Securing the meetup
Mon, 01/28/2013 - 00:32
what do ya guys do when she says "I'll let know you know for sure tomorrow"
should I say "cool" & initiate her tomorrow? or let her respond...
should I say "cool" & initiate her tomorrow? or let her respond...
Mon, 01/28/2013 - 06:49
#1
It varies but I'd probably
It varies but I'd probably let her know in some way that that's pretty gay and you will probably make other plans. I can imagine everything leading up to this point wasn't too well-played.
Mon, 01/28/2013 - 07:34
#2
well here's the context..
well here's the context.. thoughts on how to proceed? this was today btw
Me: Mark
Me - 15 hrs 13 mins later: It's beautiful out, saw an old man on a scooter w/ kneepads checking out babes this morning. Made my day
Girl - 1 min later: That's adorable.
Me - 1 hr later: Anyways, what are you doin' later. Can't picture you out again..Lol
Girl - 4 mins later: I'm going to work. Lol. What do you mean you can't picture me out again? Am I that nerdy looking?
Me - 17 mins later: I suspect you're a closet nerd. It's okay, that's kind of hot.. in a strange way ;d
Me - 1 day 19 hrs later: This salad would be way better if it was pizza.
Girl - 32 mins later: I make really good salad.
Me - 31 mins later: I admire chef skills..but the real question is can you make a bomb Caesar
Girl - 4 mins later: I've never tried. I don't really dig the idea of making dressing with anchovies. But I'm sure I'd be good at it.
Me - 13 mins later: Well shit, Weds are salad nights at xyz. Half off... join me if you're adventurous
Me: No pressure
Girl - 1 min later: That sounds kinda good actually. I might roll deep tho. Haha.
Me - 6 mins later: Damn girl, leave the mob at home. Might get too ratchet Lol...what's yer schedule lookin' like Wed?
Girl - 1 min later: Mmm I think I'm off.
Me - 7 mins later: How bout Wed 8:30 at xyz. That way you can be home before bedtime
Girl - 3 mins later: I'll let you know for sure tomorrow.
Me - 8 mins later: Cool
Me: Mark
Me - 15 hrs 13 mins later: It's beautiful out, saw an old man on a scooter w/ kneepads checking out babes this morning. Made my day
Girl - 1 min later: That's adorable.
Me - 1 hr later: Anyways, what are you doin' later. Can't picture you out again..Lol
Girl - 4 mins later: I'm going to work. Lol. What do you mean you can't picture me out again? Am I that nerdy looking?
Me - 17 mins later: I suspect you're a closet nerd. It's okay, that's kind of hot.. in a strange way ;d
Me - 1 day 19 hrs later: This salad would be way better if it was pizza.
Girl - 32 mins later: I make really good salad.
Me - 31 mins later: I admire chef skills..but the real question is can you make a bomb Caesar
Girl - 4 mins later: I've never tried. I don't really dig the idea of making dressing with anchovies. But I'm sure I'd be good at it.
Me - 13 mins later: Well shit, Weds are salad nights at xyz. Half off... join me if you're adventurous
Me: No pressure
Girl - 1 min later: That sounds kinda good actually. I might roll deep tho. Haha.
Me - 6 mins later: Damn girl, leave the mob at home. Might get too ratchet Lol...what's yer schedule lookin' like Wed?
Girl - 1 min later: Mmm I think I'm off.
Me - 7 mins later: How bout Wed 8:30 at xyz. That way you can be home before bedtime
Girl - 3 mins later: I'll let you know for sure tomorrow.
Me - 8 mins later: Cool
Mon, 01/28/2013 - 07:36
#3
She's obviously not invested
She's obviously not invested just doesn't want to say no. Just make other plans. Hit her up in a few days and tweak up your text game, the way you invited her out was weak. Need to come off more boss like with it.
Mon, 01/28/2013 - 07:45
#4
ya figured she wasnt too
ya figured she wasnt too invested when she wanted to come out with her crew
not sure how i couldve been more boss tho. i asked for schedule then suggested a time..isn't that the usual procedure lol
not sure how i couldve been more boss tho. i asked for schedule then suggested a time..isn't that the usual procedure lol