Remain calm get the girl
My buddies and I meet up with 3 girls on thursday night and they are so excited. Im the calm one who doesnt care if we meet up with them or not. I knew exactly what was going to happen. They are gonna attack these girls and chase them away lol. I could care less I was looking for girls outside the group anyway. As soon as the girls show up they are getting hounded by my buddies, ugh! They were basically salivating over and trying to hook up with a 6, a 7, and a 2 lol. I remained calm and cool and just didnt even talk to the girls at all. The ugly one left, thank the fuck christ and this leaves 4 guys and 2 girls in the group. I leave open up some girls and come back. I contribute to the conversation of the group, make the girls laugh a little bit but in no way was I seeking any approval. I maybe said 3 sentences directly to the two girls and those sentences had value. I could tell they were watching me. They keep saying to the group, "he is so cute!" "I like him" Come the end of the night the one that is a 7 tells me she wants to take me in an alley way and molest me. I grab her by the hand and pull her and she does not resist me. Her other friend grabs her and tells her she's "Dave's property" one of my buddies that was there all night. She said this to justify her sleeping with another one of my guy friends. Basically, so one doesn't fuck the prize while the other one fucks the more desperate one. They can wake up tomorrow with their social reputation being equal. I gave out a freebee to my man that night. Thats why they call it being a wing man. Point of this story is not that I didnt fuck her but how she was so drawn to me and the vibes I was putting out that she could not help herself and wanted to take me to the closest place possible to molest me. Also how much calmer I have become when dealing with women. Altogether, my game has evolved into just a solid calm dude who could care less. I think a lot of this has come from reading good books, finding a career that Im happy about, knowing myself, defining my life and steering my life on principles of success (following principles of success never fail, no matter the circumstances) but all of the things I am describing came from learning about success with women. It all started there.
Learning GREAT success with woman will open up the world to tons of possibilities, realizations and paradigm shifts. The better you get with women, and the more knowledge you have, the more the world will become your little playground instead of a cruel place of struggle just to maintain. A good book to read about proper principles is The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. How to maintain joy, ease and lightness in any situation? Read or get the audio of Practicing the Power of Now.
Nice, hitting that higher level homeboy. Have you explained this to Dave? This is the same thing I noticed over and over again. Dude is in serious denial
I try not to talk to him as if he needs work to be done because he will just resist. Instead I tell him the stories I have. Yes I told him the girl he was focused on all night wanted to molest me in an alley way. He said, "Really? Yeah I was just too drunk last night." Excuses man. He actually texted me explaining how he wants to get serious and not drink so much and focus. Maybe I should jsut sit him down and be like "Look Homie! Your not executing, lol" because apparently he doesn't like my stories too well. It is serious ego protection. Ill be like dude, you didnt lead her to a disclosed location, she was leading you in circles. And he'll look at me like, dude I know what to do. Maybe with this revival hes having I can talk some sense into him lol.
You should probably leave that to a 3rd party source.. you could lose a friendship if you do this wrong, which, you will probably do this wrong. You don't want to try to force a "I've got something to teach you" dynamic on a friend, especially one that's in this much denial.. he won't be able to handle it and he'll flee.
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You should probably leave that to a 3rd party source.. you could lose a friendship if you do this wrong, which, you will probably do this wrong. You don't want to try to force a "I've got something to teach you" dynamic on a friend, especially one that's in this much denial.. he won't be able to handle it and he'll flee.
Agreed. I've ran into this recently, some of my friends are fucking awful with women. The best thing you can do is continue to game, maybe even snatch some of his girls, make him realize he's shit. He will learn, and become observant of your attitude.