This situation seems complicated.

My father goes to a clinic regularly. On occasion I join him. I went in one day and talked briefly with the director and a nurse taking care of him.

Weeks after that my dad starts to mention that one of the nurses wants to meet me. I disregard.

Then a few days later he gives me a medical bandage packet on which the nurse wrote her full name so that I may look her up. (?)

So obviously there had been talk about me at the clinic. I asked my dad what he said. He says they just asked how old I was and then the nurse that now wants to meet asks, "How is he?" and the nurse I had talked to weeks earlier says, "Gorgeous." Feels good EXCEPT for the fact that:

I have no experience at all.

I haven't ever had a real girlfriend.

I have been on one thing that could even be called a date and it was a double date.

I don't interact with girls almost ever.

Also virgin.

(My circumstances are weird but I'll go into them if you guys want.)

Anyway, I looked her up. She is attractive. So what I know of her:

Attractive

Good job

Has shown a very distinct initiative in trying to meet (I think this is pretty rare. What type of girl does this?)

So I just don't even do anything for a few days and then my dad talks to me again saying that they are asking him why I haven't gone to the clinic.

I sent her a message on Facebook (which I don't really use-no pictures of myself) saying something like the following:

"Hi [girl's name]. I am getting the feeling that you are a particular type of girl." (Not those exact words but the message is very similar)

I'm not really looking for specifics on what to say, I'm looking for the type of mindset you guys would assume in this type of situation. Like what type of girl does what she did? If you have an answer for that- how do you interact with that type of girl? I'll update with more whenever she responds.