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Was hitting up this chick and she got frustrated when I told her that if she didn't want to chill it was cool, but she should tell me directly.

A bit of a backstory, met her at school, been chatting up her and her friend. Invited both of them out but her friend said she isn't down, thought it was weird so I asked her about it and she got upset I didn't ask her about it initially, I ended up making other plans after her friend said she was out.

Long story short, I apologized to her and explained what happened but she's been radio silent and is giving me the silent treatment. At this point I've apologized and explained what happened but no luck...

How do you guys deal with the silent treatment? Just leave it and let her message you or wait it out and reengage? This is a first for me.

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What exactly did you

What exactly did you apologize for? 

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You are apologizing to this

You are apologizing to this girl, for inviting her and her friend out with you?...

This literally may be the chodiest post I've read this year

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Dude, that's a lot of

Dude, that's a lot of apologizing your doing... I'm confused. 

The invited her and her friend out with you

She gets mad

You apologize

??

Reading this post made me mad dude. Just sayin

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I apologized for making her

I apologized for making her friend uncomfortable. Apparently I did things when we last hung out that made her uncomfortable and what not but I thought about it and cut these girls off. Not worth the drama or time. I didn't really do anything wrong, so I'm not going to cater to them being childish.

I didn't make the girl I was gaming uncomfortable but her friend was uncomfortable. Just to clarify, so there is no real reason for her to be angry. I cut her off when she broke silent treatment though.

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whats the deal with girls

whats the deal with girls getting pissed of or not acting cool man? i never get that

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No way this is fucking

No way this is fucking nonsense. He should never have apologized in the first place. If this bitch hasn't given you anything you are a FAGGOT for responding the way you did. I'm trying to stay off your ass Grappler but you're acting like a cockface. You fail mang. 

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I truthfully didn't think I

I truthfully didn't think I did anything wrong. But apparently her friend was really uncomfortable with what I did (took her friend and hooked up with her in front of her lol) so I apologized for that and that was all then I dropped it. Eventually she re-engaged and said it wasn't my fault but I didn't feel like talking to her. I wasnt in the wrong and you're right, I shouldn't have apologized in the first place. Didn't really go badly since she came back but now I don't care for her.

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