Really Great Pickup Advice I just Read
Thu, 01/03/2013 - 08:15
"the goal is not to avoid rejection or resistance. Rather, the goal is to trigger her resistance and then use it to gain more and more of her trust and compliance by responding properly"
Amazing insight. Very well put.
Also- such a solid reframe for guys who are afraid of rejection or wtvr.
I think what you come to realize is that the guys who are fucking girls STILL encounter the same shit tests and obstacles that you are facing. It's not like one day, all the shit tests and resistance disappears and every girl just instantly wants to fuck you.
In fact, in my experience- the better you get at this- the more shit tests you will get.
Rather- the difference between dudes who are fucking and dudes who aren't is that the guys who are fucking, understand how to properly handle this resistence (I.E- Being unreactive)
Amazing insight. Very well put.
Also- such a solid reframe for guys who are afraid of rejection or wtvr.
I think what you come to realize is that the guys who are fucking girls STILL encounter the same shit tests and obstacles that you are facing. It's not like one day, all the shit tests and resistance disappears and every girl just instantly wants to fuck you.
In fact, in my experience- the better you get at this- the more shit tests you will get.
Rather- the difference between dudes who are fucking and dudes who aren't is that the guys who are fucking, understand how to properly handle this resistence (I.E- Being unreactive)
Thu, 01/03/2013 - 08:48
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Re: Really Great Pickup Advise I just Read
*advice
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Thu, 01/03/2013 - 08:49
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Well said.
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I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Thu, 01/03/2013 - 09:55
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Re: Really Great Pickup Advise I just Read
buddhagames;2495;8 wrote:
"the goal is not to avoid rejection or resistance. Rather, the goal is to trigger her resistance and then use it to gain more and more of her trust and compliance by responding properly"
Amazing insight. Very well put.
Also- such a solid reframe for guys who are afraid of rejection or wtvr.
I think what you come to realize is that the guys who are fucking girls STILL encounter the same shit tests and obstacles that you are facing. It's not like one day, all the shit tests and resistance disappears and every girl just instantly wants to fuck you.
In fact, in my experience- the better you get at this- the more shit tests you will get.
Rather- the difference between dudes who are fucking and dudes who aren't is that the guys who are fucking, understand how to properly handle this resistence (I.E- Being unreactive)
So true man. You're 100 percent right. The better I get the more nights I get where girls just give me massive shit as compared to when I was a newbie.