Some Tinder Text Game-- First Post Here Eva
Hello. First time posting anything on here, I've been lurking the website for awhile, but I figured I could get more out of it if I became a regular poster. Looking forward to gettin to know you sob's. :)
I'm 18 years old, training to be a personal trainer and consider myself to be an intermediate. Plenty of success with women, 1-3 fwb's at mostly any time, talking to 5-10 girls daily, strong inner game, but still a lifetime to go.
Pretty sure you guys know of the app "Tinder," so I'll just get right into it. Open to and appreciate all criticism and comments
Me: Hi I'm attracted to you. Let's have babies and get married
Her: Mmkaye yeah. I'll be the one in white *blows kiss*
Me: I'll be in the honeymoon suite getting wasted
Her: Gag me! Please no *blows kiss*
Me: Promise. You can come back for fun when yer done
Her: You're a punkkkk *blows kiss*
Me: I'm a sweet little boy. Come play dress up with me *smirk*
Her: Extremely tempting *blows kiss* gonna have to pass darling *blows another kiss*
Me: I'm gonna be a bank robber and you get to be my nurse
Her: Yeah? You're bossy *blows kiss* not too sure how to be a nurse!
Me: You just wear a sexy lil outfit and treat my wounds. And make me lunch (nurses make lunch now)
Her: Or how about I'll be the judge and you can cook for me and put in movies and bring in blankets
Me: Hmm ok. I hope the judge can keep her honor and behave herself *smirk*
Her: Always can, I'm pretty classy *another kiss*
Me: Hmm. Idk. I feel like the judge might fall for the criminal
Her: I think you're delusional *kiss*
Me: You couldn't escape my lovable criminal ways and you know it
Her: Is that like... Your six pack...? Because I think I could darling *kiss*
Me: You're clearly trying to seduce me with all these kissy faces.. so obvious
Her: Oh trust me... I don't need the kissy faces to do that
Me: You really should get to know me better before making moves like this
Her: Oh it's too late. I'm not a slow mover
Me: No no you're acting like the criminal now, I thought you were a good little girl
Her: You're reading me all wrong. I am a good girl. Classy. *kiss*
Me: You know good girls fall hard for criminals like me..you don't stand a chance
Her: You know I'm not like every girl out there... You're already fallin. *kiss*
Had fun messaging her but got bored here and hit the hay.
Any criticism/comments welcome felt likeit was pretty solid except no close LOL might talk to her later
That *blows kiss* thing is a bit annoying isn't it? She prolly does that with every guy she texts. Kinda like how we say beb, or dear, sweety.
Start putting *Sanitizes kiss* or *swats kiss back* or *checks for coodies* everytime she does it haha.
Your frame doesn't seem very solid either. You need to have some real conversation with her. I don't think you have any real investment or compliance from her to close yet.
Clear cut case of, 'Prove you're not to young for me boi!' She's subtle but shes owning this convo...The blow kiss shit is super annoying for me to read around but, it probably means nothing.
to be continued
You're good at keeping things playful and entertaining but you where going nowhere with this.
Not even a hint of an actual meetup. No wonder you (and she too, probably) got bored.
Supervillain/Johnny Doe- Yes, it was annoying. I was just shootin some shit I wasn't going for any meetup, probably should have now that I think about it. I didn't have any destination in mind
Social Fembot- She's only 19, how is she subtly owning? It seems like it was pretty 50/50 to me, just no direction in my mind so it went nowhere
I think Fembot's right. You coulda gone for the meetup but you woulda failed. Not to dis on your skills, I'm sure you're good. the playfulness was good. But you don't have a frame for your interaction established solidly. Your frame is "You're so chasing me." Her frame is, "No you're so chasing me." So you're subtly combating with her. Flip the script around on her. When she says:
Her: You know I'm not like every girl out there... You're already fallin. *kiss*
You make fun of her. I would try the overly romantic frame.
You: You're so right. Your text kisses have made me fall desperately in love.
Just have fun with that and she will probably fall right in line.
My main point is, don't fight it. Use it.
I like it, thanks for the tips