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Met this blondie Last weekend at a huge backyard party. Had so much momentum that night, made out and danced with a bunch of chicks, then when it was blondie's turn i hit a roadblock. I don't remember the details but she a decent amount of resistance. She would dance and grind on me sexually, but when i'd turn her to face me, she would lean back LOL. She knew i was going to try and kiss her because i tried to within minutes of interacting with her but she said no. I think when i actually tried to she tried to walk away but i got her back. Fast forward I got her digits and texted her later that night. She threw the bf car today >:P
Is it worth pursuing her or she bluffing?

ME: Was great dancing with you Taylor, Make it back safe tonight :) _Guru
HER: Thanks, I did!!!! You're the one from Africa yeah?
ME: That's right ;)
HER: Hahahaa nice!

==== Today
ME: Totally random I'm at work watching Beyonce in dancing in a music vid. It reminded me of you ;)
HER: Hahahahahahaha nice
ME: :) WHat mischief have you been causing? It's pretty G rated here at work :P
HER: I'm at my apartent but I have a bf.... Just an FYI
ME: Have you ever considered a manfriend?
HER: Meaning?
ME: An upgraded version of a boyfriend. It's fucking amazing.
HER: Ha nice try
ME: I'm glad you're chucklig, you have that upbeat vib about you. Cool shit.
HER: Thanks? Lol
ME: Alright i'll talk to you later. You're trouble ;)
HER: Okay crazy lol
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Re: She has a bf, still talking to me though
==== 10/22/2012 3:05PM
ME: Ahhh nothing better than chilling in this weather, feasting on saucy lasagna :) What are you doing?
HER: wtf?! Bring me some!! Lol. Just finished teaching my second grade class
ME: mehh, I promise you by the time i get there it's not going to be as tasty. Nice, did you not happen to tell them the story of a cool gal who met a cool African dude
HER: Haha alright. No I didn't lol
ME: Taylor.... :/ They would have loved it. So what do you teach? :)
HER: Haha I had a bunch of stuff to do!! I co teach second grade all subjects except science and history
ME: Haha :) that's cool you're well-rounded. You plan to go as far as teaching middle school, HS and college?
HER: Thanks!! Highest would be middle school
ME: Lol I was a tough one to handle in middle school, a little hard-headed boss. I'm glad to see you're up for the challenge.
HER: I bet lol

I guess i should be shooting for a meet next time. I split between texting her the "beer and ice cream" line or find some event that's really popping and sell her on it. Just because she claimed she had a bf but then again it could be BS.
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Re: She has a bf, still talking to me though
--I need a new approach with this girl, feels like i'm staring at a BIG ASS wall right now.
We texted on Halloween but did not make any plans to see her, she sent me a pic of her in her costume.
I texted her a couple of days later and eventually tried to get her out that very day.
ME: i'm headed with my buddies to play volleyball. If you can keep up we'll get pizza after
HER: haha i would love to but my roomies wanna go out to eat so maybe another time?
ME: and the heartbreaker award goes to...Taylor! Jk haha, enjoy your meal though
HER: Aww :( don't be that way!!

--Texted her a week later, on a Friday. After a couple of rounds i said something along the lines of i have no intentions of becoming her pen pal and what her schedule is looking like for the weekend. She replied with: "aww haha You're going to hate me but I fly out to Vegas tomorrow night and i'm there ultil next Tuesday :/"

--Thursday, I sent her a "Happy Thanksgiving" and she replied. I left it at that. I had the apartment to myself and my cousin left the car keys >:D... too bad choded around, and i think she's coming back today. Anyways I decided to pull out the cannon and go super direct with her last night.
ME: You joined the Marines or something? it's been ages. Come spoon me. That's an order.
HER: no?
ME: You grab the beer, ill get the ice cream. Better like vanilla or it won't work out :P
HER: no

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Re: She has a bf, still talking to me though
@Ghettoguru:

Waddup ghetto. not sure why these faggots havent responded to your months old thread. good value

your banter game is pretty solid, but i think you shouldve suggested a more innocent meetup since she has a bf. then she can rationalize in her head that its just a friendly encounter (even if its not). women are emotional, not logical

ne ways..she got cold after those last txts. move on mate...pof in the sea ;d
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Re: She has a bf, still talking to me though
^ Good stuff
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Re: She has a bf, still talking to me though
Yeah I'll have to move on.
I've fallen into major scarcity for the past couple of weeks.
For the past couple of weeks i have not been motivated to go out at all until yesterday. Them BRUTAL blowouts lol.
Because i haven't been going out, I started shifting my energy on these old numbers for the most-part.
Been coughing EVERY SINGLE night since Halloween and i'm like FML. I've been consuming countless oranges, apples, some Nyquil and Emergen-C... Still coughing. My dumbass needs to go to the clinic ASAP tomorrow.