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SCHOOL'S ABOUT TO START UP! How to game in college... This is for AP_Grappler and anyone else in college

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College is THE BEST time to be gaming. You are swimming in pussy. Once you get out, you'll probably go through this period of "shock" because you don't have the abundance of girls around anymore, and college will seem like "The Glory Years." Take full advantage of it while you can.

My freshman year was both lame and awesome at the same time. It was lame because I was still too wet behind the ears to get laid. I didn't lose my V-card until sophomore year. But I was lucky enough to have crazy cool roommates... identical twins from Palm Desert and a French exchange student. Seriously super cool, amazing dudes. They taught me that getting laid in college, is about having the social circle and throwing THE party. We lived in a 4 BR apartment and we'd have that place packed wall-to-wall. So much that you couldn't walk through the place. Frats would have "lingerie parties" but the girls would end up coming to our place instead. Ha!

Priority 1: Make friends with as many "naturals" as you can. Because you are going to be leveraging their social circles as well as your own. You invite them... they invite their social circles. You can easily spot them at any party. They are the ones who are always at the center of the action. Obviously be a cool dude and don't be a "value taking," loser trying to get something from them. Be a "value giver." You actually have to BE FRIENDS with them. Seriously don't be a loser.

Priority 2: Like I told Meow in another post... be "gaming" constantly. But you are not trying to "pull" right then. Actually just be super social. Don't be judgemental at all, talk and vibe with everybody. Your goal isn't to get laid right away. That's like killing the golden goose and will give you a rep as a "player." The priority is to build your "network." You want to be a "social provider," where you are the person that people call to find out where the party's at.

Priority 3: Throw great parties. Some of the best friends I have to this day, I met through throwing some great parties. Parties are where you are going to get laid like a rockstar. Hands down. Don't do it every weekend. Focus on your school, dumbass. Make it a scarce thing, so people will be wondering, "I wonder when [you]'s gonna have a party again cuz the last one was CRAZY!" Do it maybe... once a month. At the end of the day, it's how many hot girls show up to your parties. Do themes to keep it entertaining, like "rockstar parties" or "army bro's, military hoe's" or "comic-con" or "Disney movies." Whatever you can think of. This is KEY: Girls are very imaginative creatures and they LOVE to dress up. (btw this is why the "marriage frame," as some of you ballsacks like to call it, works. Don't fuckin dismiss it.)

Priority 4: Really connect with fraternity girls. Don't even necessarily try to fuck them. This ties in with priority 1 and 2. If you are cool with some frat girls, especially the "leadership alpha females" they will feed you. I fucked quite a few frat girls this way. (Actually one of my fav college stories is me and my French roommate tricking this frat girl into "snorting cocaine" (which was actually powdered asprin) and she ended up being my sophomore year roomate's girlfriend. She got me laid later on, like A LOT.)

Once you're out of college, this, and your whole network, will get DESTROYED. Trust me. You'll learn some cool shit. But bear in mind... it doesn't last forever. This is what fucked me up really bad. I had zero "cold approach skills going out of college. It was depressing town, and basically how I ended up in the community. So don't get stuck on this. This is potent in college, and will help you, but it's no substitute for core skills... Get some training from Manwhore to learn the social requisites/charisma/game needed to pull this off. Like I said earlier, I had the really cool roomies to show me how it's done. I can't imagine how much more I could've gotten laid if I had some "PUA/manliness" training beforehand.

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Dude... You are a fucking

Dude... You are a fucking legend.

I can't thank you enough for this guide. I'll be using it to a  tee when school starts back up in a few weeks. 

I have been also told before not to go in guns blazing because it could ruin a lot of things for you, I.E. The "player" label and things like that. I was thinking social circle game is the key to victory here. I will be doing whatever I can to make sure I do what I need too. I sort of fucked up my freshman year also, but I'll be going hard this year but intelligently.

I have a few wings from the community that go to the same school so we'll be gaming together and making sure we throw dope parties. Thanks again man.

I'll also look into the Manwhore coaching, I been thinking about it for a while.

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This is some awesome stuff, I

This is some awesome stuff, I think uni in the UK is pretty similar, with subtle differences (like the fact that we don't have frats..)

It's certainly crazy times for meeting girls though, I'm throwing a huge housewarming party in a couple of weeks so I'll be sure to put your advice to use

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I've been getting alot better

I've been getting alot better with cold approach recently but i'm just about to start fresh man year. How would you deal with the "player reputation" though? I'm not even fucking many girls yet but i talk to quite many of them and some girls asked if i was a player or something lol

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Cholo wrote: I've been

Cholo wrote:
I've been getting alot better with cold approach recently but i'm just about to start fresh man year. How would you deal with the "player reputation" though? I'm not even fucking many girls yet but i talk to quite many of them and some girls asked if i was a player or something lol

You probably look or sound like you're reactive. You can be super persistent but not be reactive. That's part of the game 

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Ok last semestre my class was

Ok last semestre my class was just a bunch of old guys and a few girls. This semestre my class is PACKED with chicks, and i've talked to a bunch already. 

We partied monday and tuesday and will do tonight and tomorrow aswell. I dont really remember much from monday but i made out with some chick and many recognized me yesterday and knew my name because i had talked to them. Yesterday i was just "social" and talked to a bunch of guys and girls.

Something i've noticed it's kinda hard for me to keep my hands of girls on the dancefloor so i make them grind on me and stuff and then i grab their hair like i'm gonna kiss them and then back off, lol. Is this cool? I mean i'm not "gaming" them i just do it for fun! Although some chicks were kinda asking me to kiss them but it didn't feel right because id rather "build my network" now than try to escalate on a bunch of girls.

So yeah ive talked to a bunch of chicks, now whats the next step? Get numbers/facebook and invite them to parties?

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See which ones you can move

See which ones you can move from where you were initially talking to her to somewhere else. Those you can hang out with a bit then just whisk out the front door. Glory times 

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Cool. Lol there was this

Cool. Lol there was this stunner that is about 5 inches taller than me and a little bit older aswell (im still under 20) that came and introduced herself to me and then we chatted a bit and danced. Normally if a girl is taller and older i just act friendly but i was being very physical with this girl. Hope i'll see her tonight. Manwhore do you fuck alotta taller girls? do you just manhandle the fuck out of them or what? :p

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Yeah I bang a ton of tall

Yeah I bang a ton of tall chicks. Pretty regularly 

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I was thinking about actually

I was thinking about actually making a video of how to get tall chicks if you're a shorter guy. I'd just need to get a girl to do it with me

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