Reviving a dead interaction - Drama?

@Lotion:
If that drama stuff works I'm gonna try it out.

Ya a bad sexual experience is pretty hard to recover from ; )

It's funny that everyone talks about bringing on the "drama" game, but then uses the exact same lines over and over lol.

You want to craft "drama" game that actually targets the sexual experience you had with her, either by throwing insecurity/doubt on her or creating a dramatic reason why you werent at your best that night.

@Manwhore:

You mean throwing my doubts and insecurities on her making me look vulnerable or actually making her feel that?

Anyways I've been tinkering with a few ideas. These are rather rough ideas and wud probably need some fine-tuning or maybe they just suck ass.


A:
Me: "You know what.. I actually liked you.. You made me feel nervous inside and I felt like I could open up to you. But now I can see you're just another one of these girls, who are nothing but fake lies and an empty heart. I'll never trust anyone again.."

sounds gay to me...? Doesn't sound like it wud stir enough shit up.


B:
Me: "You know what.. Forget it. I thought you were different and I made the effort to come see you that night, cause I really liked you. Even though I was in the crappiest mood after finding out one of my friends had cancer. All I wanted was to stay in, but I thought "nah she didn't deserve to get ditched like that" so I came over and kept quiet about it.. I didn't want to lay that on you. Boy what a mistake that was.. thanks for proving me wrong about you"

Lol can't believe I just used cancer.. toomuch? but I can feel the drama in this.

Regardless I have no issues lying me teeth out to make this happen.

How exactly did this thing go down that night

@Manwhore:

Basically this is the hottest girl I've ever fucked or shud I say barely fucked. So I had the nerves. Went over to her place for pizza, ice cream and a movie.
Spend a lot of time conversing. I wasn't that physical to begin with. There was some light touching. Went for a walk by the lake (lol sounds so gay).
Went back to her place again, put the movie on, ignored it and started to escalate on her. I tease her until she pulls me in for the makeout. We makeout I stop her.. Look into her eyes and makeout some more.

She then casualy says "I'm tired.. Can you carry me to the bed?" I carry her and throw her on the bed.
We get frisky and I stop. She ask me "why did you stop?"
I go "well I don't want you think of me as an asshole and you just being another meaningless girl.." (I'm laughing on the inside while saying this)
She replies: "I'm a big girl.. "
We rip each other clothes up. Finger her. She goes down on me. Fucking deepthroating and sucking my fingers after I've fingered her.. Tells me to watch her masturbate. After a while we get on it.. I get it in do a few pumps.. and all of the sudden the nerves must've hit me, cause I just lose my boner. In my head I'm like "come on buddy wtf?.." while playing it cool on the outside.

So we basically don't end up doing much more than that. Just sleep while cheerishing.
Wake up. We're both busy.

She text me later that day
her: "Hey Sweets thanks for the icecream last night and not letting me crash your car was fun. have a nice weekend xx"

Then she headed to London for a few days and here we are.

@Lotion: thats really not that bad, but i can see your point in that you wanna put it down and leave that good first impression. Like dude, i had a one pump chump with a chick before lol and we still and she left and shit immediately went back out to the party after. I partially blame manwhore since he was giving me shit for not boning chicks while im having a rager at my place. Like lmao it was super annoying cuz all i had to do was clean up and do her right, but she bounced before i could. Point is i was patient and i got a chance to bone her again - and i def put it down. Dont beat yourself up, this girls keen imo. Just put it down next time. Probs just you psyching yourself out cuz shes hot.

Aquitas correct me if I'm wrong, but you're in a completely different situation where no matter what, you're going to see these girls again. The rest of the population has to work for their pussy.

@Manwhore: True, I was and that does change a lot - but I still think he isn't giving himself enough credit.

I do. I think he sucks.

;b

So what happened in the morning?

Generally if I'm fucked up I let the wine wear off then rail her within an inch of her life in the morning. Here's a pretty similar situation to yours with a megahottie: http://manwhore.org/howtodatea10

What Julien did one time was tell a girl he had a girlfriend and he "just couldn't do this". Hooked the girl hard. You can do something similar like say an ex just came back into your life recently and told you she wanted to get back with you after you broke it off with her because she travels too much for her job as an intl beauty pageant winner lol

So she ended up texting me all by herself.

Her: "Hey Lotiooon, you wanna grab ice cream with me today/later? :)"

Will update later