Salvage a fucked up day2
So after texting this girl back and forth we met up yesterday to make a gingerbread house at her apartment (weird, I know).
We basicallt spend the whole time talking, me chilling out and telling stories from time to time, and she does the same. She's laughing a lot and we've got a good vibe going.
She has to leave at 3PM (I got there at 1PM), so it's really short, but we still manage to have a good time. As I leave I kiss her a couple of times and say that we should meet again. So I ask her what her schedule is like. Turns out she's really busy this week, and is leaving for a different part of the country in a couple of days. I try to get a lock down on a date, but she's like "it has to be spontanous or something, can't decide something now."
So here's where I went wrong:
- Didn't go for a kiss straight away (waited until the end)
- She invited me to her fucking apartment, if I had any balls I should've taken that as a clear sign she was DTF but I didn't
- I feel like I tried way too hard to get her on a second date and it came off needy
Things that went okay:
- Good vibing, good eye contact, got the makeout (meh)
So, some context:
During the date we talked about how there's this thing in Norway called Smash (chocolate) which you apparently cannot just take one bite of, you just have to eat the whole bag (because it's so good, whatever) so I say: "I've got badass willpower, babe. I can totally take just one bit" and I do.
About an hour after the date I send her a pic of a bag of Smash at the store.
(BTW can't show the images because the forum "blocks" me, so I had to put links instead. Also couldn't color code the messages for the same reason)
Me: (Pic) (3:11PM)
Her: I don't believe you bought that (5:43PM)
Me: Because of my amazing willpower? (6:08PM)
Her: Oh yeah, impressive (7:29PM)
Me: (Horse gif) (11:11PM) (was on a date with a different girl, so didn't respond earlier)
http://giphy.com/gifs/animal-awkward-yV4hCuMbxIkKY
And no response all day today.
Now my question for you is: how would you salvage this? I think I can pull this off if I man the fuck up (because there was deffo sexual tension during the date), but I'm not sure how to proceed.
I haven't texted her today, but was thinking of sending something like:
"Bitch please, you know you loved that horse gif" (we've been sending images back and forth)
or
http://i.imgur.com/DdZGm1I.jpg
(she had a thing for unicorns)
tomorrow.
Any thoughts on the matter? And please don't hold back, I want to fucking learn.
Peace.
First and foremost.. text game isn't going to magically cure your SHIT in-person game. Fucking horrid you went to her place and didn't do anything.
You need to create momentum, you're in full scale recovery mode here you're not going to do that waiting for individual texts to come in from the forum here and no I'm not going to write all your texts for you. Send her a couple texts back 'n forth then call her, lead conversationally, ask her what she's up to and if she's free then tell her you guys are hanging out you're on your way over. Don't be a fucking pussy this time
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Fucking horrid you went to her place and didn't do anything.
I know. Fuck.
You need to create momentum, you're in full scale recovery mode here you're not going to do that waiting for individual texts to come in from the forum here and no I'm not going to write all your texts for you. Send her a couple texts back 'n forth then call her, lead conversationally, ask her what she's up to and if she's free then tell her you guys are hanging out you're on your way over. Don't be a fucking pussy this time
Okay, I'm gonna send her a text tomorrow to get some banter going. Are any of my two suggestions okay to start the convo, or should I work on something else?
Tomorrow? How are you going to create momentum waiting that long. That's ridiculous. What are you scared of
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Tomorrow? How are you going to create momentum waiting that long. That's ridiculous. What are you scared of
It's 1 AM here now man :p She's prolly asleep from working her 12 hour shift.
I think it's awesome you guys made a gingerbread house btw.
Haha, yeah it was actually pretty fun. I kept giving her shit about her OCD decorating (like color-coding her M&Ms on the walls and shit).
If I could have any piece of advice for getting ass, it would be fuck a girl as soon as possible no matter what. My life would probably be drastically different (read, dripping in pussy at age 17), if someone had told me this lol
Yeah, I'm finally beginning to learn shit like this now, the hard way lol.
Well I royally cocked that up.
Me 8AM: (rhino/unicorn pic)
(four hours later)
Me: Beb, you can’t just ignore me – you gotta say something too, loser!
(2 hours later)
Her: Haha, have you started telling me what and what now to do now?
(12 mins later)
Me: Only when it’s in your own best intrest, beb
Me: Think about the marzipan monkeys, they need a loving home (inside joke we have about marzipan monkeys living in our gingerbread house)
(6 mins later)
Her: They don’t exist yet
(2 mins later)
Me: “Yet” being the operative word
(1 min later)
Her: I’m taking certain liberties before I become house lord for a bunch of marzipan monkeys
(Should've just called here)
(1 min later)
Me: Bitch please, I’m house lord
Me: You’ll be madame of the monkeys
(1hour later)
Me: Found this pic of you
Me: this pic: http://imgur.com/g0M3ylf
He shoots, he fucks up. Should've gone for the call right after her second reply, but I thought "just a little more". Ugh :|
She just doesn't seem into it at this point dude. Look at those last series of texts. You trying to push the frame and her being like "nah". Sending four texts in a row there at the end was a mistake too.
NEVER try and set up another date while ur still on one. It comes off as really needy. You gotta just leave next time and give her space to wonder about you. I would move on at this point and let her hit you up when she feels like it.
She just doesn't seem into it at this point dude. Look at those last series of texts. You trying to push the frame and her being like "nah". Sending four texts in a row there at the end was a mistake too.
Yeah, could feel it going sideways. Was a last ditch effort on my part :|
NEVER try and set up another date while ur still on one. It comes off as really needy. You gotta just leave next time and give her space to wonder about you. I would move on at this point and let her hit you up when she feels like it.
This is gold to me man. Really.
Thanks for the response, really appreaciate it!