So you want to be a nice guy? Well it's not what you think..

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Fri, 01/10/2014 - 12:07

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A couple years back I broke into Michael Jackson's cemetery with a girl. We were going to get naughty on his gravestone. We didn't know if we'd find it or not 'cuz it was a big place, but we wanted to do the dew while Michael supervised. It was a really good idea, not that it worked out that way, but it was the thought that counted ;) So we’re looking for a place to get down just nonchalantly wandering through this HUGE cemetery, and we come upon a big statue of the virgin Mary holding baby Jesus. I lead her towards it, holding her hand, and then throw her hand in the direction of the grass and tell her to get on her knees like a good little girl. She complies and I take my dick out and stick it in her mouth while telling her to suck it. She obliges and I began ramming her little mouth while whispering all kinds of sexual profanities at her. I tell her she's going to get more cock than she can handle and to keep her mouth open because I'm going to take as long as I want. I tell her she is a good little slut and I enjoy fucking her little mouth and maybe if she is good I will give her lots of cum to swallow. I also let her know what I think of her sucking skills, and how much of a little slut she is for doing this in front of the virgin Mary. Halfway through we get interrupted by a security truck making its rounds through the cemetery. I tell her stop and push her off my dick. We get on the other side of the statue. Once it passes I get us back on track, “Get back over here little whore and keep sucking it.” She'd been a bit disconcerted by the security truck passing through but gleefully scampers over and starts sucking it again. A minute or so later I explode in her mouth and she swallows. We decide that's the extent of our lawbreaking activities and book it out of there. I climb over the gate first, then help her up and over and then back down on the other side. Later on I hear about how she told all her friends how sweet I am, because I helped her climb down from the gate. Apparently I was very gentle and considerate.

Back when I was stationed in Kentucky I used to run around with this hot little lithe half-german half-puerto rican girl. One night we went out and took one of her friends with us. We'd been talking about looking for another girl to have a threesome with, but this girl was off limits because of her bff status. Well I didn't really care too much either way so after dancing with my girl for a bit the three of us grab a table and I sit in the middle. I take her friend's hand and put it on my dick and she starts squeezing my cock through my pants a bit. Then I take my girl's hand and put it on my dick too but a bit higher up. So they're both lightly massaging my cock 'n balls and I'm just chilling back enjoying the experience. Then their hands meet in the middle and they both realize they've been giving me a handjob. They simultaneously both whisk their hands away and that's that. I just pretend nothing happened. Later on I go get the car and drive it around to the front of the club, they both scamper out from the club and jump in. They both exclaim how sweet and considerate I am and that I'm a real gentleman.

Being "nice" does not count, unless you've first established high status. You must FIRST be a boss, and only then are you considered for "nice guy" status. Otherwise you're the other kind of "nice guy". That kind of nice is synonymous with "bitch".

The crooners and love ballad dudes.. the singers/actors that girls seem to love.. what they've got going for them in the "romance" department isn't the BULK of the attraction mechanism, it's the icing on top. The crooning that drives women wild is in SPITE of their masculinity.. it's the antithesis that gets women going nuts. It's the yin to the yang. And that's why girls appreciate it so much. But if the hardcore masculinity wasn't there, well there wouldn't be a basis for the attraction at ALL. However most guys misconstrue this and think the "romance" paradigm is the WHOLE attraction paradigm. This is so far from the truth.

If you refuse to believe this, or close your eyes to it, then you are in for a world of pain and confusion and hurt.

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Fri, 01/10/2014 - 16:31

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Cool article

Fri, 01/10/2014 - 21:25

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This is a sick post. Great

This is a sick post. Great illustration of the Boss/Daddy concept. I see my friends fuck this up so much. One of the mistakes I used to make when I first started, was to overcompensate one way or the other. I've lost girls a few times because I wasn't "nice guy" when it was appropriate.

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Fri, 01/10/2014 - 22:37

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Infinity, are you talking

Infinity, are you talking about over "gaming"?

i think most guys that frequent PUA content are guilty of this a lot of the time until they finally realize it. There's a certain "aha" moment when you just naturally let things flow and see success. I think it all revolves around ego. Loving the fact that you can make a girl extremely attracted > ACTUALLY FUCKING HER for the majority of guys.

Fri, 01/10/2014 - 22:45

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we know this, and still we

we know this, and still we make the same mistakes over and over and over...

Fri, 01/10/2014 - 22:53

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thetaker wrote: we know this,

thetaker wrote:

we know this, and still we make the same mistakes over and over and over...

the point is learning from your mistakes, preventing future mistakes, and becoming better at mitigating disaster after it occurs.

Fri, 01/10/2014 - 22:56

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G-Money wrote: Loving the

G-Money wrote:

Loving the fact that you can make a girl extremely attracted > ACTUALLY FUCKING HER for the majority of guys.

Truth. Including me. Not this year though.

Sat, 01/11/2014 - 02:27

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G-Money wrote: Infinity, are

G-Money wrote:

Infinity, are you talking about over "gaming"?

Yeah, but also life in general. I had a period a couple years before I even knew PUA existed, where I was just an out of control fuckin asshole. I had had one-itis with this chick for a long time and was SO sick of being the "nice guy." It wasn't working for me. After a few months, I was out at a club I got a phonecall from her crying and asking me to pick her up from her boyfriends (cuz I had been SUPER NICE CHODEY BEST FRIENDS WITH HER up till then). I actually did care a lot about this girl, so I went over there, no questions asked, shoved her butt in the car, punked the boyfriend, nearly beat his ass in a parking lot, and took her to my place and fucked her for the first time... next day I overheard her talking to her friend on the phone and she said something like, "I never knew he had that in him. OMG you should have seen it."

That was my first experience with this, even though it took pickup later on, to actually connect the dots.

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Sat, 01/11/2014 - 05:01

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^ Oh sweet she probably wet

^ Oh sweet she probably wet her panties

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Sun, 01/12/2014 - 00:53

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Infinity wrote:G-Money

Infinity wrote:

G-Money wrote:

Infinity, are you talking about over "gaming"?

Yeah, but also life in general. I had a period a couple years before I even knew PUA existed, where I was just an out of control fuckin asshole. I had had one-itis with this chick for a long time and was SO sick of being the "nice guy." It wasn't working for me. After a few months, I was out at a club I got a phonecall from her crying and asking me to pick her up from her boyfriends (cuz I had been SUPER NICE CHODEY BEST FRIENDS WITH HER up till then). I actually did care a lot about this girl, so I went over there, no questions asked, shoved her butt in the car, punked the boyfriend, nearly beat his ass in a parking lot, and took her to my place and fucked her for the first time... next day I overheard her talking to her friend on the phone and she said something like, "I never knew he had that in him. OMG you should have seen it."

That was my first experience with this, even though it took pickup later on, to actually connect the dots.

thats dope!

Ya know I wish I could say that I truly care about a girl right now, and I really havent for a long time lol. I've been living under a belief system that caring about girls is chodey, but of course like MW said, I can be nice and caring while still being a boss. Gotta start changing that

Sun, 01/12/2014 - 21:37

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Meow wrote: Ya know I wish I

Meow wrote:

Ya know I wish I could say that I truly care about a girl right now, and I really havent for a long time lol. I've been living under a belief system that caring about girls is chodey, but of course like MW said, I can be nice and caring while still being a boss. Gotta start changing that

If you're anything like me, you're probably doing it out of a "fuck this" attitude, because you had been "Mr. Nice Guy" and it was getting you nowhere. I don't know if any of you have read King, Warrior, Magician, Lover: Rediscovering the Archetypes of the Mature Masculine by Robert Moore and Douglas Gillette. Pretty excellent book. The best way I can describe my own progression is Jungian archetypes:

So Meow, in those terms, I think you're probably doing the same thing I was... working on a bipolar level, from weakling (nice guy) to tyrant (asshole) and eventually you'll have to transcend both and become "The King"... which is, in my interpretation, the archetypal representation of BOSS/DADDY.

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Mon, 01/13/2014 - 03:04

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Infinity wrote:Meow wrote:

Infinity wrote:

Meow wrote:

Ya know I wish I could say that I truly care about a girl right now, and I really havent for a long time lol. I've been living under a belief system that caring about girls is chodey, but of course like MW said, I can be nice and caring while still being a boss. Gotta start changing that

If you're anything like me, you're probably doing it out of a "fuck this" attitude, because you had been "Mr. Nice Guy" and it was getting you nowhere. I don't know if any of you have read King, Warrior, Magician, Lover: Rediscovering the Archetypes of the Mature Masculine by Robert Moore and Douglas Gillette. Pretty excellent book. The best way I can describe my own progression is Jungian archetypes:

So Meow, in those terms, I think you're probably doing the same thing I was... working on a bipolar level, from weakling (nice guy) to tyrant (asshole) and eventually you'll have to transcend both and become "The King"... which is, in my interpretation, the archetypal representation of BOSS/DADDY.

HAHA loving the graphics. Yeah you got me down, I've been on this forced douche escapade for too long now. Now that i'm getting chicks its actually hurting my game.

The amount of girls i've lost from the complete lack of not caring is unreal