Shit test vs Ego
This is a conversation I had with a girl I met back in December. We never hooked up due to logistical issues, but I was so fucking charming that it made a good enough impression for her to hit me up on the text a couple months later. I'm inviting her to the city for a basketball game since she lives way outta town
We texted for a week then I didn't respond to see if she would go outta her way to hit me up. She didn't, so a week later I hit her with this:
Me: How long do I wait until you ask me out again?
Her: At least a week in advance
Me: Oh yeah I remember walking up to you and being like "yo can I get a table" (She's a hostess)
Me: And then I saw the list of names and said "oh man is that the wait"
Me: And then you said "nah these are my mans. You gotta call ahead bruh"
Me: But yeah I'm going to a hawks game in March you should come thru
Btw I don't give a fuck about sending multiple texts in a row anymore. People are texting more like how they actually communicate nowadays and all this does is separate different trains of thought as well as give her options on what to respond to
Her: My mans lmfaooo
Her: I'm down do u have my ticket? (as soon as I read this I thought "no bish I have MY ticket that I might give to you if you behave" lol. Might have been my ego but I'm def not wanting to convey a provider frame)
Me: It's on The 18th of March. I plan on sneaking down and sitting with Jeezy
Her: Oh shit hahah do it so I don't have to sit with u <---wtf lol this threw me off. Not the response I was expecting so I just decided to keep it light
Me: It's gonna have to be a team effort. Your face is gonna have to be the distraction. Can u handle dat
Her: I believe I can complete the task provided
Me: That's what I like to hear Katie Lee
Me: And you can sit with me once we get to the lower level seats. Otherwise I'll just assume you're gay <----Great line I got from the monthly membership context ( although used in a different context ) JOIN THE MONTHLY MEMBERSHIP IF YOU HAVENT ALREADY
Her: Hahah court side
Her: I am gay though:/ though u were too
The convo is back to being playful and what not. I'm just wondering if that one part was a shit test or my ego trying to control every bit of the frame. Maybe she was pissed I went a week without talking to her lol. Little brat
Looks like she is flirting
Holmes how long you been on this forum and you still think sending one text per one of hers is the norm? Geezez! </3
Jack this is an interesting scenario. She could definitely be "negging" you either 'cuz she's still miffed over what happened before and wants you to work harder to make something happen. Did you meet her while she was hosting?
Yeah so she was a hostess at this restaurant my family and I ate at for Christmas. I immediately walked up to her (bcuz she was a smoke show) and was very man to woman. And in front of her friends so it was all social proof. Got her to take some pics of me and my family and then told her to put my number in my phone. She giggled and obliged.
We are having quality convo's with memes and shit and she's visiting me in a couple weeks...Ugh you think these girls you meet are all innocent and next thing they're telling you all they have to do to score a free bag of coke is show their drug dealers their feet?? Lmao. It'll be interesting, this girls hot and yet is pretty insecure bcuz she doesn't think so. I'll keep everyone posted
Yeah they do a lot more than just show their feet to their coke dealers that's for sure
Thank you...just thank you. This forum plus the membership is slowly shaping me & my beliefs to manifest the person I see myself as in the future. It's helped me more so than other "dating" companies that spew out content after content on other social media platforms. Not saying that that content isn't helpful, but I am confident in saying the material on this forum has helped me the most overall. It's so obvious when each chick I date is hotter (better quality) than last
Just wanted to let you guys know you are changing lives out here lol
Cool man great to hear. And yes I agree, but then again that just seems obvious to me ;)