Shaping A Hotties Behavior - Social Circle Bondage (Text Game)

Ello fellow whores *pushes glasses up nose rim & snorts & chuckles at the same time

Wanted to share a txt report on how I deal with flakes within my social circle. Obviously, this also carries over to one on one dates, not that I would know...ha..ha...hehehehee. Kidding :)

The premise here is simple: Call girls out on their bullshit but in a way that doesn't kill your creativity and fun as well as the girls'.

Y'all know this, but its well worth hammering in because this applies to not only flakes on dates, or events, it applies to disrespectful behavior as well such as; playing with their phone in the middle of conversation, looking away when talking with you, or interrupting you to say something unrelated to what you two were talking about before.

It's important you understand this cause I've found these to be those ninja like shit tests where you think you're being "polite", when really, she's walking all over you.

Few More Examples: She tries to get you to buy her a drink in order to move the interaction along, she tells you to wait then never returns (within reason)

Disclaimer: Don't get carried away like I do with shit tests. I have a tendency to think everything is a shit test. For example, if a girl trips down the stairs and starts crying...it's not a shit test dude, you're just an asshole lol. 

LETS GO!

Me: Throwing a dinner tomorrow. Down?

Her: Ofcourse <3

Me: Will get back to ya w/ deets. Cya then missy

Her: Thanks pal

Me: 6PM. Feel free to bringa nyone

*No response. Tried RSVP'ing but she just went rogue like star wars. No biggie. Side Note: Social circle "meetups", I keep simple. I don't fluff it or adventurize it. Just a simple "Hey, a few friends are doing X, come and bring some hotties!"

Me: Where ya at? Everybody misses you

Her: OMG I forgot that was tonight im the worst

Her: Next time !!!!

I don't buy it you fiend. Quick breakdown: Be txting them to stay on their minds until the event. I use MW's 19 Rules. The day before and the day of and maybe a little in between if its 1 week out. No pen pal nonsense. Just a few funny lines here and there.

With this girl, she still didn't make it out. No biggie, during the event, I'll send a photo showing how much fun we're having without her or in this scenario (which works fine as well), made her feel like she disappointed everyone by not coming.

Keep Reading, here's how I handled it:

Me: Are you at your house

Her: No im at the gym

Notice how I completely sidestep the fact that she didn't come by not responding to her "Next Time" txt. I simply let the event go on and after it ended I txted her asking where she was.

Me: Cool, I'm gonna break in. Don't look in the fridge when you get back

Her: Hahaha shut up

Me: No im serious. I dont want my flaky friend getting hurt ;)

Her: Omg offensive. I'll see y'all soon

Me: Hmm idk. Im leaving soon

Her: What???? When???

Me: In the next week girlie so when r ya free and not pumping iron

Her: Sunday-Wednesday nights :)

Me: Sunday night we're catching up over icecream

Her: I'll be there but text me and remind me anyway

^BAM! What did I do here? I asked where she was, in order to craft a scenario where I can 1. Find out what she is doing 2. Find out her schedule 3. Create an interesting roleplayish thing between us 4. All to call her out on her bullshit in a fun friendly way and get her out to do something else. 

Use your creativity to come up with this stuff homies. This isn't canned material. It's all in the moment. Just know the direction you want ot take it in.

Her: Can we do like 8?

Me: Am?? Sounds great!

Her: ://///

Me: Ya we can do 8pm and we can also go crazy and get double scoops

Her: My boyfriend just tried to come up to surprise me and I told him he couldn't because I have plans so y'all better feel REEEEAAAALLLL special

^Ha...ha. They don't call me boyfriend stealer 4 nothin.

Me: B ready around 7:50 imma get u in my lambo disguised as a highlander

Her: You're picking me up?? I can just meet y'all there

Me: U dont wanna ride in a lambo?

Her: Hahahaha i'll meet you there at 8

Me: Lol kewl cya then Em&m

^This last bit was for Meow. You don't need to "pick up" a girl for it to be a date. If she's not comfortable with it, throw some humor around it and move on. Doesn't mean a thing. Heck, it saves me gas and pushes me to escalate faster.

Hope that was swiss cheese for you guys to read and lemme know if i'm wrong, something needs more elaboration or anything else!