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SOLID interaction but I don't know how to finish it off...

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Joined: 07/24/2012
Met this girl on tuesday, talked for 20-30 minutes had fun. WOULDN'T KISS though wtf? she said she was shy in front of her friends and I couldn't isolate. Whatever. Kept meaning to text her but forgot until this afternoon...

me: I just met you and this is crazy, but here's my number so call me maybe!
her: (20 min) hmm?
me: (10 min) I'm still waiting for that home cooking you were talking so much about
her: (2 min) I only make food for special people
me: (3 min) Well that works out perfectly then... should I just send you a list of my favourite things?
her: (15 min) You'll eat whatever I cook and you'll like it
me: (5 min) It better be fresh as fuck and no vegetarian nonsense either
her: (12 min) So demanding
me: (35 min) I'm going to keep them coming too
her: (30 seconds) That's fine, ill turn my phone on silent
me: (1 min) your diva mannerisms are cute
her: (1 min) I could say the same about you...But you're a guy
me: (2 min) I like to call it my masculine energy
her: (1 min) more like feminine
me: (1 min) ooh you're cruel muffinbottom
her: (1 min) some people are into that sort of thin
her: (2 min) ...muffinbottom?
me: (2 min) oh ya? you wouldn't happen to be be one of those people...
her: (20 min) what is a muffinbottom?
me: (5 min) It's a pet name sweetheart, would you prefer sugar lips?
her: (1 min) what else ya got?
me: (3 min) This isn't a buffet but...butter babe, cheeky monkey, hot mama, pudding head or tiger toes
her: (30 seconds) Absolutely not
her: (1 min) Where the hell did pudding head come in?
me: (1 min) produced that one just for you cuddle bunny
her: (3 min) Your imagination could use some tuning

how do I seal the deal on this one? I've gotten about 20 numbers in the past 10 days and haven't gotten a single day2. Obviously, a lot of work to be done but what can I do to get the meet up?
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Joined: 01/18/2012
Re: SOLID interaction but I don't know how to finish it off...
You're way too combative you're answering her frames with brute force not going with the flow and inching it closer to a meetup. This is an issue a lot of newb/intermediate guys have.

So instead of in response to her "So demanding" you say "I know baby but if this is going to work I need you on the same page as me :)"

Same thing with your "Oh ya? you wouldn't happen to be one of those people.."

It's the issue where you're trying to "win the frame" rather than win the girl. You've got to be a "cool guy" who gets it, not someone who's trying to win frame battles. Understand?
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Re: SOLID interaction but I don't know how to finish it off...
@Manwhore:

shut up and take my money! Awesome shit. Wow. A fucking light bulb just went off...

Been doing this constantly w/ numbers I've been getting recently. I guess you really do know your stuff ;)
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Re: SOLID interaction but I don't know how to finish it off...
No joke I am amazing. Honestly I don't even think about it anymore (I just started using this as my go-to response when I get compliments from girls)

;b

But yes I wouldn't be coaching if I wasn't kicking ass and getting massive results for guys.
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