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Reengaging a Super Hottie Model that I lost out on 4 months ago

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This girl I met her before season two of Manwhore coaching. So I fucked it up. DIdn't play it right. Took her out for dinner way too early, was way too exuberant and then tried to hook up with her after dinner and it fucked the vibe up. She later went very aloof and I called her out on it and she told me she didn't feel the spark. I said that's cool and fast forward to now.

I decide to hit her up on fb - the idea is to be friends.

me: Yo kinda bummed we didn't stay friends! Not sure what happened there haha. Just had to say it. Hope you've been well
her:
I agree!! Hi! How have you been?

me: haha yah may have been my fault. You hurteded my egoooo lol

me: been great tho, toronto has been kick ass to me this summer

her: I didn't want to do that!! As cliche as it is it wasn't you it was ME

her: What have you been up to!!

me: haha yeah i know. And pftttttt it's cool, i get it. Well mostly I've been hiding out from the bar scene. Like I'm so over it. And obviously kicking pp's ass in badminton

me: How boutchu?

her: Yeah I have also been avoiding the bar! Waste of time!!

her: How was the (mutual friends) wedding?

her: I've gotten back into fitness so my trainer has been kicking my ass

me: gah i didn't go. The invitation was conditional if I got you to come with me

me: damn smith's are so bigoted

me: yah u took time off fitness, yah right, not fooling me

her: WHat?!? You could only go with a plus one?

her: Haha I swear. I was just into walking over the winter. Now I'm doing light weights and stuff

her: Eating right too :)

me: no actually. Brittany's parents said I shouldn't go because they didn't want me to look better than the groom. They'd lose a lot of money if she called the wedding off

me: :D

her: Eaaasssssyyyy killer

Realized here that I needed to tone it down. Allow her to invest. Most guys would try and psuh the conversation some more here, that would be a HUGE mistake.

me: lol

me: anyways it's been good talking

her: Yes, it was funny running into you at playa cabana!

her: So good you had to go back again!

Playa cabana was the place we went out for dinner and I happened to bump into her again a couple months ago when I was taking another girl there lol.

me: yah u know ur spots foodie

me: may have steal a couple other suggestions off you

her: Toronto has some sweet spots! Let me know if you have a craving for anything in particular

me: i was at WVRST last week. Very good

me: dum duck fat fries, like wowwww makes me want to be fat

her: Hahaha did you actually eat them?!

her: I hear that place is unreal! Kangaroo sausage

me: grossssssss

me: not down for da kangaroo's

me: unless it's dunkaroo's, then fuck yes

her: aye mate they're a lean meat

her: HAHA yes.

Time to jet on a high

me: haha i gotta catch a friend. But next week, ur coming shopping with me! I need to treat myself

her: Okay! I can't turn down a shopping spree. Text me wheneva!

me: lol i totally deleted ur number, loser ;)

her: Wow

her: crying emoji

her: (number) if you want it back

Damnnnn! She totally invested hard and started to chase here. Most guys would hide the fact that they deleted a girls number lol. I owned the fuck out of it and the girl went crazy haha.

me: yah u have to be gentle with me tho. I'll text yah later

her: Haha, sounds good!!

Okay now, is it just me, or does this girl want to fuck? Initially it was just to estabilish friends. But I get the senese somethings going to happen.

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Bro you invited this girl out

Bro you invited this girl out to take her shopping? 

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I read it as more inviting

I read it as more inviting her to tag along. I've done this with girls too. It's way better than shopping alone and you can get opinions from her. Also a good opportunity to blatantly judge/praise her style when the situation arises. 

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Manwhore wrote: Bro you

Manwhore wrote:
Bro you invited this girl out to take her shopping? 

sex in the dressing room ftw

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2473375/Retail-worker-reveals-...

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G-Money wrote: I read it as

G-Money wrote:
I read it as more inviting her to tag along. I've done this with girls too. It's way better than shopping alone and you can get opinions from her. Also a good opportunity to blatantly judge/praise her style when the situation arises. 

Yes exactly! 

I'm friend zoning her. Like inviting her out for blantantly friendish activities. But I'm going to hold a very masculine vibe. Hold a strong frame and keep her on her toes. 

Will be a fun challenge to see what comes of it. Either she's a cool hott friend which has tons of benefits. Or she's going to want the bateman special. 

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Ah ok I missed the point

Ah ok I missed the point about the friendzone thing. Yeah that works really well. I like the bait 'n switch lol. I've also banged in fitting rooms I typically do not leave condom wrappers lying around 

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I hope you haven't been

I hope you haven't been skimming my forum posts MW, that would really hurt :(

But yah, I started texting her later tonight and holy fuck it was on. Like right back to the way things were. She's very responsive and pushes things forward. I started to lose it in the end by getting too invested and projecting more onto it then was ready. Very subtly obviously, nothing I can't correct.

Just a reminder to hold the right vibe and stay grounded in myself. Play this friend thing off at-least until we're hanging out. 

Make her earn my interest/affection. 

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Ah ok I missed the point about the friendzone thing. Yeah that works really well. I like the bait 'n switch lol. I've also banged in fitting rooms I typically do not leave condom wrappers lying around 

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bump intereesting convo,

bump

intereesting convo, wondering how it worked out?