Is this a REALLY bad idea?
Okay, so I pretty much burned things to the ground with my ex-girlfriend and the girl from my lay report. I'm trying my fucking best to find some new ladies but i'm not doing super well. I would love to be able to have sex with either of these girls in the mean time. Now, there was a point in time where they were kinda fighting over me and instead of being chill and abundant I lost my cool.
I want to send a group mesage that says "I'm sorry for the mess I caused between you too". Not going to send it yet because I have a deep feeling thats its kinda fucked up, but it was just a thought Id like to express.
kinda scared that I even thought of this lol
Why. You're spreading pain and stupidity. Best put your dick out to pasture
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I kinda feel like you're on a junkie getting his fix behavior pattern right now broski. Even through the LR the way you wrote it, it seemed to me you were still projecting, like the last girls behavior was crazy and it had nothing to do w your unresolved issues triggering this girls fight/flight mechanism.
I feel like right now you're *again* trying to bandage the pain of your unresolved issues w approval from either girls. I agree w what I think MW is pointing to...why pursue this when you're just operating from place of causing damage. Deal w your stuff and then you won't be creating your pain, then projecting it on the girl and then try to cover it up w stuff like this.
And I'm not saying this to be harsh but I think you're just being in denial and deal w the red herring instead of addressing the more uncomfortable but actual source of the results you're getting.
I kinda feel like you're on a junkie getting his fix behavior pattern right now broski. Even through the LR the way you wrote it, it seemed to me you were still projecting, like the last girls behavior was crazy and it had nothing to do w your unresolved issues triggering this girls fight/flight mechanism. I feel like right now you're *again* trying to bandage the pain of your unresolved issues w approval from either girls. I agree w what I think MW is pointing to...why pursue this when you're just operating from place of causing damage. Deal w your stuff and then you won't be creating your pain, then projecting it on the girl and then try to cover it up w stuff like this. And I'm not saying this to be harsh but I think you're just being in denial and deal w the red herring instead of addressing the more uncomfortable but actual source of the results you're getting.
nah not harsh at all totally spot on. Defintely becoming more conscious of it too, that's why I post little fag behavior like this because it helps me realize how stupid it is. fuck that tho this forum is about growth I shouldn't project this stuff.
Don't send that gay message. Just start pursuing other girls and I bet you'll end banging both of these girls in the future anyway. Just move on dude.
Give it 30 days I'll bet one of them will end up texting you.
Give it 30 days I'll bet one of them will end up texting you.
yeah lol thank god I didn't text that one of em hit me up inviting me to a party the next day.