Reengaging a Super Hottie Model that I lost out on 4 months ago
I decide to hit her up on fb - the idea is to be friends.
me: Yo kinda bummed we didn't stay friends! Not sure what happened there haha. Just had to say it. Hope you've been well
her: I agree!! Hi! How have you been?
me: haha yah may have been my fault. You hurteded my egoooo lol
me: been great tho, toronto has been kick ass to me this summer
her: I didn't want to do that!! As cliche as it is it wasn't you it was ME
her: What have you been up to!!
me: haha yeah i know. And pftttttt it's cool, i get it. Well mostly I've been hiding out from the bar scene. Like I'm so over it. And obviously kicking pp's ass in badminton
me: How boutchu?
her: Yeah I have also been avoiding the bar! Waste of time!!
her: How was the (mutual friends) wedding?
her: I've gotten back into fitness so my trainer has been kicking my ass
me: gah i didn't go. The invitation was conditional if I got you to come with me
me: damn smith's are so bigoted
me: yah u took time off fitness, yah right, not fooling me
her: WHat?!? You could only go with a plus one?
her: Haha I swear. I was just into walking over the winter. Now I'm doing light weights and stuff
her: Eating right too :)
me: no actually. Brittany's parents said I shouldn't go because they didn't want me to look better than the groom. They'd lose a lot of money if she called the wedding off
me: :D
her: Eaaasssssyyyy killer
Realized here that I needed to tone it down. Allow her to invest. Most guys would try and psuh the conversation some more here, that would be a HUGE mistake.
me: lol
me: anyways it's been good talking
her: Yes, it was funny running into you at playa cabana!
her: So good you had to go back again!
Playa cabana was the place we went out for dinner and I happened to bump into her again a couple months ago when I was taking another girl there lol.
me: yah u know ur spots foodie
me: may have steal a couple other suggestions off you
her: Toronto has some sweet spots! Let me know if you have a craving for anything in particular
me: i was at WVRST last week. Very good
me: dum duck fat fries, like wowwww makes me want to be fat
her: Hahaha did you actually eat them?!
her: I hear that place is unreal! Kangaroo sausage
me: grossssssss
me: not down for da kangaroo's
me: unless it's dunkaroo's, then fuck yes
her: aye mate they're a lean meat
her: HAHA yes.
Time to jet on a high
me: haha i gotta catch a friend. But next week, ur coming shopping with me! I need to treat myself
her: Okay! I can't turn down a shopping spree. Text me wheneva!
me: lol i totally deleted ur number, loser ;)
her: Wow
her: crying emoji
her: (number) if you want it back
Damnnnn! She totally invested hard and started to chase here. Most guys would hide the fact that they deleted a girls number lol. I owned the fuck out of it and the girl went crazy haha.
me: yah u have to be gentle with me tho. I'll text yah later
her: Haha, sounds good!!
Okay now, is it just me, or does this girl want to fuck? Initially it was just to estabilish friends. But I get the senese somethings going to happen.
Bro you invited this girl out to take her shopping?
I read it as more inviting her to tag along. I've done this with girls too. It's way better than shopping alone and you can get opinions from her. Also a good opportunity to blatantly judge/praise her style when the situation arises.
Bro you invited this girl out to take her shopping?
sex in the dressing room ftw
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I read it as more inviting her to tag along. I've done this with girls too. It's way better than shopping alone and you can get opinions from her. Also a good opportunity to blatantly judge/praise her style when the situation arises.
Yes exactly!
I'm friend zoning her. Like inviting her out for blantantly friendish activities. But I'm going to hold a very masculine vibe. Hold a strong frame and keep her on her toes.
Will be a fun challenge to see what comes of it. Either she's a cool hott friend which has tons of benefits. Or she's going to want the bateman special.
Ah ok I missed the point about the friendzone thing. Yeah that works really well. I like the bait 'n switch lol. I've also banged in fitting rooms I typically do not leave condom wrappers lying around
I hope you haven't been skimming my forum posts MW, that would really hurt :(
But yah, I started texting her later tonight and holy fuck it was on. Like right back to the way things were. She's very responsive and pushes things forward. I started to lose it in the end by getting too invested and projecting more onto it then was ready. Very subtly obviously, nothing I can't correct.
Just a reminder to hold the right vibe and stay grounded in myself. Play this friend thing off at-least until we're hanging out.
Make her earn my interest/affection.
Ah ok I missed the point about the friendzone thing. Yeah that works really well. I like the bait 'n switch lol. I've also banged in fitting rooms I typically do not leave condom wrappers lying around
bump
intereesting convo, wondering how it worked out?