Resistance post date after trying use dick as LMR buster...Please experts quick advice if possible.

Thank you for the thoughtful reply brother. No drugs which is why I was able to get to that point with her. Think at this point I could get dates/meetups with a wide variety of girls. The next steps are things like this that I couldve probably handled but don't have the know how quite yet.

I texted her the - That's okay too response, dk if that was the right move or if there even is a move here but atleast i am not going to be putting out needy vibes like I might've before. Going to have to reread this another time I think to really internalize it wasn't all clear to me on first read.

Also i am not exactly sure where i made the mistake. I was under the impression that if she didn't want to touch the D, busting it out might break through that resistance. But let it be known its not like i took it out immedeatly after she pulled away from it. There was some time in b.w and my pull her towards it was not too aggressive or overt to begin with. Should i have put her hand on it while it was out?

If i remember correctly I insinuated verbally very loudly and clearly that 'he' wanted to come out and meet her before actually doing it. To this she was laughing and semmingly ready for it, there may have been some slight playful resistance to the idea like her slightly turning away while laughing and eagerly staring at my crotch but nothing serious .

Also i am not exactly sure where i made the mistake. I was under the impression that if she didn't want to touch it busting it out might break theough that resistance. But let it be known its not like i took it out immedeatly after she pulled away from it. There was some time in b.w and my pull her towards it was not too aggressive or overt to think of it.

If i remember correctly insinuates verbally very loudly and clearly that he wanted to come out and meet her before actually doing it. To this she was laughing and semmingly ready for it, there may have been some slight playful resistance to the idea like her slightly turning away while laughing and eagerly staring at my crotch but nothing serious .

It's pretty much common sense man. If she shows genuine resistance she needs more time to warm up. Especially if she's basically trapped in a car. Too much pressure. Gotta relax and then try different physical stuff. You can't just make a sex joke and then skip ahead. Not sure why you're cracking jokes at this stage anyways. Should be focused on arousal not laughter. Too much humor is just going to diminish the tension not escalate it.

That was an excellent write-up by MW outlining what occurred here.

Be more receptive to what is occurring on both the micro and macro level and try to see things from her POV throughout the whole thing - not because you're scared, but ultimately sex is about both parties having fun. Sounds like she worried you're never going to want to hang w/her again because she didn't give it up. And IMO, that's a GOOD sign - she's worried she 'fucked' it up by not putting out while cautiously probing. Honestly just be more chill, let this interaction BREATHE both for the moment and when you're escalating. Pepper in some more comfort, have more FUN with her so things flow more naturally. Be like fucking water when escalating - never taking hard lines, but kinda oscillating back and forth, slowly moving towards the final destination - but always fucking reading the situation on a second by second basis while simultaneously enjoying the moment.  sometimes the jumps in escalation can be big, sometimes they'll be small. same goes for de-escalating. you just gotta read that shit. 

So what do i do specifically with this going foward.

Please read our last two texts ...
I did agree you might be right about how shes feeling and if thats so how do i respond to
Her: Btw we are never hanging out again

And why do you think she said that
Please read the two options i put in the first post and lmk what you think is specifically the right move but also the right mindset here. Thanks

And yes beautiful write up by MW much appreciated

Oh shit I've definitely been guilty of this before

Oops. Disregard the advice pertaining to "btw we are never hanging again. I misread what you wrote -  I thought that said "Btw are we ever hanging again" 

Beats me, man. Maybe you can salvage, but I'd chalk this up in the L column lol. 

Can you really chalk it up to an L just like that even though the whole night seemed to be going well and we connected a lot...

Mpgamer. Didnt seem like genuine resistance until she texted me that never gonna hang out with me again bull

Should i tell her to text me if she has a change of heart? Maybe if she has a boring experience with the next guy she tries shell come back because despite the negatives here the date was never boring

It doesn't matter how much of a connection you felt. Women are fickle. They operate emotionally on a moment to moment basis. Now the emotions have turned sour. You failed to read the situation correctly and fucked up the escalation. We've all done it. It's part of the learning process. Abundance... move on to the next one. Leave this one alone for now you can possibly try to re-engage later.

So,
Me: Text me if you have a change of heart
Is a bad idea? Or just irrelevent ?

This. 

If this had been a social circle chick where you could see her w/o having to re-engage and all that, I'd say it'd be much easier to salvage the situation. Not that this one isn't. Who knows, you could be the exception. However, that's probably not going to be the case.  Not sure why you're fighting us on this though, like it's OK to fuck things up. Sending shitty needy text messages after is only going to cement her decision tho.  

I think i just am a bit confused on the fact that you guys are making it sound like once things are fucked up its like a final thing. I guess i sort have this false impression that attraction is more fluid and just because she wasnt feeling it at one point doesnt mean if we keep talking she won't. Girls dont really mean what they say the majority of the time

I have had a few first dates lately that did not lead to day 2s becuase I was too aggressive toward the end of the date. I think a reason for this is a low confidence in my follow-up game. Any good resources to help me hone this better or advice. Thanks

it seems like i have this idea that if I don't bang her then before I see her again some other guy is going to approach her, run tighter game, and I'll have lost the chance. 

Well if you're worried about losing her why would you wait till the end of the date to start. That's not even logical 

I don't wait until the end of the date but I get blown out at the end of the date because I keep pushing.