relationships
I need some advice on relationships themselves. I have a few girls I actually want to date but have no idea how to go about it because its always just been game game game.
How do you talk to them when they sit there and try and force you into sharing your 'feelings', same question for when they try to force you into defining the relationship? Also my main girl (might date her for a while while my work hours are longer) broke up with her boyfriend for me but now is always asking me what she should 'do' about him. How do I approach something like that?
There are always going to be things you value, and there are going to be things you have a very powerful opinion on you never realized you had. Actually a lot of my training focuses on that. One thing you need to realize is the discussion she's trying to force on you is probably not the one you two should actually be having. Remember, girls are good at talking about their "feelings", but many times it takes a guy to put things in the right perspective. She might be arguing about how much her mom pisses her off. But YOU know that it's actually shit her dad is doing that is making her mom act like that, and its YOUR job to put the focus on the right subject.
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awesome. I think this is it. I just need to direct harder and stop letting them lead the convos.
Have to run! Sexy Latina at my door but...the quickest way into a relationship is inviting a girl into your life. Hanging out with your friends or doing something you love doing with them.
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I would say that's lame if she's trying to force you into defining your relationship. If she won't drop it set the standard that you want an open relationship or your not ready to be in a monogamous relationship. I've never had luck dodging the question when they persist. I usually just dive in head first and lead in the direction I want the relationship to go.
As for the feelings just be honest. if you feel like you have a strong connection say it. Just reiterate at the same time that you don't want a monogamous relationship.