Repost: Manwhore breaks down how to conduct yourself in a social circle
Mon, 02/11/2013 - 07:27
I think everyone needs to read and re-read this. I have certainly re-read this at least 20 times in the past 3 days. .
I think regardless of how you go about this, this will do amazing things for you, your game, and your life overall. I would see this as something you must go after. Ok enough of the Obama rhetoric.
In social circle game you have to treat people good but also treat them in a slightly aloof way to let them know they're not getting all the value until they fuck you, or if it's a guy, until they do some real cool shit and/or you guys become "close". But at the same time make sure they know you don't judge at all. You can preempt this by sharing some shit with them that's slightly off but that you own so it still makes it seem cool. But don't make it the "community" lol. Also let them know that you're a secretive guy, and you don't care about social expectations, or what other people think. This is how you set yourself up as a guy that a girl could feel comfortable about banging without everyone else finding out. This is HUGE. This alone will get you laid.. just the fact she knows you wouldn't say shit, will get her panties off.
I think regardless of how you go about this, this will do amazing things for you, your game, and your life overall. I would see this as something you must go after. Ok enough of the Obama rhetoric.
In social circle game you have to treat people good but also treat them in a slightly aloof way to let them know they're not getting all the value until they fuck you, or if it's a guy, until they do some real cool shit and/or you guys become "close". But at the same time make sure they know you don't judge at all. You can preempt this by sharing some shit with them that's slightly off but that you own so it still makes it seem cool. But don't make it the "community" lol. Also let them know that you're a secretive guy, and you don't care about social expectations, or what other people think. This is how you set yourself up as a guy that a girl could feel comfortable about banging without everyone else finding out. This is HUGE. This alone will get you laid.. just the fact she knows you wouldn't say shit, will get her panties off.
Mon, 02/11/2013 - 16:21
#1
Glad you liked it fucker. In
Glad you liked it fucker. In your particular situation I'd say your belief system and emotional gauge is slightly off. The more the people you work with find out about you, the MORE they're going to like you and respect you. I mean let's be real here, you're involved with some cool shit and have always made moves. Rsd Derrick has a cool quote that goes something like, "Why should I care about what some other person thinks, when Im making more moves than they are?" Another one from RSDnation.. "You can't be rejected, if you're not trying to be accepted."
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Mon, 02/11/2013 - 16:57
#2
Yeah... I've said this so
Yeah... I've said this so many times but it's worth repeating.
Katalyst is the SHIT.... the dude makes INSANE moves- I mean, sure, he's a retard for never getting more than like 4 hours of sleep.... but the only reason that's the case is cause the dude is doing so much.
I love being around guys like him. He's def. the kind of person that you wanna be friends with.
Katalyst is the SHIT.... the dude makes INSANE moves- I mean, sure, he's a retard for never getting more than like 4 hours of sleep.... but the only reason that's the case is cause the dude is doing so much.
I love being around guys like him. He's def. the kind of person that you wanna be friends with.
Tue, 02/12/2013 - 04:56
#3
Manwhore wrote: In your
Manwhore wrote:
In your particular situation I'd say your belief system and emotional gauge is slightly off."
You should embellish. You know I can handle the truth. I definitely would like to improve it still.
You know what's funny - it wasn't until you taught me self-acceptance last fall was where I started to realize damn there is gold within. Then after that I had my first romp. But pointing out any blind spots not helping me that I may still have at the moment wouldn't hurt either...
Tue, 02/12/2013 - 04:46
#4
lol you're an awesome dude
lol you're an awesome dude too...except when you're not white girl wasted lol. won't lie - you had me inspired as a motherfucker during your romp.
i'm working on the sleep thing. i usually try to get 6 hours now to be more functional but it's hard as fuck - especially if i take a nap right after work or something.
i'm working on the sleep thing. i usually try to get 6 hours now to be more functional but it's hard as fuck - especially if i take a nap right after work or something.
buddhagames wrote:
Yeah... I've said this so many times but it's worth repeating.
Katalyst is the SHIT.... the dude makes INSANE moves- I mean, sure, he's a retard for never getting more than like 4 hours of sleep.... but the only reason that's the case is cause the dude is doing so much.
I love being around guys like him. He's def. the kind of person that you wanna be friends with.
Tue, 02/12/2013 - 05:14
#5
This is just my own view of
This is just my own view of it but basically it's the following:
Just the way you talk about "self acceptance" like it's something that you have "Accomplished" is kinda weird.
It's not something you learn, like the way you would learn to code or the way you learn a new skill- it's a constantly evolving thing that can be worked on but I would even say it can't be ACTIVELY worked on
you can do things that will naturally cause you to be increasingly more accepting of yourself- aka acknowledging the truth/facts of a situation and letting yourself express your emotions/thoughts without holding back- even if you come across like a dick
But at the end of the day- I don't really see it as something you "learn" in the way that most shit is learned.
Just the way you talk about "self acceptance" like it's something that you have "Accomplished" is kinda weird.
It's not something you learn, like the way you would learn to code or the way you learn a new skill- it's a constantly evolving thing that can be worked on but I would even say it can't be ACTIVELY worked on
you can do things that will naturally cause you to be increasingly more accepting of yourself- aka acknowledging the truth/facts of a situation and letting yourself express your emotions/thoughts without holding back- even if you come across like a dick
But at the end of the day- I don't really see it as something you "learn" in the way that most shit is learned.
Tue, 02/12/2013 - 08:33
#6
i guess it's more of an
i guess it's more of an authenticity with YOURSELF sort of thing. It's a weird sort of topic indeed. I'll be fine though. I have a solid work ethic and I've finally acknowledged that I have to use my brain in EVERY part of my life.
I'm without a doubt going to lean into my edge more than ever this year which will make me stronger to the core and be my truer self.
I'm without a doubt going to lean into my edge more than ever this year which will make me stronger to the core and be my truer self.
Wed, 02/13/2013 - 06:00
#7
Social Circle Quote
Damn that's some powerful shit. Definitely going to think on that a lot. I don't know how this forum isn't bigger, every time i check back there's another great little nugget of info for me to think on
Wed, 02/13/2013 - 17:09
#8
^ Dude.. want to talk about
^ Dude.. want to talk about your little "appeal" situation a tiny bit??
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I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Thu, 02/14/2013 - 06:35
#9
Manwhore wrote:^ Dude.. want
Manwhore wrote:
^ Dude.. want to talk about your little "appeal" situation a tiny bit??
Sure. what about it would you like me to focus on
Thu, 02/14/2013 - 07:03
#10
Haha Manwhore this IS what
Haha Manwhore this IS what you've been telling me but I still tend to fuck up.
Totally bookmarking this
Totally bookmarking this
Thu, 02/14/2013 - 07:35
#11
Whats an example of an "Aloof
Whats an example of an "Aloof way?"
Thu, 02/21/2013 - 22:55
#12
Old Post
I think this post from the nation, is really relevant to the op's post.
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/86537
Specifically this part; "you have to treat people good but also treat them in a slightly aloof way to let them know they're not getting all the value until they fuck you, or if it's a guy, until they do some real cool shit and/or you guys become "close"."
Constantly rereading this shitt.
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/86537
Specifically this part; "you have to treat people good but also treat them in a slightly aloof way to let them know they're not getting all the value until they fuck you, or if it's a guy, until they do some real cool shit and/or you guys become "close"."
Constantly rereading this shitt.