Should I pay or should she pay? What to do in these situations
So I have a strict rule of not paying for everything ont he first date/hang out/whatever. I'll do 50% at most. If she's broke, we can do a walk on the park or Mickey D's (yes I'm a cheap bastard and she needs to fucking deal with it. I'm not her sugar daddy unless she lets me bust a nut on her face).
How do you handle it when you make plans with a girl and she says you are paying? I never make a big fuss out of it. Maybe sometimes make a funny remark but I want to know how the more experienced gents handle it.
Are you broke?
So if a girl tells me I'm going to take her to dinner and pay for it I'll probably call her a "low-grade prostitute". Been there, done that
However, when it comes to "dates", what I do (and this is the BEST advice out there on this subject), is I will pay for the lions share of whatever it is we're doing, but I will delegate things to her to pay for. E.g. if I take her out for drinks, she will pay for pool, or video games. This way I'm taking care of any potential awkward "who pays for what", I've answered gracefully the whole male/feminist argument by just handling it, AND, I've forced her to invest and gotten AHEAD of the game by doing so. Making a girl pay for something, or bring something on your date is HUGE
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
I'm not broke, although I like pretend like I am lol.
So if we just go out for a bite, just make her pay for the drinks?
If you go out for a "bite" the drinks will be the most expensive part dude.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Where do you go out to eat? A bite is at least 5 -15 bucks each around here.
A soda is 2 at most.
I assumed the drinks were alcoholic, pussy.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Well you are what you eat, amirite? 
Most girls I go out with don't drink (alcoholic drinks) much anyways (if at all).
Lol like Manwhore said, make them pay for something. That's usually my M.O. too
Examples:
Going out for drinks - "I got this round, you get the next one..."
Going to a movie - "I'll pay for your movie but you need to buy some munchies at the store girl..."
Going to dinner - This one is tricky. I prefer to make girls dinner at my place. That way, I tell them to bring ingreidients I "conveniently" forgot to buy OR tell them to get a bottle of wine.
Yeah G-Money's making them pay even more. Equality!!!
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Glad we're focused on the important shit.
If you give from a place of warmth where your energy is projecting outwards, the girl will feel so HONORED to have you be gettin her shit, that she will literally come acrooss as stifled.
Glad we're focused on the important shit.If you give from a place of warmth where your energy is projecting outwards, the girl will feel so HONORED to have you be gettin her shit, that she will literally come acrooss as stifled.
LOL
hahaha I wass drunk doin some work at the office when I wrote that and apologize for nothing.