Shit Tests
Me: So when are we starting your kareoke lessons?
Girl: Ummmmmmmm
Girl - 2 mins later: Soon?
Me - 4 mins later: Lol if we are going to do a duet you can't embarass me!
Me: What song you good at?
Girl - 3 mins later: Everything I sing in the shower sounds amazing
Me - 4 mins later: Shower singing doesn't count!
Me: I need to be a judge... What you doing tomorrow?
Girl - 2 mins later: Ummm...in the shower?
Girl - 1 min later: Tomorrow...sleeping, eating....
Me - 2 mins later: If you need to be in the shower we can there...
Me: I'm wearing swimming trunks though. Don't want you trying anything
Girl - 2 mins later: Right
Me - 7 mins later: Lol :). I'm going climbing tomorrow you should join.
Girl: What time
Me - 1 min later: 430 ish
Girl - 1 min later: I can do that
Girl: Possibly
Me - 2 mins later: Haha let me know ;)
Girl - 15 mins later: Depends on how lazy I feel...
Me - 10 mins later: Don't get too lazy lol I don't want you growing a beer gut.
Girl - 36 mins later: Already demanding things of me
Me - 6 mins later: ;)
Girl - 18 hrs 29 mins later: I think I can manage rock climbing.....
Girl: I have enough time to throw in a nap after the huge brunch I just had
Me - 1 min later: Haha good deal. I'm teaching at moment send you address when I get out of class. Where you live at?
Girl - 16 mins later: Smyrna....for the 10th time
Me - 3 mins later: Lol fair enough. Ok meet me at my place and we can car pool from there its on the way. 2003 tree lodge parkway
Me: Sandy springs
Girl: Trying to get me to your place....again
Me - 10 mins later: Haha yeah
Girl - 5 mins later: Can I wear chucks to this thing or do I need special sneakers?
Me - 1 min later: You need snow boots! They have rental shoes there for you.
Girl: Ok. I hope I don't poop my pants
Me - 1 min later: I hope not either. If you do your not riding back in my car
Girl - 1 min later: Oh but u let a complete stranger sit in it
Me - 2 mins later: Not cool. I'm gonna have flash backs
Girl - 1 min later: Fine. I'll just take lots of drugs n sit quietly in the back
Me - 8 mins later: What's your drug of choice?
Girl: Food
Me: Don't eat Mexican before you get in my car
Girl - 14 mins later: Lol
Girl - 11 mins later: It's so cold outside
Girl: I think I spoke too soon. Food makes my kinda crazy
Girl: Me**
Me - 7 mins later: On my way home. Can you be there by 430
Girl - 2 mins later: Um, I spoke too soon
Girl: Can we rain check for Friday? Or whenever ur going again
Girl: I'm useless after I eat :(
Me - 2 mins later: Haha I actually feel the same. How bout we just chill and watch a movie
Girl - 11 mins later: Let me shower n see how I feel
Me - 1 min later: K
Curious if anyone had any thoughts or advice on this text exchange I had with a very testy girl. Went out with her once very good vibe the whole time. Kissed at end of date. Everything seemed very good, but she is very testy through text message. Wanted to see if anyone had any useful thoughts. Thanks.
Sorry about not including this in original post first time trying this and didn't know what I was doing.
Seems to me like you're reacting to her.
You have to get out in front of all of this. You basically got into an unproductive loop where her flaking was almost the only option. Like if she didn't flake I would have been surprised
You never nailed it down. Logistics were weak and you let her dictate the pace of the interaction.
This is still on though- I'd suggest calling her and gettin this chick on the phone
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Did this date go down?
I'm kind of making shit up as I go. I'm just putting my self out there and trying everything I can to get reference points. We got a drink at a bar near my house I pulled her back to my place. Didnt feel like I could get the lay that night so I just did kiss. She is actually coming over now to watch movie though. I appreciate the advice very much too. What do you typically do at end of day 2/date if you dont feel you can pull right then... or does that just mean my game isn't tight enough yet?
Nice man. I eat my words.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
I want to break out of that frame too. I have a hard time when the girl puts up the frame that she wants to take it slow. Whats the balance between being pushy/needy vs being a man and pushing through her resistance. Past couple dates I tried kissing earlier and being very physical and I had girls be more uncomfortable with it. I know there are people who turn it sexual much faster than me I'm just trying to figure out how. I'm going out to the bar 6 nights a week and listening to everything I can and keeping an open mind. I actually don't have a hard time doing bar makeouts and stuff just on day 2 the vibe feels different for me. I realize this is a deep topic and don't expect an essay answer, but if you have any links or anything you think might be relevant it would be greatly appreciated. I joined your forum because I saw an interview with you on youtube and seemed like you were the guy to go to for the kind of physical game I want to develop. My roommate and are really dedicated and looking for someone to take lessons from to really get to the next level. Thanks again.
Definitely, I'm still not there yet 100% when I can Kiss n Fuck. You have to introduce physical contact right away, I always give a tight(sincere hug) (cause you do wanna hug that chick) followed by a moist kiss on the cheek. I test the waters and kiss her cheeks for dumb reasons I start around the neck, she protests; I say " I missed you cheek sorry, now that I'm here though"...keep kissing... sometimes I pull sometimes I go home, but I never been scolded for the approach or physical escalation.