So Guys, I Proposed!

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Tue, 03/04/2014 - 01:55

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I walked up to this bachelorette party and started talking to them. They already had plans that night--pre-booked package deal--and the group leader started walking away. One of the girls asked me if I could help her out with a scavenger hunt that they were doing. She had a card in her hand and a fake diamond ring. She asked me if I would propose to her.

As someone who plans on never getting married, I resisted this ritual, but she was cute and seemed like a nice girl. Its weird that I'm expected to physically lower myself in front of her and look up at her while asking to her to enter into a legally binding, perpetual contract --in which I surrender almost all of my power--with me while offering her an expensive gift--like a bribe or a payment. That aside, since I was participating in make believe, it was a fun experience and I'm glad I did it.

So, when she first asked me to propose to her I deflected and talked about something else while walking with her. Her group leader was trying to leave, so I stopped the girl I was with and she asked me again. I locked eyes with her and said, "Ok." She said she liked my beard and asked if she could touch it. Usually I say "No" immediately, but this girl asked nicely and besides, we were practically married.

She enjoyed touching my beard and we were in a little love bubble until her friends jumped in and demanded that we do the proposal. So we were standing in a place in the hotel with lots of foot traffic, and I stood facing her right in the center of the area. I slowly dropped to one knee as I was looking up at her.

Now at this point in my life I've done at least a thousand approaches, so I don't get approach anxiety. Whatever feeling there is--like if I'm approaching a total knockout--translates more as excitement rather than anxiety. As I dropped to my knee, people stopped to watch. By the time I said the words, "Will you marry me?" there were 30 people watching us.

With everyone watching, and because of what I was doing, I actually felt anxious and nervous. My hands were shaking, my face and scalp felt like they were on fire, and I'm guessing my voice cracked but I don't remember.

I said, "Will you marry me?" and she didn't answer. She looked completely overcome with emotion. I asked her again, and still nothing. The tension was too much for me, so I said "Say yes..say Yes..SAY YES!" while her friends basically did the same thing. She finally said "Yes!" and I jumped up swooping her into the air and spun us both around. As I swooped her, she latched onto me like a scared baby monkey.

Her friends and the crowd burst into cheers and applause. After I set her down we had a second to enjoy each other before her friends grabbed her and dragged her away. I didn't grab her number before she was taken from me because I was too overwhelmed, and it took me several minutes to compose myself. Its too bad because she would have been good to go after that proposal.

Tue, 03/04/2014 - 03:53

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UGHH. You got played. Only do

UGHH. You got played.

Only do it on YOUR terms. And what the hell?! Fuck the gay down on one knee proposal thing. Shoulda skipped to the wedding and kissed her lol

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Tue, 03/04/2014 - 06:17

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Infinity wrote: UGHH. You got

Infinity wrote:

UGHH. You got played.

Only do it on YOUR terms. And what the hell?! Fuck the gay down on one knee proposal thing. Shoulda skipped to the wedding and kissed her lol

i think you're missing the point. I wrote this post to share a powerful experience with you guys. I guess I wasn't clear about this, but I made her ask me three times, and I ignored her the first time and straight up said "No" the second time.

Tue, 03/04/2014 - 06:37

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Haha that's pretty awesome

Tue, 03/04/2014 - 07:53

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He didn't make it clear that

He didn't make it clear that basically what happened is this girl EXPERIENCED being proposed to, and saying YES. It was a big moment for her, she probably came close to having an orgasm on the spot, her friend knew this too and that's why she dragged her off before she got on her knees (both of them) and began profusely sucking his cock. Yeah he left out some details

She will never forget this experience.

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Tue, 03/04/2014 - 09:03

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Love it!

Tue, 03/04/2014 - 18:15

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Ah I see. I thought she got

Ah I see. I thought she got what she wanted and took off with her bachelorette scavenger party. I was like what a bitch.

Yeah like I said, the whole husband thing is killer. That's a really good example of how and why it works. She had a fake proposal that ended up being a real connection. You got to experience how friggin hard some girls hook to it.

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