN
RAEL
EFF SATURDAY 24 MAY 2014 MY ASS IN ON FIRE
I go pick up a friend of mine and I eat before taking my car which will be a fucking mistake….
I pick DEMONKID, he’s a night veteran/natural. He know he’s shit and rely on his balls.
Before arriving at his house, I stop in front of a dark street and go take a shit, I eat some pepper at my aunt house and now I regret it, I shit DIABLO himself.
It’s crazy that when you are in non-resistance it really appease yourself from the intense feeling in your stomach.
Anyways I don’t let this affect me, at all.
Anyways we are on the road to Paris and arrive late, I park and we go to the line since I fucked up the logistic we go back to the car there no way we pay the cover.
Demonkid know a bar at Bastille, we go there. In front of the bar a lot of guys get decline but we know better. I feel in the eyes of the bounce that we are in and since I don’t supplicate in my vibe and Demonkid is on it too, which by the way is crucial when you go out. You either go with Alpha motherfucker and with no one because with alpha motherfucker you are on your own, they are part of the secret society…
The bouncer let us in and barely check us out before entering the bar.
When inside I go to the toilets again… what a peaceful feeling when I’m done.
I go downstairs and just sit and chill, I stand like that for long time opening a girl with her bracelet on my right, not commiting and take action like I should….
At some point I go for the couple making out challenge I approach all couple making out trying to break the love.
I approach one clawing them and making the hands timeout they bug, for real I laugh..
I approach another one when I claw them the girl makeout some more, thinking it’s the guy tightening his grip, no It’s my hands bitch….
Then I dance with two English looking girl, at some point a guy talk to the two girls and what look like an English guy come in, he was with the two girls, and start shit with this guy who was smaller and Demonkid introduce me to the guy, he is Argentinian…. A brother of mine. And then I observe a funny things happening, as I enter the personal space of the UK guy he calm down right away because my vibe when in zone it’s all fun but I got the don’t fuck with me vibe REALLY down too. Anyways I explain to Argentinan guy to chill and there other girls there but that I respect him for taking shit from this taller guy.
Demonkid find an Iphone in the bar on the ground, he is all happy about it. I love Demonkid.
We bounce.
Lesson:
- I should have take action right away at make a goal to take on this habit and to refine it again and again….
Rael
EFF SUNDAY 25 MAY 2014 RIQUELME
I go to meet Jesus in the field, Champs Elysee here we go.
I approach a group of two girl:
Rael: Hey girl did you know the place ?
Leader female: blablablabla
Rael: You’re not French. Where you from ?
Leader female: Argentina.
Rael: (I’m half Argentinian) Hell yeah! (SHOULD HAVE GONE PHYSICAL THERE!!! HIGH MOTHERFUCKING FIVE!!) From where Buenos aires ?
Females: Yes.
Rael: (Love it again) (Another reason to go physical THERE!) Did you support Boca Juniors ?
Females: blablalblablablabla Yes.
Then Riquelme get introduce I don’t remember how.
Rael: It’s my favorite player ever!
Leader females: More than Messi ?!
Rael: (Bitch please face) Of course.
Leader females: Maradona ?
Rael:…..No not this much.
Then I eject tolding them to have a good night ???!!
WTF
Playing to not lose all the way. Argentinian from Buenos Aires and I eject ? SHAME ON ME….
We bounce and go to Jesus place.
Lesson:
- Take the habit to approach ethics.
- COMMIT TO YOUR APPROACH SHE EITHER LEAVE OR YOU CLOSE.
Rael
Going out with Stephanie, random invitation to a professional musician’s house in Belleville, getting out of the comfort zone playing the guitar and singing infront of 7 people that I just met. Felt nervous but did it anyway! Met up with Lionel late night … Didn’t approach but he approached 2 Argentinian chicks
JESUS
EFF MONDAY 26 MAY 2014 JESUS IS BACK
I meet with Jesus in field. He was with a Romanian woman, I snap my finger to this bitch and told her to bounce the fuck out. She take bad and go passive aggressive, I hesitate to slap the shit out of her and Jesus claw me and we keep walking.
I was there before him and I did not approach before we meet. We chill and Jesus revert back to faggot mode…Incredible. I use to be in his shoes and him in mine then neutral both with authority over ourselves, that’s why you can’t take “time off the game” because game is not only men/women dynamics, it’s the way you act in your daily life…
Anyways we see two girls walking by and both of us know, without a word that we should have approach this two.
I run to her.
Rael: Hey
Females: (one is on the phone the other give her attention)
Rael: My brother Jesus fall in love with you.
Females: blablablabla she is my step sister.
Rael: SO you got a man.
Females: blablabla
I bounce, which I SHOULD STOP DOING AND STAY IN UNTIL THEY LEAVE PLOW TRHOUGH!
Go back to vibing with Jesus, a old woman walk by with magnificient grey hair.
Rael: La coupe poivre et sel vous vas magnifiquement bien.
Females : blablablabla (I remember the energy on her face, this female got an beautiful vibe about her which some old women usually have, pur relax…)
Jesus make some odd comments to two girls who end up being French.
I approach what I call the libanese mature women. I don’t remember what I told her it was a small interaction but again I should have plow through.
That’s all I remember we head back to the top, I scream and stop saying to Jesus if people see us blablabla, Jesus told me that he don’t care he do what’s good to you.
Good point so I scream louder this time.
Lesson:
- AA almost gone, still hammer the approach instinct and push trought faster.
- Next challenge is mixed set and social pressure approach with crowd around.
Rael
Met Lionel around 3 … Approach mode is not active. He approaches 2 hot chicks(running approach) and opened different subjects. I opened 2 walking girls and stay grounded didn’t move just eye contact. We leave and he opens Asian subjects and my advice was if you open a subject be a bit congruent and interested …
JESUS
EFF TUESDAY 27 MAY 2014 JESUS ON HIS MOMENTUM
Ok I arrive on our favorite spot was about to search Jesus but fuck this shit, I need no one… someone grow some balls.
I walk a bit stop in front of the Lido, I see a guy with red socks and crocks that I want to diss. And on the other side a cute chicks on the phone very cute face.
I take like 10 minutes before jumping in the pool….. this is where glory is at bro to reduce this time and approaching right away.
I go talk to the guy:
Rael: What happen this morning for you to take on this socks and shoes.
Guy: blablablabla (he got an accent from eastern country)
We vibe he’s friendly.
I approach the chick right after.
Rael: Hey ! Hang out the phone.
Female: (Shock, Stop talking on the phone) Why ?
Rael: Because I find you cute.
Female: blablablabla
At some point she say:
Female: It’s my boyfriend (her phone)
Rael: Hang out told him you got a new one.
And I EJECT, I SHOULD HAVE PLOW THROUGH.
I go back to meet Jesus.
We cross the sidewalk approach nothing and go back to the other one.
I don’t remember any approach expect at the end and that’s because I write this report two days after….. RIGHT ACTION BITCH.
I approach a japanese women but grounded, I put myself out there and I get her attention right away.
Then I send Jesus in the Russian model. You can read about it in his part…
Maybe I send Jesus before approaching the Japanese female.
Anyways….
When you write you’re report write THE FUCKING SAME DAY to remember all the details.
Lesson:
- I don’t feel this internal resistance no more which mean I have to find CHALLENGE QUICKLY!!
- !!! so mixed set, big group and social pressure group.
- Also need to get physical for no reason, you’re from Romania! HIGH FIVE.
- I can’t wait for my fucking bootcamp, ITS GOING TO BE THE SHIT!!!!
RAEL
I come up with a quick way of organizing our hours in the field according to energy levels: low, Mid and High. So for example if we are staying for an hour
10mins: Just some social proof by saying hello and complimenting people
10mins: Low energy sets not stressing on closes
20mins: Mid Energy sets with Facebook and number closes
20mins: High energy sets with instadates and pulls
I take bicycle go to field around 3:10 I wait for Lionel on a bench and I start talking to the guy sitting next to me mainly conversation went in French with learning and adding more words to my dictionary, I felt I built up some social momentum though. Lionel comes we bounce we take the other sidewalk … no approaching we cross again. Lionel looks for a club we are back at the top of the street back again. Lionel is like here’s a hot bitch approach … I walk to HB with a slight pump of adrenaline, “Excuse me! I just like your style and wanted to say hello” as soon as I look into her eyes and see her face clearly, I realize she’s not as cute as I expected but she looks interesting … HB replies ”Oh Thanks” Me:”What do you do?” she takes a bit of time to respond so I repeat the question again in French “Qu'est-ce que tu travailles” and she looks right and left with her eyes and replies “Artist” I ask her “Do you paint?” she’s like no … I’m like “What kind of art do you create?” and she replies “I’m a model” … I felt it was non-congruent as she took time to think of an answer which made me think she’s either working as slut or in the porn industry for some reason … “Where do you come from?” HB:”Russia” “And you’re here for a visit?” HB ”No I have been living here for sometime””uhuh cool, I’m Jesus” “and you are” HB”xxx” Me” shakes hands Okay cool nice to meet you xxx, I think you’re beautiful just wanted to tell you have a nice day” … She was cool in her responses but her vibe was cold which killed it for me. Back to lionel I tell him to approach the lady behind, he approaches her and then we’re about to leave he wants me to re-approach HB again … I’m resistant but I understand his overcoming fear-related Ozzie style tactics. We chat a bit and he wants me to re-approach so I promise and I go back in set. I re-approach with a lack of interest “Hey I wanted to talk to you more” HB “I don’t want to” Me”Ok cool” and leave to take my bicycle.
Remarks:
- The approach of the Russian chick was challenging in 2 ways, 1st way is that from a social point of view she appears hot 2nd way is that she was looking at the police and street dancers before I approach her and the approach was close to Police but I didn’t really give a fuck. I think its more balls to approach a HB close to Police so I take pride in that!
- 1st time of a set re-approach knowing it won’t go well but for the sake of breaking through a new form of resistance and getting out of comfort zone.
JESUS
EFF WEDNESMOTHERFUCKINGDAY 28 MAY 2014 JESUS FACE SUCCESS BARRIER AND PUSH TROUGH IT
Ok I go in the field and in my other report I don’t mention it but everytime I’m on my way to Paris I unstifled, I scream out loud whenever I cross someone, I don’t push it EXTREME but I do it everytime, then I sing usually because I’ve always do and I sing like god, so Jeffy can suck my dick.
On my bike I sing and I see far away a person coming so I sing louder and keep eye contact, she smile at mme singing and I feel this little validation rising, I cut it right away. I don’t seek comfort, I seek indifference bitch. I think this is a HUGE DETAIL to look. Positive or Negative you can’t take for granted a reaction. Indifference is the mother of manhood.
Anyways today arriving in to my train station I sprint and once inside the train I realize the effect of running on your physiological. I was kind of in the zone.
I’m in the field but I should approach on the train, in front of fucking everyone.
We meet with Jesus I see a girl on my left:
Rael: This is Jesus my brother.
Female: (She nod pretending to not caring..)
Rael: I love your deep blue eyes.
Female: (she crack a smirk)
This is the effect of being really carefree and plowing trough. I should have push and this a recurrent problem of mine.
We shoot the shit and go in this bitch, we walk all along the sidewalk once at the end we hit rock bottom so we stop this non approaching shit.
I approach a girl a 7
Rael: I love your blue eyes they are marvelous.
Female: (blush like crazy and because she is a 7 this hit her hard) blablabla
Vibe with her she’s not from here and I say that I can tell by vibe and smile. At some point she leave but the things is I HAVE TO PHYSICALLY ESCALATE SHAKING HAND IS DEFAULT FROM NOW ON. HIGH FIVE FOR NO REASON, ETC… and BE MORE GROUNDED.
On the way I see 3 7.5 – 8 sitting at a café. THIS IS WHERE GLORY IS, APPROACH THIS MOTHERFUCKER!!
They were beautiful.
Jesus approach a girl by herself look at his fr…
Then he approach again a group of two girls.
I don’t approach and drift to go talk to some sellers, to ask them about logistic issue. By the way I’m speak French and English by learning on my own (English). I’m so fluent they were thinking I was a foreign guy…. Tight.
Then immediately I go under an umbrella of some women.
Rael: How much you take for the location of the umbrella ?
Female: (mature women, cute; Scared) You scared me (smile).
Rael: Did you take credit card? Check? I don’t have my check payroll on me.
Female: blablablablablablablablabla…..
AND AGAIN I EJECT STOP THIS BITCH!!!
Ok so at the end I approach a girl with a strange bag.
Rael: What is this bag anti – rain ?
Female: blablablablablablablabla
Rael: It’s an excuse I don’t care about your bag I find you cute. (I stuttered here)
Female: blablabla
I walk WITH HER. WIN !
Rael: you are not from Paris I can tell.
Female: No…
Rael: Let me guess city x, y , z
We vibe but again:
- I’m too light like Julien said not enough grounded.
- PHYSICAL ESCALATION SHAKING HANDS DEFAULT MOVE
Go back we are about to approach a group together but a guy pop in and we dodge…IT’S THE MOTHERFUCKING LAST TIME WE DO THIS.
Then a little cutie walk by Jesus see this shit, and I do too what are you waiting for bitch ?
No she’s gone. I grab this motherfucker
Rael: Listen, you want this if she blow you off nothing happen, yeah you don’t want to do it but think about how you are gonna feel back home when you’re gonna think about this approach ? You are gonna reinforce you are the shit and push through SUCCESS MOTHERFUCKING BARRIERS.
Jesus realize he is GOD.
Jesus go in.
I litteraly feel like it’s me who push through this shit….
When he approach her in the sidewalk in the middle of Champs Elysee, I can’t here but at his second sentence the three old people on his left turn their head and are like:
Fedayins: Game ???!!! In the middle of the day ??!!
I diying out of laugh.
Look at his fr for more details. I go with him on the other sidewalk and approach a women pretending I’m English, asking shit. I make myself laugh.
Then he come back we go to the other sidewalk and it’s time for ONE MOTHERFUCKING MORE AND BOUNCE.
We stay like this for a good 12 minutes I have two girl sitting on a bench I want to go and ask them if they do squat but don’t for some reason…
We pick two girls and as soon as I go for mine a guy pop in. It’s the last time I don’t approach a mixed set. I go for the other one and I’m 100% congruent.
Rael: Hey what do you think of two guys who approach girls on Champs Elysée.
Female: blablablabla
I barely can’t hear her she is quiet and shy. But she’s Romanian and I ask her if she’s like the other Romanian begger she told me no they are gypsi. (I love gypsie by the way, it’s one of the last race where man got some balls and female know there places) Then I ask her name, Clara and bounce while saying goodbye in Romanian.
JOB DONE
Lesson:
- I was so proud of Jesus for pushing trough this shit almost tear in the eyes for real.
- Have to find challenge and quickly otherwise SHRINKING MODE STOP APPROACHING LONELY GIRL.
- Find where HOTTTT bitch go in the day.
- ESCALATE PHYSICLY SHAKE HAND DEFAULT MOVE.
- Approach Ethics for you want in life, approaching girl, calling people out for their bullshit etc… DO IT.
- P.S I walk past a guy I met 4 years before when discovering about the game I go to Lyon to meet him and also meet him in Paris… The guy is still a fag, I can tell by his vibe….
Rael
It’s 5:40 I leave home, I bump into my 2 cool neighbors under the building we chat a bit about how we should have a party, every time we say let’s have a party we don’t do it but we exchanged numbers, they wanted to hangout but I tell them I’m meeting my buddy at Champs Elysees. I take a Bicycle and hit the field. I come Lionel opens a chick beside him he bullshits and the girl is like whatever until he says “Nice blue eyes” and she laughs … I thought it was funny too from his vibe! I open some girl on her phone “Excuse me are you french?” she’s like yea I reply “Wow, how come? You look like you’re from eastern Europe” she says “No I’m French” and we had strong eye contact, I ask her “What’s your name?” She says some name and I tell her Okay now I believe you, you are pure French and I leave hahah just building some momentum. Lionel opens the police man and asks what’s up … We walk a bit I tell Lionel to open a cute chick by the tree … He opens her and she was laughing straight forward, the set had some decent time. We walk the walk of the Choda afterwards not approaching so we decide to hit the rock bottom, the end of the street to reset and have the walk of glory from the end of champs elysees to the Arc of victory. We skip a couple of sets but my warrior detector says enough choding, hit whatever subject so a girl is walking fast and I approach and walk with her “Excuse me, are you French?” she’s like yes! Eye contact and all I’m like “I’m just new in Paris and have been looking for some non-touristic places, but I only like to ask cute girls” she laughs, I’m like “you know I’m not some gay guy” so she’s like “Ofcourse!” she asks me “How long have you been here?” I’m like full bullshit mood “I have been here for 2 weeks” she asks me have you seen “Tour Eiffel”, I’m like “duuuuh ofcourse” she asks me about a couple of places like St. Germain and St. Michel and I was like I’ve heard of them but haven’t been there she tells me I’m not from here I’m from Brittany, I’m like that’s north of France close to UK right? She’s like yess, I’m like uhuh that’s why you have good english? She asks me “Really?” I’m like “Not really!” then she laughs again! Was a nice tease from me hahah! So I tell her you should be my tour guide for the next couple of days she tells me I’m leaving to Brittany on the weekend, I’m like okay cool let’s stay in touch through facebook … She tells me “Sorry I don’t share personal information with strangers” I use Todd’s line “We are not strangers any more” she’s like “But we just met 5 mins ago” I’m like hey no worries, it was nice meeting you and I leave … back with Lionel … We cross the street 2 girls who I though looked pretty decent age above 20 or so, I opened them quickly “Excuse me, are you French? And I pick 1 of the girls who I hold eye contact with” they’re like “Yes” and I’m like and “what are you doing here?” They’re like resistant to the question(probably thinking who is this weird dude) so I throw more of my personality out there, I’m like “I’m new to Paris and I think the best way to discover Paris is through meeting French people who can tell me about some awesome places in here” they got really interested in the conversation and started to tell me about their favorite locations etc … The girl tells me she has just been back from the states “Seattle” which is the only city I visited in the states so I’m like Oh I have a bracelet from Seattle and as I get it out she’s touching my hands and twisting the bracelet to see what it says … We talk about west coast US … I ask them if they are still students and they say yes they are … I felt they were young so I bailed out. Back to lionel we walk I tell him to approach a lady then he chats with some old guy who is giving him directions and we hit the end of the “Walk of Glory” the great ARC of victory! He sees a HB and opens her right away and walks with her! Super cool!! Awesome job mother fucker!!
The last approach, a cute girl passes by and my chode detector skips her so Lionel my conscious voice tells me “Are you fucking kidding” go approach her mother fucker I’m like she just crossed blabla … He’s like but you will go home and be proud of yourself look she is stuck at the pedestrian traffic light … I take a look and I’m like dude makes sense so I wake up and I run quickly to approach halfway through the pedestrian crossing in the middle of the street, other people standing with us and I felt it was like a movie scene … “Excuse me, are you French?”, “Oh yes I am”, I smile and look into her eyes “Wow I think you’re cute I just wanted to say hi” … She laughs and turns her face the other side then looks at me again with a cute smile “Thank you” … I ask “Hey what do you do?” she replies “I’m unemployed” I’m like oh I know a French word for that, which I learnt from a guy I met yesterday “Chomage”(guy from the bench in the field yesterday) … She’s like yess … A moment of creativity sparks I ask “How come you don’t have a job, what’s your passion in life?” … She replies “I don’t really know” … (Sub-communication) She is walking fast but I become aware of this, I am not chasing her or her speed so I walk slowly at my own pace, warrior body posture and I lead conversation so she starts to walk slowly to follow my pace, I’m like “May be you should start painting, become an Artist … Picasso!” and I say it in a manner that reflects as if I’m some crazy artsy dude(which is true) without saying I work with design or anything … she’s drawn into my reality, I can feel it and she’s more interested, she gives me the Anime eyes and suddenly asks me “Where are you from?” I reply “Egypt” she asks “How long have you been in Paris” … “1 year” she asks “Do you like Paris?””I reply, I love Paris!” so I lead conversation back “Do youuuu as French like Paris?” and she replies “I love Paris” I’m like “You’re cool and weird because you’re unemployed but you still love the city” she laughs, I bullshit and say “Most French aren’t happy and I mention a French saying something along the lines bobo, metro dodo” and we laugh about it … I try to seed a pull “What are you doing now? Are you looking for some kind of jobs around here” She replies “No I’m going for dinner at my friend’s place” So I ask her what’s her name and offer a hand shake she tells me her name but she has her hand inside her pocket (a bit resistant) so I make fun of her “Are you too cold to shake my hand?” she laughs and she shakes my hand I wanted to close but she’s like “Okay it was really nice meeting you” and I didn’t insist, I’m sure I would’ve got her number if I asked for it but nope I didn’t close.
Remarks:
- The more we hit the field the more there is a careless and funny vibe and is fun to the conversation. Like Julien says the more bullshit you see and the more you stop giving a fuck.
- My Bullshit detector is going up and I’m feeling more creative. Today all my subjects were French, and I managed to freestyle and come up with I’m new to Paris, have been here for 2 weeks yet was congruent with my bullshit … I like to ask what are some cool places but I like to ask cute girls … I love the Bullshit mood! In fact it is more fun when I keep bullshitting!
- I’m doing good with body language and leading conversations … but I need to work on insisting and not give up quickly. Perhaps 4 times rule? The problem with insisting is that it can be viewed as neediness, but why not try to reframe 4 times then leave.
JESUS
EFF THURSDAY 29 MAY 2014 SLIDE BACK DAY
Go infield on the way. I make Eye contact with a guy in the train. Typical suburb guy he keep the eye contact, let go and come back
then asking me what is up ?
Nothing. And I keep the Eye contact I sense in his rythm that I get the upper hand, so no growth there.
I do this type of shit.
I meet with Jesus and hit the sidewalk. I should have approach anything even in the train. At the end of the sidewalk
I start clapping hand and I feel Jesus tense about it. Next time full instifling.
Clapping hand and SCREAMING.
I see a girl that catch Jesus RAS and he don't go for it. I look at him.....
I run toward her.
Rael: My brother find you beautiful.
Female: blablablabla
Rael: Some magic shit
Then Jesus send me in a girl listening to music.
I grab her earphone she’s shock. Unfazed:
Rael: What are you listening to ?
Female: (got AA) gibberish.
Rael: What ?
Female: blablablabla
Rael: Let me listen.
Female: (She put her earphone in my ear right ear.)
Rael: I like it, what’s the title already ?
Female: blablabla
Should have kill the set for fun… She was a 6.
And EJECT by motherfucking reflex.. and I should told her to stop and follow her if she don't comply like the blond
from yesterday. Especially that once you push through and got the cool guy vibe, which we definitely got me and Jesus, she open VERY often once you push through.
I come back to Jesus he is in talking to some girl. He close this shit and get physical which was he's sticking point.
We hit the road again, I spare you all the nonsense we do.
I let myself slip back a little bit.
We vibe and shit. And Jesus send me in I’m resistant toward approaching this little one.
I go in and test my English accent again.
I vibe with her she open up and is boring, should have call her on it. Also should have been BOUM in her face this is what’s up.
Jesus approach another one we separate and leave it as that.
Lesson:
- Keep the habit of approaching AND DOING MORE CHALLENGING GROUP.
- Doing thing that scared me everyday.
I change the police of my report to Courier New, badass characters.
Rael
Social muscle is growing stronger everyday. I remembered in Derek’s conversation things like demonstrating high value like if you were “Brad Pitt” would the girl do anything to be with you? Be playful in conversation, you have a good girl’s face but bad girl’s manner … You’re my girlfriend for the next 5 minutes. Be playful and tease! Tyler’s 4 recommendation for openers that makes you different than any other person who tries to approach: Story telling 90/10 rule, cold reading, misinterpretation and roleplaying.
Lionel and I meet at the field around 3:10 and we walk the walk. I see a girl walking towards us and bang I approach to break the ice no intention to close or flirt just pushing myself to start … Me:“Excuse me, I think you’re cute and wanted to chat you a bit” Girl “Thank you” … Me“Where are you from?” Girl“UK” Me”Uhuh cool, only place I’ve been to in UK was London” she asks “Cool, and how long have you been here in Paris”, Me“1 year, listen I like to visit non-touristic places and chat to random people on the streets, what’s your favorite place in Paris?” “Jardin des Tuileries” “Uhuh cool, I’ll check it out” “Sweet, nice meeting you” then bail … Lionel and I walk and I tell him to approach a random chick he asks her for music and she sticks earphones to his ears … We keep walking, I skip a nice subject and he says we can’t skip so he runs and approaches in the mean time instead of me waiting everytime, I approached the first chick walking towards me … A seemingly cool blonde chick with motorhead shirt and a medusa piercing
Me:”Excuse me, are you French?”
Rocker Chick:”Yes I am”
Me:”That’s cool, I like your shirt Motorhead! Do you listen to metal music?”
RC:”Yes, but I also listen to other kinds of music like electronic”
High 5! She wanted to actually hold my hand after high fiving but I didn’t expect it so I ignored it …
Me:”What are some of your favorite bands?”
RC:”bablbalba”
Me:”Are you in a band?”
RC:”No but a lot of people tell me that I look like a band member”
Me:”Don’t talk to me! *pretending to move away* Okay do you play an instrument?”
RC:”No”
Me:”I think you should change your metal shirt to mickey mouse shirt then”
RC laughs and I laugh at my silliness too hahah
Me:”Cool, what do you work with?”
RC:”Graphic design”
Me:”Oh that’s another high 5” High five and holding hands briefly, she’s smiling and happy this point
Me:”I’m a freelance web and graphic designer too … What are you doing now?”
RC:”I have a job interview… What about you, what are you doing here now?”
Loooool picking up chicks? I didn’t say that but her vibe was suspicious of some lady activity going on so I say “I don’t like to stay in front of the computer for a long time so I love to walk and mingle with French people, this is how you get to know a city!” … I change subject quickly I’m like “Good luck with your job interview, fingers crossed for you! How long do you have till the interview?”
RC:”10 mins”
Me:”Okay cool I’m going to leave you now and wish you good luck but we should stay intouch, do you use facebook?”
RC:”Sure!”
She writes it on my phone, I blow her a kiss and leave … I can tell when a girl is into me! There is a high probability I would fuck this girl … but let’s go through the process rather than estimations!
Lionel and I meet again I ask him how was his approach then we walk up to the arc. I get the bicycle we’re looking for subjects … I throw him in a set and tell him to close but he didn’t close … Also took time to approach … He comes back he throws me in a set with a girl who doesn’t speak a word of English so I had to throw some French bullshit … Me”Hey I think you’re cute, do you speak english?” Girl”Confused, Je ne parle pas anglais” Me”uhuhhh tu es francaise?” FC”Oui” Me(uhuh in my head this will get weirder now so let’s make it weird) I take my time speaking slowly:”Mon Francais est tres mal mais j’essai de pratiquer mon francais avec toi” FC”uhuh” Me :”Je veux parler tu es tres mignon” FC(nervous smile) : ”Oh Merci” … I look at her in the eyes and stay with the weirdness knowing it’s funny … she says again with a nervous smile “Merci” … “Je passe un bon journee” FC”Merci” Me:”Vrai?” FC”oui” enchante and I bail.
Text Gaming with RC intiated on facebook, but she’s playing hard to get with taking her time to respond and attitude … She wants to keep me on the hook … The fun vibe, sexual intention, push and pull initiated directly but a day2 date might take some time or not even happen … She is also gaming me … She seems like a hot sex subject, the vibe I’m projecting is “I want to fuck you yes but you have to show me how cool you are or I’m leaving” Challenging and intriguing her … After recommending some funny silly shirt I show her online, I mention it in a push-pull manner “You would look sexy in this shirt but I am not sure you’re the open minded personality type though” … I’m having fun gaming anyways! Love women, love life!!
JESUS