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It's funny, I'm on my path and purpose, hustling 24/7, feeling like a boss and sticking to my principles. I know what the right way to be and how to think is yet...

I can't shake the neediness and craving for validation. I try my best not to think about women unless I'm hitting the field, I don't watch much pua related content YET..,

Im still so thirsty. I can't help but want to fuck and pursue women. It's like a disease I get excited and needy and I just have to fucking go get the girls. I can't just lean back and be a high value guy who girls chase for validation, I get bored and feel empty when I'm not forcing shit to happen. I'm like "So like this lame ass just acting like I don't want to fuck her is what so called "high value" men do?"

In this day and age, anything but being completely free of outcome isn't going to be good enough for these hotter women, who have such an abundance of better guys than me to pick from it's absurd. 

I meditate and listen to Tolle and I think to myself "This isn't fun, I feel empty" 

Do I need psychological help? I think I maybe have a deeper issue than I know about. I literally feel like a crackhead when I'm around a hot woman 

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Lmao...bro as much as you

Lmao...bro as much as you talk like your game is crazy. Which btw compared to the average dude you're definitely better, there are still glaring blind spots in the shit you type out.

Especially that pimp bs, some of the concepts are good but flawed. In so far as where I can tell they're coming from.

You don't need psychological help. Get the training.

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Yeah I got that pimp stuff

Yeah I got that pimp stuff from some guy on RSDN who was typing that bullshit out and it brought me back to some stuff I've seen and I bought into it lol 

​I never said my game was crazy lol. I admitted several times my game sucks. I just was enthusiastic and trying to get my thoughts together by typing it out here. 

​Oh well. Yeah, I'm putting money into my hustle right now but when I got some left over cash that I can throw here I'll throw it here ASAP. My money comes before getting sick game. 

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You haven't listened to Tolle

You haven't listened to Tolle the way we were advising you in the thread

"I know what the right way to be and how to think is yet..."

And yet you feel empty? Is that really the right way to be then? Why do you know, where did these thoughts originate. Question your own programming harder

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As far as RSDN goes

As far as RSDN goes yeah...Lol

You really gotta discriminate the source you're taking seriously.

One of the game groups I'm in here in Toronto recently had one guy start killing it at the club

Then he starts going off on game rants about how he breaks up with girls the moment he's not in control to get them to chase and tried to play it off as him giving them emotions...Lol

Suffice to say what a shit head and all these noobies in the group started eating it up because of how much authority he was speaking with coupled with him flashing pics of girls at this booth.

Is he getting results? Technically. Is he creating a whole bunch of guilt, resentment and sticking points for himself in the future? Resounding yes.

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I don't know if that guy is

I don't know if that guy is wrong though. If I did more of that I'd probably have better game. I think I'm too validating sometimes. 



​The problem with me is very woman specific, and I know I'm not alone in this feeling. I just get so needy for sex and validation when I'm WITH hot

​women. When I'm hustling, working out, chilling with friends, I don't fucking care, but when a woman passes by I just HAVE to try to fuck her,

​and it's off putting and low value to the hotter girls, because I'm clearly not good enough for them yet, at least in their eyes.

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He's incredibly wrong. Why

He's incredibly wrong.

Why are you scared to validate girls

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I used to not be. About 5

I used to not be. About 5 months ago they stopped responding well to it, I think social media has something to do with. Validation from me doesn't mean shit to them anymore, they have many other high status

​guys at their finger tips now who don't validate them. They want to chase. They don't want it to be easy. Likes and Right swipes in abundance caused this shit.

​Therefore, I don't validate them because they simply lose interest when I do. Thats the only reason why I don't do is as often anymore, and it's working, but my neediness fucks it up sometimes.

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So you were validating girls

So you were validating girls before because it "worked" ?

And now that it doesn't "work" anymore you hold back

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Exactly. IT still works on

Exactly. IT still works on lower quality chicks who think I'm cute or whatever. At a certain level the ability to hold back is PARAMOUNT. You know this man. 

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Exactly. IT still works on

Exactly. IT still works on lower quality chicks who think I'm cute or whatever. At a certain level the ability to hold back is PARAMOUNT. You know this man. 

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I figured it out. I'm

I figured it out. I'm assuming that I HAVE to fucking devalidate women instead of doing what actually works, which is love myself a hell of a lot more and exude more confidence, then I know exactly what to do. I'm sweating some petty ass shit right now. 

​Me thinking I don't have "high value guy game" is fucking setting up a barrier between me and the girls. Whats NOT high value is thinking I'm not good enough to get the damn girl,

​having to pretend I'm not trying to get the girl etc. Thats weak.

​Rejecting myself. Whack. I gotta hit the field. 

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Bro one thing I have noticed

Bro one thing I have noticed is that you seem to bounce around from one of these kicks or ideas to another at like hyperdrive speed man. We all want to be great at this but almost every time you post it goes from one 911 fire to a totally different one. I'm in no way qualified or knowledgeable enough to tell you if you need help lol, but what I can tell you is that I've struggled with anxiety my whole life. It manifests itself in different ways for everyone... Anger, guilt, sadness, fear, OCD etc. it also speeds you up so your mind is constantly bouncing from one extreme to another. 

i really think you should work on figuring out how to calm yourself down and not worry as much. It's still a daily struggle for me as well, but by doing stuff on my own (proper nutrition, lifting, yoga, clean as hell diet) and combining that with a ton of things that MW teaches I have come a long way. I think you would see a lot of benefit

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You don't get it, your ego is

Superb, technically yes that's right. You're missing the big picture though, your ego is still running the show.

You're trying to grasp presence with your mind which defeats the purpose.

What good is talking about self love or presence when the way you're going about it will stop you from truly experiencing these things.

Go listen to Eckhart again nigga

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Bruh... you haven’t done any

Bruh... you haven’t done any of the prescriptions recommended long enough for you to come to any sort of conclusion like this. 

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My advice to you

My advice to you superb...

Just admit you know nothing. BC you don’t know anything. 

Keep approaching girls and challenging yourself until you get enough money to get training. 

Attend the church of eckhart tolle

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What else are you involved in

What else are you involved in Superb? Seems like you need to detach a bit, you're taking all of this way too serious man. Keep on doing what you're doing, but get involved in some other stuff too. Ease up on it all.

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I'm into martial arts and

I'm into martial arts and hustling, art, music, drugs, booze, sex lol.

Yeah man I'm just so dedicated in everything that I do I really don't fuck around so I give it my best. 

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What sorts of collabs and

What sorts of collabs and synergy do you make with other people? Have anything to do with your art, music or drugs? 

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Too much hustle can be

Too much hustle can be unhealthy. Tolle is the way man but I get if you don’t understand it yet. Took me 2-3yrs to actually get it down and it took some shock factor to finally understand it.

keep doing what you’re doing and tbh, one day a moment in your life will unlock this for you so to speak. The fact that you’re on that path is enough. You’ll figure this out. I know this cause all it takes is balls. You got that going for you.

No you don’t need therapy. You’re a healthy guy, you just need perspective my friend. And to relax and learn to smell the roses. Gratitude and appreciation

fuck em then i get some money

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Well to be honest these past

Well to be honest these past couple of days have been huge. Thank you everyone for your words. 

Hey Manwhore, to be honest man people like me, I have synergy everywhere I go but I put limits on it because I don't want to get too close to people. I don't trust anyone so i have some walls up, people definitely are drawn to me because I can be very free and open and charismatic but I'm also a bit wounded and shit so I kind of reject others because when I open up people try to take advantage. I don't think that in itself is a problem but what's actually a problem is how personal I take certain affronts to my ego. 

The reason im so driven is my ego. The problem is I get angry and violent with people who I perceive to be trying to one up me. Even girls. Like I'm JUST NOW learning that when a girl talks shit to you you're not supposed to smack the shit out of her, not because of the cops or morality but because if she takes you out of your zone you're not demonstrating Evolutionary Fitness aka you're not an Alpha Male. Why? Because women aren't PREDATORS in the way that mammoths, tigers and other tribes are. That's why it's fine to beat guys up if they diss you, girls you only check them hard if they really violate a boundary. Having a boundary of "You can't talk to me like this girl SMACK" when she's only shit testing you is ridiculous. Most of what comes out of a woman's mouth is just material to verbally and energetically twist to your desired outcome with her, not  actual offenses to your manhood.

Basically my main problem is I'm bitter and reactive towards other humans. Rather than dominant and proactive. 

Art I don't really like doing with other people because I don't care about their work lol, I definitely love music and can talk about it and write it with my friends, As far as drugs I do cocaine with my pals lol. So yeah there is synergy. I'm gonna quit the coke I been doing it every week lately and every day this week, and it kind of makes me reactive. I haven't done it in like 18 hours. I get the coke for free too which is horrible, if I had to spend on it I would skip on it lol. 

Coke makes me feel what I feel when I have women in my life sadly lol, so I have been using it to deal with the dry spell. It's also helping me lose the weight faster along with my diet. 

I gotta let go of this bitterness and hate toward other humans. I just look at how things are in the world and what people have done to me and those I love and I sink into myself in extreme hatred. 

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