Small town game
What's your question about small town game?
How do you date multiple chicks in a 30K town where everyone knows each others. Im visiting fam in south america and the girls here do get emotionally invested (if you fuck) quicker than say, English girls. Should i just not care?
Ah I totally didn't follow the question the first time. Lol.
Well here's the deal.. you do have to go to where the women are at if you want consistent women in your life, no matter where you happen to be from. When I was living in Radcliffe, Kentucky I would drive an hour away to Louisville to be able to meet women. I did the drive multiple times a week even though I dated multiple girls that lived in town. That being said when I was living on a base with 15,000 other soldiers with a male to female ratio of about 1,000,000,000:1 I still managed to slay 3 out of the 4 hotties that worked on base. So yeah technical skill definitely still gets you there. In fact it makes you stick out extremely effectively.
Most men make excuses for not getting laid on bad logistics. In one form or another. Whether because they say their city happens to be ugly, or there's a bad male:female ratio, or every girl they meet has a boyfriend or is bitchy or is not attracted to their race, etc. But they're all bullshit rationalizations.
It sounds to me like what's happening is you're having to enter boyfriend realm / use "boyfriend game" to get laid or fulfill your needs with women. If you're not looking to be forced into a level of commitment you don't want from them then you simply have to improve your game. Duh. There is plenty of sex out there for "free". "Boyfriend game" is very low level game. Every dude needs to improve their ability to actually SEDUCE women. It's a lost skill and a latent ability all men have and are meant to develop. Skip the boyfriend shit, it's not natural, it's not genuine, and it's an attempt to bypass REAL man to woman dynamics.
Papaya how are typical interactions progressing with these girls?
I have been here before so i have hooked up with a couple chicks here in the past.
Ive been quite busy and also caught a cold and only went out once so far...
This chick was like a sexy dancing godess and all the guys were pretty much dancing like crazy with her and when I stepped in she first told me she has a boyfriend or something like that and rejected my make out like 3 times. Then as soon as we got into the car she jumped on me lol. Been talking a little over facebook and she wants to see me again.
I have this other chick that i met when i was younger aswell who is from the US but also visits fam here. I only met her like twice, years ago and she is interested in meeting up aswell just havent had the chance yet. Actually she went on and became a stripper in the US lol.
And then i have like 4 more girls ive been talking to that i could hook up with but i'm not that interested to go on dates and shit with them. Ive fucked one of them but now were more like friends. Actually she is like my only female friend over here, and i have tried to fuck her best friend aswell but i pulled twice with no sex :(
Maybe i'll just invite them to get some beers but then again, in this country the guy has to pay for everything and im kind of broke after travel expenses
Hey man looks like you're doing pretty well haha. Nice.
I am also in a relatively small town at the moment. Aside from just going to a bigger place, you can try to look at the positives of being in a small town.
Besides friends, I meet girls that I kissed, dated, banged all the time when I go out and it can be a great source of social value. Also it means that the hotties are usually in 5 or 6 places in town
cos there's not that much diversity... well the one's that go out anyways. There seems to be a shit-ton of hot girls in the library... I don't know if they look extra hot cos they read but goddam!
If you use the small town thing to your advantage... you can create a reputation. maybe even a slightly 'bad' one ;)
I totally fall into blaming logistics for my own bullshit inner comfort too. Scaling down a small town, we have a club. Lots of people, myself included will change clubs or go somewhere else when the venue is not full/ the man-woman ration is bad. Except I didn't even approach the girls that were actually there.
Yeah i'm not trying to go to a bigger place, i like it here and there are plenty of girls ;)
But i'm wondering more how you handle it when you're out with a chick and see 3 other girls that you've hooked up with before, or her local jealous guys. I got sucked punched here once for talking to some chicks lol.
When i was out last week i met the chick that i pulled twice but didn't fuck and she was very onto me and wanted me to follow her to another venue, but i just kindly ignored her when she and said i'm with my friends so she said "okay i'll wait for you over there". And she was friends with the girl i've hooked up with later that night lol. If she hadn't left i would probbly have gotten heavily cock blocked...
Lol ok so you guys are dealing specifically with how to deal with other girls you're hooking up with when out with other girls? Ha!
Small town I would guess is like college game. Be social, flirt but not be so stuck on closing same day because you know you'll see them again. Social proof. Invite people out, have parties at your house or a friend's. Once you've banged a couple of girls without going into boyfriend dynamics it will get around and girls will start being more actively engaged and interested in sleeping with you. Just make sure you keep it discrete so other girls feel comfortable with the idea of sleeping with you
How would you deal with a girl that has a boy friend in a small town?
I've kept in touch with this chick since years ago but she has a boy friend now. I'm sure she still wants to meet up but it's a bit complicated because if we're seen together everybody will know about it in one minute so she will probably flake on me. Can't take her directly home either since i'm staying at my aunts place. If i had a car i would pick her up and take her to the woods but i don't...
What would you guys do? I am already seeing 2 other girls right now but i want this girl more... I'm also leaving in 3 weeks so i don't want to miss this opportunity
Lol I would not be so greedy and "me me me!" The fact you can't even post the necessary logistics and contextual information so we could actually help you adequately speaks to that. You're staying with auntie? Why don't you rent your own place?
I don't mean to slam you mang, I just want you to see yourself in the greater context. Where's the girl's interests in this? If you can't give concrete details on this girl wanting to bang you on the side and then go about her life with no repercussions that's one thing, but ALL you've detailed is how helpless you are in this situation and how CLEARLY this can't happen without consequences for her. Lol