Re-engagement game for sexy nerd I want to rub my boner on
Mon, 12/10/2012 - 09:12
Me: 11/25/2012 03:58:24 Katalyst
Her: 11/25/2012 04:34:22 ☺
Her: 11/25/2012 04:34:24 Cutie (first name)
Her: 11/25/2012 04:34:34 Cutie (last name)
Me: 11/25/2012 14:07:42 (silly pic message of hipster)
Her: 11/25/2012 14:18:09 Hahah gotta love Brooklyn. I'm finallyyyy getting something to eat now.
Me: 11/25/2012 14:19:31 Lol. Hey beb, we're both busy during the week... what's your schedule look like tonight
Her: 11/25/2012 21:11:46 I just made dinner with my roomies, hanging with them tonight. Last Sunday before I move out :(
Me: 11/26/2012 13:44:43 No worries beb - I was busy studying. When's your last day in hipsterville.
Her: 11/28/2012 12:57:17 Ello there dear! Sorry I missed your call. Definitely enjoyed your message though haha. I feel like there are tons of drunken facts about Katalyst I have forgotten!
Her: 11/28/2012 13:05:09 I remember (where I live) ... And (where I went to school- both she guessed right)? Maybe? But that's about as far as a Jameson night allows me to remember
Me: 11/28/2012 14:57:15 You naughtie bird (british accent). Yup - (college and neigborhood)
Her: 11/28/2012 14:58:57 Lmao did I show you my wonderful, overused British accent that night?
Me: 11/28/2012 15:04:29 Nope. You should show me tonight. Lets go rob a bank Bonnie & Clyde style in British accents. You can be my lookout
Her: 11/28/2012 15:05:59 My, what better way is there to spend a Wednesday night?
Me: 11/28/2012 15:09:03 In the States I'm afraid there is none darling. Shall we rendenvous after my class at 21:30
Her: 11/28/2012 16:11:37 Where are you from!? Give me the quick 411 on Katalyst
Her: 11/28/2012 16:11:37 I'm actually meeting with the girls after work to go dancccccinggg, may be in the area though!
Me: 11/28/2012 16:14:40 I'm from Rapewood (hehe), NJ. Parents are African but everyone who reads my full name thinks I'm Blackanese.
Her: 11/28/2012 18:52:48 Lovely, lovely and school / work situation?
Her: 11/28/2012 18:52:48 And rape wood, what county is that?
Me: 11/28/2012 19:23:03 I work at XYZ.com and I'm sitting in my web dev class :(
Her: 11/28/2012 19:23:29 At (school I went to)!?
Me: 11/28/2012 19:23:59 nah it's at this tech startup place called xyz
Her: 11/28/2012 19:30:10 Oh! Did we talk about that too!? I need to go there, they have fun tutorials!
Me: 11/28/2012 20:16:20 Yup we did woman! this class is not fun just hard labor.
Her: 11/28/2012 20:17:20 Hard labor? What type of web devel? Like just HTML
Me: 11/28/2012 20:18:18 We did HTML already - that was easy. Today we just started ruby. My brain is like wtf
right now
Her: 11/28/2012 20:19:49 Ah, I never did ruby. Java's probably next. Wait till you get to C++
Me: 11/28/2012 20:24:47 Nah ruby is our last language. Have to admit I'm really impressed you know about programming.
Her: 11/28/2012 20:26:38 I'm a computer science major sir!
Me: 11/28/2012 20:30:55 Nicee. I feel like getting a margarita with a señorita. How does sometime after my class tonight work for you bonita. My schedule sucks till Saturday
Her: 11/28/2012 20:41:07 Aw, I'm out with my roomies tonight sir. But even after I move out I can surely meet for a drink in the city.
Me: 11/28/2012 21:06:14 Done with class. Cool. I might go see my friend spin at XYZ tonight btw.
Her: 11/28/2012 21:27:31 Ahh I've wanted to go there! Staying local tonight but def let me k
Her: 11/28/2012 21:27:34 now when that is happening again.
Me: 12/02/2012 17:08:56 Yo soccer moms don't fuck around at costco. Shits crazy!!!
Her: 11/25/2012 04:34:22 ☺
Her: 11/25/2012 04:34:24 Cutie (first name)
Her: 11/25/2012 04:34:34 Cutie (last name)
Me: 11/25/2012 14:07:42 (silly pic message of hipster)
Her: 11/25/2012 14:18:09 Hahah gotta love Brooklyn. I'm finallyyyy getting something to eat now.
Me: 11/25/2012 14:19:31 Lol. Hey beb, we're both busy during the week... what's your schedule look like tonight
Her: 11/25/2012 21:11:46 I just made dinner with my roomies, hanging with them tonight. Last Sunday before I move out :(
Me: 11/26/2012 13:44:43 No worries beb - I was busy studying. When's your last day in hipsterville.
Her: 11/28/2012 12:57:17 Ello there dear! Sorry I missed your call. Definitely enjoyed your message though haha. I feel like there are tons of drunken facts about Katalyst I have forgotten!
Her: 11/28/2012 13:05:09 I remember (where I live) ... And (where I went to school- both she guessed right)? Maybe? But that's about as far as a Jameson night allows me to remember
Me: 11/28/2012 14:57:15 You naughtie bird (british accent). Yup - (college and neigborhood)
Her: 11/28/2012 14:58:57 Lmao did I show you my wonderful, overused British accent that night?
Me: 11/28/2012 15:04:29 Nope. You should show me tonight. Lets go rob a bank Bonnie & Clyde style in British accents. You can be my lookout
Her: 11/28/2012 15:05:59 My, what better way is there to spend a Wednesday night?
Me: 11/28/2012 15:09:03 In the States I'm afraid there is none darling. Shall we rendenvous after my class at 21:30
Her: 11/28/2012 16:11:37 Where are you from!? Give me the quick 411 on Katalyst
Her: 11/28/2012 16:11:37 I'm actually meeting with the girls after work to go dancccccinggg, may be in the area though!
Me: 11/28/2012 16:14:40 I'm from Rapewood (hehe), NJ. Parents are African but everyone who reads my full name thinks I'm Blackanese.
Her: 11/28/2012 18:52:48 Lovely, lovely and school / work situation?
Her: 11/28/2012 18:52:48 And rape wood, what county is that?
Me: 11/28/2012 19:23:03 I work at XYZ.com and I'm sitting in my web dev class :(
Her: 11/28/2012 19:23:29 At (school I went to)!?
Me: 11/28/2012 19:23:59 nah it's at this tech startup place called xyz
Her: 11/28/2012 19:30:10 Oh! Did we talk about that too!? I need to go there, they have fun tutorials!
Me: 11/28/2012 20:16:20 Yup we did woman! this class is not fun just hard labor.
Her: 11/28/2012 20:17:20 Hard labor? What type of web devel? Like just HTML
Me: 11/28/2012 20:18:18 We did HTML already - that was easy. Today we just started ruby. My brain is like wtf
right now
Her: 11/28/2012 20:19:49 Ah, I never did ruby. Java's probably next. Wait till you get to C++
Me: 11/28/2012 20:24:47 Nah ruby is our last language. Have to admit I'm really impressed you know about programming.
Her: 11/28/2012 20:26:38 I'm a computer science major sir!
Me: 11/28/2012 20:30:55 Nicee. I feel like getting a margarita with a señorita. How does sometime after my class tonight work for you bonita. My schedule sucks till Saturday
Her: 11/28/2012 20:41:07 Aw, I'm out with my roomies tonight sir. But even after I move out I can surely meet for a drink in the city.
Me: 11/28/2012 21:06:14 Done with class. Cool. I might go see my friend spin at XYZ tonight btw.
Her: 11/28/2012 21:27:31 Ahh I've wanted to go there! Staying local tonight but def let me k
Her: 11/28/2012 21:27:34 now when that is happening again.
Me: 12/02/2012 17:08:56 Yo soccer moms don't fuck around at costco. Shits crazy!!!
Mon, 12/10/2012 - 09:22
#1
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@Katalyst:
Weak spot is def trying to find time to meet up with girls - Was pretty much not free before 10p any of the nights last week.... Need to work on my "putting them on the back burner" game isn't too good either. usually i'd re-engage with something situational but 7-8 days something strong is needed. After doing some homework on Google I came up with this :)
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/61591?#comment-70085
hehe...Fuck yeaaaa!
Weak spot is def trying to find time to meet up with girls - Was pretty much not free before 10p any of the nights last week.... Need to work on my "putting them on the back burner" game isn't too good either. usually i'd re-engage with something situational but 7-8 days something strong is needed. After doing some homework on Google I came up with this :)
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/61591?#comment-70085
hehe...Fuck yeaaaa!
Mon, 12/10/2012 - 09:25
#2
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@Katalyst:
so much rapport.
so much rapport.
Mon, 12/10/2012 - 13:28
#3
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Yes mang Buddha said it. You took your unspoken and spoken/demonstrated high-value and made it nil with sharing too much in a way that was like.. sharing with your psychologist. "Hello katalyst.. tell me why you are horrible with girls and your feet stink and you can't keep a good job." "Well.. Parents are African but everyone who reads my full name thinks I'm Blackanese. I work at XYZ.com and I'm sitting in my web dev class :( "
That is the wrong kind of rapport.
That is the wrong kind of rapport.
Mon, 12/10/2012 - 13:29
#4
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Katalyst;1659.10392;33 wrote:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/61591?#comment-70085
hehe...Fuck yeaaaa!
That shit is SIX YEARS OLD! And still awesome ;)
Wed, 12/12/2012 - 03:04
#5
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Ok guys - Yup you're right. So when she asks for the 411 in this convo how do you respond. I was in class and trying to pay attention at the time but even if I wasn't I would have probably responded the same way. How do you build "attractive rapport" instead of going straight into comfort with her as I did.?
She's clearly interested and all but when she asks for the 411 I'm personally thinking she wants to feel me out and actually know who I am - guess she was drunk although she seemed pretty coherent to me when we met. The only alternative I can think of is "I'm an international terrorist with 10 kids" but in that situation it's obviously silly for me to be all gamey/gimmicky or whatever.
She's clearly interested and all but when she asks for the 411 I'm personally thinking she wants to feel me out and actually know who I am - guess she was drunk although she seemed pretty coherent to me when we met. The only alternative I can think of is "I'm an international terrorist with 10 kids" but in that situation it's obviously silly for me to be all gamey/gimmicky or whatever.
Manwhore;1659.10394;5 wrote:
Yes mang Buddha said it. You took your unspoken and spoken/demonstrated high-value and made it nil with sharing too much in a way that was like.. sharing with your psychologist. "Hello katalyst.. tell me why you are horrible with girls and your feet stink and you can't keep a good job." "Well.. Parents are African but everyone who reads my full name thinks I'm Blackanese. I work at XYZ.com and I'm sitting in my web dev class :( "
That is the wrong kind of rapport.
Wed, 12/12/2012 - 03:16
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@Katalyst:
Do you get how frusterating it is to see your response to this shit? How do you NOT get this yet... FUCK MAN.
Like you're so fucking good at this shit and somehow you're simaltaneously a retarded ass-monkey when it comes to texting ; b // ; (
Yeah... I just busted out a friggin WINKY FROWNYFACE on your ass!!
Anyway- FUCK RAPPORT... this girl is OBVIOUSLY INTO YOU HOLY SHIT...... like I don't get it dude. Just fucking stop talking to her and say, "What's your schedule look like"
EVERY TIME you do it- you do it the fucking day of.... what the fuck is the point man. You're like, "Oh what's your schedule look like tonight"... uhhh okkaayyyy
Get her schedule for the week... man, these girls want you so much cause your in-person game is so on point and then you come and do this shit. DAMN dude.
Do you get how frusterating it is to see your response to this shit? How do you NOT get this yet... FUCK MAN.
Like you're so fucking good at this shit and somehow you're simaltaneously a retarded ass-monkey when it comes to texting ; b // ; (
Yeah... I just busted out a friggin WINKY FROWNYFACE on your ass!!
Anyway- FUCK RAPPORT... this girl is OBVIOUSLY INTO YOU HOLY SHIT...... like I don't get it dude. Just fucking stop talking to her and say, "What's your schedule look like"
EVERY TIME you do it- you do it the fucking day of.... what the fuck is the point man. You're like, "Oh what's your schedule look like tonight"... uhhh okkaayyyy
Get her schedule for the week... man, these girls want you so much cause your in-person game is so on point and then you come and do this shit. DAMN dude.
Wed, 12/12/2012 - 03:24
#7
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Stuff like, "I've got two little sisters and a pug, all of whom I enjoy beating on a regular basis."
Wed, 12/12/2012 - 03:25
#8
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In fact.. that is going in my Pof profile, STAT!
Wed, 12/12/2012 - 03:28
#9
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Wed, 12/12/2012 - 05:56
#10
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everything you say is legit as fuck - you're right - my initial game is usually on-point, but my follow-up game fuckin sucks a fat dick for some reason. This is why I'm so hesitant to even collect numbers which is a good thing but it comes from a place of "I'm most likely going to be able to fuck you tonight rather than later because my follow-up shit aint that great".
I agree with the patience thing (as in asking for their schedule for the week) - I should ask for their schedule for the week but I've had definitely had success with asking for a Day 2 the night of - and getting it - and in this scenario I realized that I was only going to be able to Day 2 that girl only that night that week (she was leaving town for awhile and mentioned this went we met up) so I went for the night of.
I've seen you do the same thing - ask girls for Day 2s the night of and gotten it. Niggas be kinda busy mann :( That's the Brooklyn way.
You know this is the case when I only am able to go out 2-3 nights a week tops nowadays. You saw me DYING on Saturday night - I lost a little sharpness although you made a good point on Sat night that I take myself too seriously sometimes which is w/o a doubt so true..
Anyways I've had limited success with the "what's your schedule look like this week" in the past to be honest anyways.
The only reason why I'm even dicking about in a lot of these text convos and getting into rapport mode is because it's my shit attempt at trying to keep girls on the back burner until my schedule frees up....... because I literally feel the need to block off a good 3 to 4 hours if I'm going to meet up with a girl. If you meet them them out, you pull and then you bang - that's a good 4 hours.
I agree with the patience thing (as in asking for their schedule for the week) - I should ask for their schedule for the week but I've had definitely had success with asking for a Day 2 the night of - and getting it - and in this scenario I realized that I was only going to be able to Day 2 that girl only that night that week (she was leaving town for awhile and mentioned this went we met up) so I went for the night of.
I've seen you do the same thing - ask girls for Day 2s the night of and gotten it. Niggas be kinda busy mann :( That's the Brooklyn way.
You know this is the case when I only am able to go out 2-3 nights a week tops nowadays. You saw me DYING on Saturday night - I lost a little sharpness although you made a good point on Sat night that I take myself too seriously sometimes which is w/o a doubt so true..
Anyways I've had limited success with the "what's your schedule look like this week" in the past to be honest anyways.
The only reason why I'm even dicking about in a lot of these text convos and getting into rapport mode is because it's my shit attempt at trying to keep girls on the back burner until my schedule frees up....... because I literally feel the need to block off a good 3 to 4 hours if I'm going to meet up with a girl. If you meet them them out, you pull and then you bang - that's a good 4 hours.
buddhagames;1659.10426;8 wrote:
@Katalyst:
Do you get how frusterating it is to see your response to this shit? How do you NOT get this yet... FUCK MAN.
Like you're so fucking good at this shit and somehow you're simaltaneously a retarded ass-monkey when it comes to texting ; b // ; (
Yeah... I just busted out a friggin WINKY FROWNYFACE on your ass!!
Anyway- FUCK RAPPORT... this girl is OBVIOUSLY INTO YOU HOLY SHIT...... like I don't get it dude. Just fucking stop talking to her and say, "What's your schedule look like"
EVERY TIME you do it- you do it the fucking day of.... what the fuck is the point man. You're like, "Oh what's your schedule look like tonight"... uhhh okkaayyyy
Get her schedule for the week... man, these girls want you so much cause your in-person game is so on point and then you come and do this shit. DAMN dude.
Wed, 12/12/2012 - 05:57
#11
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True true. Keep it fun and silly. Not all serious and shit like I was on a job interview or some shit....
Manwhore;1659.10428;5 wrote:
Stuff like, "I've got two little sisters and a pug, all of whom I enjoy beating on a regular basis."
Wed, 12/12/2012 - 06:09
#12
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@Katalyst:
Post up examples of the "what's your schedule like this week" failing
And yeah, I get it man.... just givin you some tough luv cause I know you dig that shit.
Post up examples of the "what's your schedule like this week" failing
And yeah, I get it man.... just givin you some tough luv cause I know you dig that shit.
Wed, 12/12/2012 - 14:12
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Thu, 12/13/2012 - 03:43
#14
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Kris I stole that and posted it on my wall. I wanted to become a TSA agent for a minute
Thu, 12/13/2012 - 12:00
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@Manwhore:
Dude, I sympathise with you. I wanted to be in the FBI so much that I actually bought a t-shirt:
http://www.rocknrollstuff.co.uk/Stupidtees/FBI-FEMALE_BODY_INSPECTOR-NAV...
Dude, I sympathise with you. I wanted to be in the FBI so much that I actually bought a t-shirt:
http://www.rocknrollstuff.co.uk/Stupidtees/FBI-FEMALE_BODY_INSPECTOR-NAV...
Thu, 12/13/2012 - 12:19
#16
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Then you paid for professional training to become an FBI ;)
Fri, 12/21/2012 - 23:39
#17
I got FRIEND ZONED and georgia'd
Wtf mann. Friend zoned. I tried to turn it around and maybe me adding beb after she goes let's have a friendly chat was unnecessary - once i meet up with her I can just treat her like a Day 1 and if she's not about that life - I could just go chirpse another girl.
To be fair - there was a considerable time gap from when we met and when I was trying to get her out. Still not good enough.
Damn Buddahgames you were right - I should have just cut to the chase wayyy earlier. It's cool though another lesson learned.
Me: 12/11/2012 11:48:26 OMG I feel very very good today, I've done something really heroic
Her: 12/11/2012 11:50:16 Lol do tell! Sorry I've been MIA - craziness till Tuesday!
Me: 12/11/2012 11:52:52 I saved this kid from drowning in the pool
Her: 12/11/2012 11:53:16 Oh nah! What pool?!
Me: 12/11/2012 11:55:10 It was in midtown. I saved him by taking my foot off his head.
Me: 12/11/2012 11:56:40 Ha what's the craziness beb
Her: 12/11/2012 11:58:43 Lmao the worst. Wtf. What kinda shit were you getting into - explain
Me: 12/11/2012 14:46:15 shhh beb if I told you I'd have to kill you
Her: 12/11/2012 17:58:47 Oh boy!
Me: 12/13/2012 19:05:32 Just laying on my couch chilling like a villain. What's your schedule look like this week beb
Her: 12/13/2012 20:07:36 Last stretch. Final and presentation tomorrow. Then a take home final over the weekend, and 3 finals on Tuesday. ALMOST DONE!
Me: 12/13/2012 20:11:05 Holy shyt. Intense. Good luck - I'm sure you'll do fine bebe.
Her: 12/13/2012 21:31:00 It's my last semester, giving it all I got :)
Me: 12/17/2012 21:45:46 Hey beb, when are we finally going to talk in fake British accents and celebrate that we don't have to cram for exams
Me: 12/20/2012 13:17:04 *Manwhore text academy text* ;)
Her: 12/20/2012 13:17:49 Hahahahahhah hey! Sorry I left you hanging there. Just finished my finals and last assignments yesterday!
Her: 12/20/2012 13:18:00 I giggled when reading it
Me: 12/20/2012 13:21:21 Lol, what's your schedule look like this week punkin
Her: 12/20/2012 13:28:26 Crazy. But meh, eh .. So I kinda started dating someone? It's nothing too serious yet but I would feel a bit odd going out with you? I'm sorry .. You're cool enough to give the truth rather than to ignore. I'm sorry :(
Her: 12/20/2012 13:28:26 But ... I'm so down for some friendly meet up one day in XYZ where we can chat when I'm not as wasted?
Me: 12/20/2012 13:44:01 Yah I'm too busy w/school and work stuff to date anyone seriously beb
Me: 12/20/2012 13:44:32 When can you come to XYZ
Her: 12/20/2012 13:44:36 With thaaaaat. Friendly hang it is?
Her: 12/20/2012 13:44:52 I am super busy though, it'd probably have to wait till the new year
Her: 12/20/2012 13:45:10 Yeah, definitely January. Then I'm traveling like crazy in Feb. So Jan it must be!
To be fair - there was a considerable time gap from when we met and when I was trying to get her out. Still not good enough.
Damn Buddahgames you were right - I should have just cut to the chase wayyy earlier. It's cool though another lesson learned.
Me: 12/11/2012 11:48:26 OMG I feel very very good today, I've done something really heroic
Her: 12/11/2012 11:50:16 Lol do tell! Sorry I've been MIA - craziness till Tuesday!
Me: 12/11/2012 11:52:52 I saved this kid from drowning in the pool
Her: 12/11/2012 11:53:16 Oh nah! What pool?!
Me: 12/11/2012 11:55:10 It was in midtown. I saved him by taking my foot off his head.
Me: 12/11/2012 11:56:40 Ha what's the craziness beb
Her: 12/11/2012 11:58:43 Lmao the worst. Wtf. What kinda shit were you getting into - explain
Me: 12/11/2012 14:46:15 shhh beb if I told you I'd have to kill you
Her: 12/11/2012 17:58:47 Oh boy!
Me: 12/13/2012 19:05:32 Just laying on my couch chilling like a villain. What's your schedule look like this week beb
Her: 12/13/2012 20:07:36 Last stretch. Final and presentation tomorrow. Then a take home final over the weekend, and 3 finals on Tuesday. ALMOST DONE!
Me: 12/13/2012 20:11:05 Holy shyt. Intense. Good luck - I'm sure you'll do fine bebe.
Her: 12/13/2012 21:31:00 It's my last semester, giving it all I got :)
Me: 12/17/2012 21:45:46 Hey beb, when are we finally going to talk in fake British accents and celebrate that we don't have to cram for exams
Me: 12/20/2012 13:17:04 *Manwhore text academy text* ;)
Her: 12/20/2012 13:17:49 Hahahahahhah hey! Sorry I left you hanging there. Just finished my finals and last assignments yesterday!
Her: 12/20/2012 13:18:00 I giggled when reading it
Me: 12/20/2012 13:21:21 Lol, what's your schedule look like this week punkin
Her: 12/20/2012 13:28:26 Crazy. But meh, eh .. So I kinda started dating someone? It's nothing too serious yet but I would feel a bit odd going out with you? I'm sorry .. You're cool enough to give the truth rather than to ignore. I'm sorry :(
Her: 12/20/2012 13:28:26 But ... I'm so down for some friendly meet up one day in XYZ where we can chat when I'm not as wasted?
Me: 12/20/2012 13:44:01 Yah I'm too busy w/school and work stuff to date anyone seriously beb
Me: 12/20/2012 13:44:32 When can you come to XYZ
Her: 12/20/2012 13:44:36 With thaaaaat. Friendly hang it is?
Her: 12/20/2012 13:44:52 I am super busy though, it'd probably have to wait till the new year
Her: 12/20/2012 13:45:10 Yeah, definitely January. Then I'm traveling like crazy in Feb. So Jan it must be!