Setting up Day 2 on this text convo
Last night, Me and my friend ended up talking to these two girls. The vibe was solid and I steered it towards sexual. We bantered back and forth and at the end of convo, she told me how submissive she is in bedroom. I number closed her and we both told each other that we are not looking for a relationship. So we will just grab drinks and see how it goes from there.
I kept talking to her after number close since I felt that this is pullable. At the end of night, my friend and her friend joined us. So I told them (girls) that we are going to this afterparty on rooftop and they should join us and keep the adventure going. They thought for a moment but then decided against it. I did not push much because I dont want to convey me being chasing her. Later, my friend told me that he kind of messed up with the other girl and it was going no where so he joined us.
Anyways, I texted her the same night (saturday night), Here is the convo:
Me ( 2:11 AM) = Hey girl, get home safe. - J
Her ( 2:28 AM) = Ugh car got broken into. Awesome
Me (2:35 AM) = That sucks
Me ( 2:35 AM) = What they do?
Her (2:35 AM) = They broke my window and stole my purse. My wallet had expired ID cards and business cards.
Her (2:36 AM) = Funny thing is there was a bag with a Sony psp and a Nintendo ds right next to it and Gucci sunglasses in the center console they didnt take.. Go figure
Me ( 2:45 AM) = Yeah, car thieves, not the best and the brightest ! I had my window broken too. They stole the laptop and watch that my sister gifted to me. I was emotionally abused and molested :P
Her ( 3:02 AM) = I feel a little violated. More irritated that I have to fix a window and they didnt even put thought into actually searching thru my car.
Me ( 3:23 AM) = You'd be feeling much better if you would have joined me. Lying on the roof, breathing in the fresh air, gazing at the bright stars and sipping on a whiskey
Me (3:24 AM) = Wow, I sound like a Shakespeare :)
After that, I didnt get any text from her.
Manwhore, Can you critique this convo and suggest how to steer it to setup a day2 with her? Also should I start forcing sexual vibe on the texts? I plan to wait the whole day today (Sunday) and hit her up tomorrow and ask her about the car fiasco. Any comments?
Everything during the texting was great. Very good stuff.. I saw the shakespeare stuff coming but would have applied it a bit different.. like I was taking for granted how amazing I was. You seemed surprised by it. Never seem surprised by your own amazingness ;)
But you KNOW your real problem homey.. you know where you dropped the ball. Where was it
I think the fact that I didnt lead very well in pulling them the same night. I needed to be more dominant. The thing which was messing up my head is how to find that fine line between dominant leading vs pushy (chasing the girl). Is that you are refering to?
btw she just replied
Her ( 7:52pm Sunday) = Haha I just got this. Nice
Should I wait till tomorrow or just keep the texting going? What would you do in steering this to possible day2 lay? I think she is down.
Yes keep texting. Stop worrying about being pushy. Why the fuck are you worrying about that.
Alright, so i sent her the following text on sunday:
Her (Sunday, 7:42pm ) = Haha I just got this. Nice
Me (Sunday, 9:15pm) = Weather was so amazing ! The cool breeze was caressing my skin and I ended up sleeping on the roof
After that, I havent gotten any reply from her yet. Anyways, I feel that it doesnt matter. I have enough rapport with her. So I m thinking to setup day2 and send her the following classic tomorrow.
"Hey beb, when are you free this week? Thinking of robbing a mall, get a rope and a catwoman outfit ! "
Am i missing something here?
Yes the "cool breeze caressing my skin" was really weird. Wtf lol.
Only gay people and little babies say things like that.
Hahah....funny i realized that after sending her the text. No more gay shit lol. Any comment on day2 text?
As i wrote in previous post that I wanted to set up day2 with this chick, so i sent her the following yesterday:
Me ( June 25, 7:30pm) = Hey, what trouble are you getting into this week? Lets go on a crime spree
Surpirsingly, she has not replied to this text yet. Its been about a day. wtf just happened here?
Is it time to NEXT her or may be call in a couple of days?
Yeah I'd call in a couple days and leave a vm.