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All from Saturday evening/nightish

Me: where were you at the day drink

Her: sleeping and the bar :/

Me: Fucking lame beb. You coming tonight

Her: nooo im goin quadding

Me: that means nothing to me

Her: haha what

Me: what is quadding

Her: 4 wheelin

Me: I had a big wheeler back in the day. It was bad ass.

Her: so fun

Me: http://stclairpublications.info/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/big-wheel2.jpg (sent that pic)

almost too much fun
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@ItsMario:
Been thinking about getting another big wheeler. What say I pick you up in a day or so and we ride.
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@Manwhore trying to figure out why you want him to go or the meet after a no reply on an awesome text and okay answers to his texts.

Is it cause like you said in the other thread this nigga has 15 numbers and needs to start throwing seeds?
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It's in the nature of the text msg itself to be able to skip certain formalities of proper game. She sells seashells by the seashore.
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Her: haha yes please!!

^^^ When you say "nature of the text". Do you mean that it's not a real invite in this instance, and that's why it's okay to send that. It's kind of like when you would send something like a bank robber text, an instigator to bait more vibing, into logistics, into the meet up.
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It's a "Frame-setting text".... it sets the frame that you want, so that you can more easily get her out because now the entire frame of the conversation is that she already said yes to going out with you- and she only said yes because she KNOWS it wasn't a REAL yes... but that doesn't matter because the point was to set the frame.... she fell right into the trap and now she has to work really really hard if she wants to avoid meeting up with you lol

Manwhore's been playin chess for years and this girl just learned how to move her bishop.... not even fair.

That's what I love bout this shit- it's VERY deep but you don't actually have to realize all of that to do it because so much of it is natural. But yes, that's what's going on here. And manwhore fuckin knows it and that's why he's devastating with this shit.
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@ItsMario:
Damn, I think I just got incepted. I honestly had no idea about any of that. So now that she's in the frame of meeting up to ride. My first thought is that ,I should play along with this thread for a while, until I can go for the meet up.

Possible texts

Perfect. We'll cruise the streets, two suburban gangsters with nothing too lose.

Perfect. We'll cruise the streets like Bonnie and Clyde.

from something MW put up before

We'll cruise on the boulevard. Being bad ass suburban gangsters in our chariot of love. Setting the world on fire. Icing on the cake of destiny

i feel like the chariot of love doesn't go here and it could be a reach there, but I like the rest of that line^^
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@ItsMario:
Yea dude honestly when Manwhore gives you text, you use it. What I do then is I go back and I pop open all of Manwhores text convos lol and look for sort of a similar situation and try to play it out that way. You actually pick it up pretty quick when you do this because I really think there are patterns. My texting is very subpar but I'm still able to consistently get girls to meet up during the week. And his sext game keeps the girls I lay coming back for more. Despite me talking about being a hermit and totally anti-social for more than a month now, I still have 3 flings I met back in July that I am banging at least once per week because of his text game and coaching. Long-term for the win! Hermit for the double win!! But honestly these flings are getting old and I'm getting back into the scene again because it's time for some fresh meat. Man meat. Oh yea.

P.S. chariot of love is hilarious who the fuck says that
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@Jeff:
Who do you think, homo.
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buddhagames;1188.8535;8 wrote:
It's a "Frame-setting text".... it sets the frame that you want, so that you can more easily get her out because now the entire frame of the conversation is that she already said yes to going out with you- and she only said yes because she KNOWS it wasn't a REAL yes... but that doesn't matter because the point was to set the frame.... she fell right into the trap and now she has to work really really hard if she wants to avoid meeting up with you lol

Absolutely correct
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@ItsMario:
Mario take it a little bit closer to a logistically meetup in a playful or competitive fashion.
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@ItsMario:

So when are you free to cruise on the boulevard. We'll be bad ass suburban gangsters in our chariot of love. Setting the world on fire. Icing on the cake of destiny. If you can handle that

This is what I adjusted. Thoughts before I send it.

@Jeff
that's a real solid idea. I'm gonna put all the text convos I can find on my evernote and check them out when I'm trying to figure shit out. Yea all my good stuff comes from remembering something I read on here and changing to fit my situation.

I really need to focus on seeing these patterns asap though, most of the texting I do is all feel and lines don't consciously know how to do shit yet.

Chariot of Love loll Fucking Manwhore just pulling crazy shit out of his ass amirite
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@ItsMario:

You have to learn to understand, on some level, what you are doing with your texts.

Do you see why that text you just wrote down is NOT what you want to send?

It is not because it's lacking creativity or humor or pizzazzz.... it has all of that. What you are lacking is movement and intent in your texting. You are spinning the wheels with this one. You focused so much on making it funny that you basically sound like me in that podcast with konstantine, just finding 9 different ways to say the same shit and getting nowhere.

So what you want to do is move this shit forward. Take the frame you have established and close it in on her. Keep it funny and playful (but more reigned in than you have here) but start talkin logistics in a serious way. So you wanna start to transition a little bit.
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buddhagames;1188.8559;8 wrote:
Do you see why that text you just wrote down is NOT what you want to send?

It is not because it's lacking creativity or humor or pizzazzz.... it has all of that. What you are lacking is movement and intent in your texting. You are spinning the wheels with this one. You focused so much on making it funny that you basically sound like me in that podcast with konstantine, just finding 9 different ways to say the same shit and getting nowhere.

Yes absolutely correct.
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@ItsMario:
I think I see what you mean, the text I wrote up. I pretended to try and move it forward. I through out a question but than completely overshadowed it in the joky, funny stuff. This allows for her to just address that part of the message rather than really moving the conversation toward the meet up. As if I never even asked the question.

what about this new text.

Me: This big wheeler is staring me in the face looking pristine. It's saying Ride Me. Ride Me. WHERE ARE YOU.

I think this moves thing forward to get a response than start talking about logistics in the next few texts to getting a meet up. Is it better? Went from might be getting a big wheeler to having one etc. Focusing more on the meet up. I gotta feeling of adding a =p, emoticon too it, but it felt weaker.
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@ItsMario:

NO

That does NOT move things forward. it's still sitting in the old frame of joking around.

Get fucking REAL with this bitch about meeting up... Stop being scared of her rejecting you and pull the fuckin trigger.
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buddhagames;1188.8562;8 wrote:
@ItsMario:

NO

That does NOT move things forward. it's still sitting in the old frame of joking around.

Get fucking REAL with this bitch about meeting up... Stop being scared of her rejecting you and pull the fuckin trigger.

That's a great text Mario but Buddha is right. Pull the trigger
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@buddhagames:
Name, whats' your schedule looking like this week. Is that what you mean? Just lay it on the floor no more hahaha but find out logistics and snipe it.
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@ItsMario:
You can still be playful but yes along those lines.
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@Manwhore:
Name. I've got a big wheeler staring me in the face looking pristine. What's your schedule looking like this week

Is that what you mean. I'm trying to cut out more of the playfulness and upping more of the intent. Trying to figure out, how much playfulness is too much and overshadows your intent and main point.
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@ItsMario:

Yeah, solid. I'd prob send somethin like this:

lmao, what's your schedule lookin like this week, beb?

Okay- this is something I actually want feedback on though, so don't go just off of this.

I really REALLY like separating my shit out.

Like rotating from that funny, aewsome side and then just SNAPPING in an instant to business...

So the "lmao" acknowlledges the thread that's been going on and allows you to cut to, "What's your schedule lookin like" without it being too weird/abrupt.

And I like settin it up like this because then once you get a response, your ENTIRE next text can be "joke + hangout" and you don't have to clutter it with anything else.
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@buddhagames:

Also- when you do text for the hangout- make your humor something that you will be doing TOGETHER...

Does that make sense?

Like instead of the whole, "I got a.... starin me in the face" so let's hang out

Do somethin like this instead

"awesome, well I'll pick you up and we can take the truck out for a spin- unless of course you're afraid of a lil dirt ; b"

somethin like that... idk if that humor is solid enough but you get the picture.
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@buddhagames:
^ That's cool but is a little too much off the intent topic. I think the lmao thing is legit and should probably be tested more. It's got validity it's just if it's got enough to overcome the fact you're giving up legitimately funny content. If it's me I prefer the funniness because I actually enjoy it and am that goofy. And don't try to tell me you don't like to blab your lips more too.
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@Manwhore:

Yeah, I like the funnyness too... but what I like about the "lmao + logistics" is that it's a single text that just switches shit up for a moment... and then the VERY next text- your RIGHT BACK to being funny again....

Sorta just shows her that you can take a break from the goofball vibe for a moment, in order to take care of business.

I've done it a few times but I will purposely start testing it in a specific effort to see how solid it really is.

Also- with texts, I feel like once she responds to a text, the humor has accomplished its goal, in the sense that she is going to have the emotion from that text. So, as long as you give her a chance to respond to a high value text.... I'm not sure if you're actually taking anything away from the humor by switching the NEXT text up- what do you think?
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Ya sure
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@Manwhore:
Thank you for unintentionally (but because you're you... I know it WAS, at least, in the back of your mind) highlighting my inability to be concise.

I lol'd when I saw your response.
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I just laughed at something a girl said as I was applying baby powder to my balls. Which caused them to scrunch up closer to my abdomen. So when I went to slap/apply the baby powder to them, I had a bad day.
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@Manwhore:

Yeah. That's a bad day.
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