Re-opening sets
Went out w a friend. We were beasting it just fearlessly directly opening girls and having a blast. I had been doing some of the drills MW had given me to get in state and get my verbals flowing and most sets were hooking because of my energy. I would say whatever fucking random shit would come to me and they would love it. I'm really loving these drills, it consistently gets me out of my head and gets my verbals going which had been a big sticking point for me.
However I felt he and I were both guilty of bouncing between sets too much, partially because my friend was going ham on going for a quick pull, I think he got us blown out of a few sets because he was too fast I was guilty of it too with some sets.
I reaporoached girls later whom it had gone very well with but they were then showing clear disinterest. I'm not sure if it's because I might have been projecting a different vibe or if it was because they didn't like how I had left the set or that it was too late in the night . I suspect it was that they didn't like how I had left, they weren't as attracted because of it. I've noticed that this has happened before too when I reengage a set that had opened really well they are like this.
Any idea what might be going on and what I should be doing?
Replace the habit of leaving set for no reason with leaving set and taking the girl with you :D
Replace the habit of leaving set for no reason with leaving set and taking the girl with you :D
Gold. Thanks.
I'm gonna do this, stay in set, vibe with her and her group 5-10 minutes. Tell the group I'm grabbing a drink with her friend (water), try to escalate verbally/physically and when I leave set say something like "I'll be back, save me a dance boo ;)". Do this with 3-5 girls and see which one's warmest for the pull.
YOU DO NOT LEAVE SET!
Why the fuck is everyone in this community so obsessed with leaving the set and opening more?
If you like the girl or just think she's hot - where are you going? If it's the second part of the night, why leave her? Leave WITH HER.
Try to get them in isolation. Literally just go ALL-THE-WAY with every set.
Still be smart, see if they're up for shit, if not leave, and THEN re-open later if you got no new girls.
We're all learning this shit, and doing ''drills'' like MW calls it - i have my own, you have yours, but this one is KEY.
Most pulls do take 45 minutes - 1 hour.
STAY THE FUCK IN SET.
MOVE THE GIRL.
Find a place close to the venue you can take them and enjoy ''isolation'' aka. isolation from her friends.
What the fuck do you think talking for 10 minutes and then leaving them TO BE APPROACHED BY OTHER GUYS AND THEIR FRIENDS AND MAYBE GUYS THEY ALREADY KNOW WHO THEY HAVE MORE RAPPORT WITH going to accomplish?
SOMETIMES those girls will come back to you, but those are rarely the hot girls, as they have options.
I think -
Keep your options open, but commit to every set.
If she isn't that hot, just WALK HER OUTSIDE, front-door rule that hoe, walk with her for 2 minutes and THEN you can leave the set and go get a hotter girl or approach more.
Get the references that count - do the hard things.
Spend time with the girls... if they're not running away, chances are they like you ;) (or are paralyzed with fear)
spagheddy you dumb shit you have zero perspective on my "drills". If you're going to run your mouth and talk about things you know nothing about and have no perspective on you will be removed from this forum. I have no patience for dumb fucking shits.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
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I'm gonna do this, stay in set, vibe with her and her group 5-10 minutes. Tell the group I'm grabbing a drink with her friend (water), try to escalate verbally/physically and when I leave set say something like "I'll be back, save me a dance boo ;)". Do this with 3-5 girls and see which one's warmest for the pull.
Yes that's good that's my typical MO. Though not saying I don't fuck the first girl I talk to, it happens. What you want to do is introduce some sort of commonality before you go. You're running pure energy game you need to ground it. It may be something you have to force at first but as you practice it you'll get smooth.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male