Really cool reference experience: Pulled AND fucked from DAYGAME: Part 1- before her apartment

Went out to meatpacking around 2pm yesterday. Did some sets to warm up and then saw a 2set and approached

I opened by just being super friendly (my target's friend thought we knew eachother) and then I broke that tension by laughing and being like, "No but we do now.. I guess"

From that point forward I was really nice to my targets friend but basically was just a complete massive dick to my target. Like total dick. Reminded me of shit I would do in hs to girls haha. Basically, anything she said, I'd just be like, "I fucking hate that" "That's shit' "You're nothing" "You're horrible" "Good cause I hate you" "I'm leaving. Don't come with me", "Fuck off", "Your friend is way hotter than you" and then after a while I actually started to be a dick to her, outright in front of her friends but I continued to be like the NICEST GUY EVER to her friends and then I'd turn to my girl and just be a TOTAL dick. 

haha I really was actually just tryin it out for shits cause I had just seen a couple julien vids and was curious. Also- my normal "game" could use some "negativity" added to it. I've always had difficulty expressing negative emotions since like 5 years ago, so this was great, as an excersise. 

The difference between me doing it now and when I did it back in the day (without even knowing it was "something" to do- but mailny because I was just fucked up) is that, I would push push push and then when I sensed serious resistence or pain, I'd pull back and laugh and say something like, "hahaah nah that was really fucked up, you're actually cute.. I think it has to be the lighting in here or something but you're awesome" and then BOOM right back to being a dick. I remember at one point I wasl ike, "You're cute as hell" and then paused and had nothing else to say but then I saw that her makeup was running and I'd normally just ignore something like that but I totally jumped on it and right after I had called her cute, just took my finger and started rubbing her face right where the smudged makeup was... yeah... kinda fucked

So I did my best to sense the right moments to pull back (i'm not that great at it but gotta practice- push/pull is all about emotional astuteness and just figuring out where the girl is at and the only thing to help with this is field experience)

Anyway- another thing I did was basically dictate to HER what SHe was thinking.... basically just bringing it out and also simaltaneously sorta "shaping" how she interpreted what I was doing. basically "guiding" her towardsthe conclusion I wanted. At one point I basically was just like, "Yeah, it's crazy right, you're feeling this weird feeling and you don't know what it is or why and you know you shouldn't be attracted to me but in an odd way you just can't help it" and she just stood there and nodded and then was like, "I'm not sure if I like it"

There's a big part of me that just slipped right back into this role, so easily... Like riding a bike, you never forget...

Eventually my buddy and I leave and I tell her to take my # and she tells me to take hers... I take it and then tell her we're going upstairs and that she should come- she asks me if I really want her to go and I shrug.. she convinces her friends to come to the rooftop with us. 

But then I pushed a little too hard when I shouldn't have (the downside of this is that when you're off and you sense something wrong, you can easily blow yourself out SUPER fast) She decides not to come, so I leave

After an hour or so I text her and the following text convo takes place:

Me: Rooftop is awesome. Don't come up

Her: I'm on a rooftop nearby

Me: It's shit compared to lebain

Her: What's your plan exactly?

Me: Don't have any until later. You?

Her: Prob keeping it low key. Big day tomorrow

Me: Cool. Let's hangout for a bit

Her: I appreciate the determination but I'm surey ou have other ladies you can ask

Me: I like you. Let's hang out

Me: I'm meeting up with a friend around 9 but lets chill before that

Her: Think I'm gonna grab a bite and call it a night. Maybe another time

Me: Grab a bite with me then call it a night

Her: You're with your friend

Me: Nah just left

Her: So you're just not drinking at le Bain hitting on women?

Me: No. I just left

Her: I'm already almost home. What did you have in mind?

-----Called her at this point----- (Very important that I called her at this moment- this probably saved the entire pull)

Me: What was the other cross street. H and ...

Her: Charles

Meetup with her and she's into it- aka she bailed on her friends to meetup with me but I go right back to being a dick. Shitting on her etc.. then I go for physicality and compliance is just not even CLOSE to being there- she aggressively rejects any form of physicality from me. So I take this information and recognize it for what it is. 

I continue to be a dick but slowly tone it down but I'm still being a dick. 

Then we get to a place for dinner and we sit down to eat. I continue to be a dick but now it's being shaped into something a little more silly but still hurtful on some level but I'm having to pull back less because the hits aren't as intense. 

What's amazing about being a dick is that it makes it so INCREDIBLY easy to create a "bubble"- basically, you just make her feel like shit for an hour + and then, all of a sudden, you give her "connection"- you make her feel validation, simply from connecting with you. You don't have to compliment her in any way... it won't do NEARLY as much as connection will...

So in the middle of our dinner, I say something stupid but kinda funny/cute and say, "What if we were to only talk to eachother, for the rest of the night, in cliches" and then I start riffing off a bunch of cliches that are timed really well for where the convo is taht

And this girl starts to DIE of laughter- but it's the kind of laughter that's saying, "Thank you so much for allowing me to connect with you, it's all I wanted"

So I give her this. I give her connection- a mutually shared experience and to her it's everything. I hardly talk the rest of the night. 

We go for a walk on the pier after dinner and this time around, I hold her hand she squeezes it and won't let go- she's got my hand in a fucking vice grip. 

Walk around and she tries to makeout with me but I don't let her and just kiss/bite her neck instead