SNL but couldn't get it up - what should I text her?

@nickogilvie:
Send her something from the text database on the main site. The zoo security guard one works well. Your issue really isn't figuring out what magic text to send, you need to fix this sexual anxiety issue.

@Manwhore:

Thanks for the fast reply. Okay I sent out the zoo text, let see if she replies.

I know I need to fix the sexual anxiety issue, but do you think I blew it with this girl? Does she think I'm a total fag?

@nickogilvie:
Yo dude don't trip it happens to the best of us and has Happened to me. If you watch porn I would highly suggest stopping. I had a hefty porn addiction and it ruins your brain nuerochemistry and makes it so you can get it up over time. Took me about a year to recover. Yourbrainonporn.com if that is the case. That site literally changed my life, also don't masterbate for a month and see if you can't get it up then.... :p

@nickogilvie:


That YouBrainOnPorn thing seems so fucking dumb. Not being able to get it up isn't because of any porn your watching. Your either a phaggot or nervous.

Double post

Your brain on porn thing is real. I recovered from having dick problems by quitting porn.

Edit: I had ED when banging a girl who is in one of my most recent threads a few months ago. I didn't bust a nut either and I've had those problems since I was 15. After having ED with that girl I decided enough was enough so I quit porn. I'm young and she has a nice body so there's really no reason for me not to have a boner and have to resort to viagra to bang her. After like a month or 2 of no porn or masturbating I was able to bust a nut with her. I haven't watched porn in like 4-5 months and now when I see and talk to girls I feel more attracted than I did before. It feels good, the porn desensitized me I think, just like it says in the yourbrainonporn.com videos.

I remember reading on the website how healthy 15 year olds shouldn't have ed. That motivated me because I thought that perhaps I had some kind of medical issue that was wrong with me and the solution wouldn't be so simple. This was a really big deal to me.

More recently I busted a nut during a blowjob which I previously only done a couple times in my life.

Also I was able to keep a boner with a condom on. Previously couldn't.

@nickogilvie:
Yes to put it nicely I'm sure this is going to be a very uphill battle.

Were you hammered or on any drugs like adderall or e? Assuming youre not, just chill out lol. Chill out on masturbating and enjoy the girl.

@nickogilvie:

Text her:"soooory, ur just a fat whore that sucks small dicks, thats why i couldnt get it up. Sooo what are u up to this friday? :)"

My masterpiece!

@chinaboy:

lol

but no.

@Manwhore:

Thanks Manwhore! Looks like your zoo text did elicit a response, but she seems to be blowing me off. Here is the convo (no response yet from my dinner request at the end):

Me: I miss you & wanna see u, but this dumb security guard won’t let me in the zoo. Is there any way u can escape?
Foreign-chick: What??? Sorry, Who r you??
Me: Nick from clubxyz. You foreigners have a short memory :-)
Foreign-chick: Nooo! I have a good memory, but I didn't have your number yet :p and your message sounded me very strange haha I'm studying now and Isn't it too late for
Foreign-chick: u being at zoo? Lol sorry but today I can't leave my home anymore...maybe another day! ;) good night x
Me: Wednesday. 6pm. Dinner.

What next?

In my personal opinion ur last text to her was a retarded move. Feel so lazy to explain right now though.

@nickogilvie:
She wasn't blowing you off that was quite a lengthy response. You always run proper game anyways. Yes last text was strange

@Manwhore:

Damn I suck. What's my next move?

@nickogilvie:

Nah you dont suck. To take away that performance anxiety you need to chill and not care about the outcome. If you effed her and were horrible in bed you need to keep confident. Doesn't matter. If you send some retarded text it's not the end of the world. Someone else should be able to put that better but now.. Do you understand why that last text was bad? Look at that little Convo objectively.

You: funny, slightly accusatory text that also qualified her and told her you wanted to see her without being a pussy
Her: confused. Seemed legit though, was that your first text to her? But regardless that was probably the best text she's ever gotten or at least a rare one lol
You: Its me you dumb dumb! Playful an framing you as high value
Her: Qualified yourself to you, played along with your zoo text, apologized for being busy that day even though you actually didn't invite her out. Said you guys can go out another time and said goodnight.
You: LET'S GO OUT WEDNESDAY

Came out of nowhere and wasn't in the same wavelength as the rest of the convo. Doesn't really make sense and kinda seemed needy like you were compensating and trying to be assertive and alpha

@icewahine:

Thanks so much for breaking it down for me. Yes this was my first text to her, but I left her a voicemail with my phone number the day before and she never called me back. So I'm not sure why she acted like she didn't have my number.

Any ideas for the next text?

@Sick-Cunt:

So any ideas on how to proceed?

Just reengage her (text her again). Don't do something boring like "whats up" you need something good. If you happen to use something from the database then make sure it fits in with the vibe you had with the girl in real life. And only use it if its something you could see yourself saying in real life to a girl.

Then you just gotta be value giving (don't go interview mode and take value from her). Be playful and have fun texting her, let her see who you are and what you are about. Tell her about things you love to do. Then once you got her comfortable you can go for the meetup again.

When you go for the meetup overhype it. Make it sound better than it is. Make it an adventure you two can go on.

@Sick-Cunt:

Alright fellas, this was my pitiful attempt to re-engage her (background is I'm attending a convention):

Me: OMG this speech is so booorrring. I need a lap dance from a sexy latina to wake me up ;p

No response after 4 hours. I'm thinking this exchange (much like my dick) is limp.

Any final words of advice before I give up on this one?

There may be other possibilities why she aint answering but something I was thinking is that maybe since you couldn't get it up to fuck her she just thought
you were a little chode who was wasting her time and don't want to deal with you anymore.