Somebody set me straight, ego bullshit and big opportunity
Long story short, I have an opportunity to have a threesome.
There is this girl I was banging at school and I always joked about threesomes. One day, she told me a specific girl she would be down to do it with. I have gone to a few parties with this other girl, kissed a few times, almost banged but she was absolutely trashed.
Now, I get snap chats of them kissing and hanging out. The three of us eat lunch together sometimes and they are always touching each other and giggling non-stop. They are really into each other.
The problem is, I do not feel like it is something I want to persue, which is fucked up. They are both good looking, but neither of them really attract me like crazy. Its a fucking threesome though! I should be pumped. The girl I was banging kinda disgusts me because she banged two of my friends, not sure if it was to spite me or if she's just whorish. That being said, sex with her was never terrible, enough to get my dick up.
I don't mean to complain or get all philosophical, but this must be a massive ego resistance issue. I am stopping myself from achieving the next level. Truthfully, the way I FEEL right now is that I do not want to have sex with either of them. I want to feel excited and into the whole idea of the threesome but I just am not. Maybe I am deeply scared of not getting it up or something. I have the tools and game to make this happen, but I feel sexually drained just thinking about it. The same feeling I used to get before banging girls back when I had ED issues.
Does anybody have an legitimate advice or insight. Commenting "your a gay faggot" is not what i'm looking for :p
You're* a gay faggot
*Hope that helps
It's your dick so do with it as you wish. That being said, this is a threesome handed to you on a silver platter and of course everyone will give you shit for it if you turn it down. Only you know if you have legit reasons for not fucking these two. If you don't have legit reasons then you know that you have to push past whatever issues are holding you back. If you turn this one down then you know that the only way to make up for it is to make a different threesome happen with different girls. You owe it to yourself. AND you're in the best environment for sex with hot chicks that you will ever be in -- it doesn't get better than this unless you're Hef.
Worst case though just go into it like you're just there to watch the girls. Get them going at it with each other and then just introduce your cock when you're ready.
Yes. I can smell your pussy from here.
It's your dick so do with it as you wish. That being said, this is a threesome handed to you on a silver platter and of course everyone will give you shit for it if you turn it down. Only you know if you have legit reasons for not fucking these two. If you don't have legit reasons then you know that you have to push past whatever issues are holding you back. If you turn this one down then you know that the only way to make up for it is to make a different threesome happen with different girls. You owe it to yourself. AND you're in the best environment for sex with hot chicks that you will ever be in -- it doesn't get better than this unless you're Hef.Worst case though just go into it like you're just there to watch the girls. Get them going at it with each other and then just introduce your cock when you're ready.
Nobody knows about this shit at all, so i'm not concerned with the social aspect of turning it down.
Your right, I guess it all comes down to how I feel when it's actually happening.
Dude. Make it fucking happen. You can't protect your dick forever. You're gonna have to let it come out and play sometime
I don't hate the girl I was banging already, we have classes together and shit, but she always had poor hygiene and it kinda grossed me out when we would fuck. I wouldn't even kiss her, just bang, because I did not feel into it enough. The other chick turns me on.
It is something I should at least try to do, maybe I will feel differently in the moment after we party and drink.