Something I'm trying to figure out
Fri, 01/04/2013 - 00:31
Something that I've been noticing lately via text is if I give a girl a compliment for example: Girl, you're Enchanting I need to be Enchanted. Or something like that, the girl will be all curious like "what makes me enchanting derp de derp".
At the moment I'm not answering her question and continuing on the thread and/or taking the convo somewhere else, but then the convo either dies off there or shortly after.
What I'm wondering is if girls are curious about something you said about them, is it better to just go with that for a second so she understands you more?
I guess I'm just trying to understand the subtle dynamic, if any here.
At the moment I'm not answering her question and continuing on the thread and/or taking the convo somewhere else, but then the convo either dies off there or shortly after.
What I'm wondering is if girls are curious about something you said about them, is it better to just go with that for a second so she understands you more?
I guess I'm just trying to understand the subtle dynamic, if any here.
Fri, 01/04/2013 - 00:35
#1
Re: Something I'm trying to figure out
@kris:
It always depends on the situation.
Rule of thumb: The more she's guessing, the better. It creates emotional investment on her part. The less she understands, the more she's going to be thinking about it and THAT is what creates the investment.
When there is tension- hold it
When there isn't tension- create it
It always depends on the situation.
Rule of thumb: The more she's guessing, the better. It creates emotional investment on her part. The less she understands, the more she's going to be thinking about it and THAT is what creates the investment.
When there is tension- hold it
When there isn't tension- create it
Fri, 01/04/2013 - 00:48
#2
Re: Something I'm trying to figure out
@buddhagames:
That seems pretty solid, do you have any examples for doing that? I mean the reason I didn't want to actually tell them why, is because I didn't want to lol.
That seems pretty solid, do you have any examples for doing that? I mean the reason I didn't want to actually tell them why, is because I didn't want to lol.
Fri, 01/04/2013 - 00:49
#3
Re: Something I'm trying to figure out
@kris:
By examples I mean, for creating tension etc.
By examples I mean, for creating tension etc.
Fri, 01/04/2013 - 00:52
#4
Re: Something I'm trying to figure out
@kris:
Switch the subject entirely when they ask a question
Freezeout
Say something outrageously inappropriate or clearly not true
Manwhore would have to help out here- I don't even know if those examples are legit.
Switch the subject entirely when they ask a question
Freezeout
Say something outrageously inappropriate or clearly not true
Manwhore would have to help out here- I don't even know if those examples are legit.
Fri, 01/04/2013 - 02:38
#5
Re: Something I'm trying to figure out
@kris:
so by keeping them thinking would she start to think of you as being mysterious? Ive heard girls like that shit!
so by keeping them thinking would she start to think of you as being mysterious? Ive heard girls like that shit!
Fri, 01/04/2013 - 02:42
#6
Re: Something I'm trying to figure out
@Macdaddy:
lol idk but I did just have a girl say to me, in bed, "Okay, I'm going to kiss you because I think I can figure out more about you that way"
lol idk but I did just have a girl say to me, in bed, "Okay, I'm going to kiss you because I think I can figure out more about you that way"
Fri, 01/04/2013 - 09:27
#7
Re: Something I'm trying to figure out
buddhagames;2509.10771;8 wrote:
lol idk but I did just have a girl say to me, in bed, "Okay, I'm going to kiss you because I think I can figure out more about you that way"
NOW THAT IS SOLID GAME.
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Fri, 01/04/2013 - 09:27
#8
Re: Something I'm trying to figure out
Pretty sure I'm stealing that and using it tonight.
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Fri, 01/04/2013 - 13:27
#9
Re: Something I'm trying to figure out
@Manwhore:
What using what the chick said?
lmao before I've had mad LMR and the girl let me kiss her but was just unreactive and didnt recipricate. Then I pulled her hair and bit her neck and she opened up like a spring flower. bishes be cray
What using what the chick said?
lmao before I've had mad LMR and the girl let me kiss her but was just unreactive and didnt recipricate. Then I pulled her hair and bit her neck and she opened up like a spring flower. bishes be cray
Sat, 01/05/2013 - 01:01
#10
Re: Something I'm trying to figure out
kris;2509.10788;32 wrote:
lmao before I've had mad LMR and the girl let me kiss her but was just unreactive and didnt recipricate. Then I pulled her hair and bit her neck and she opened up like a spring flower. bishes be cray
*Facepalm*
Shit like this makes me cry.
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Sat, 01/05/2013 - 16:31
#11
Re: Something I'm trying to figure out
@buddhagames:
yh BG is on to something.
Completely forgot how bawse it is to ignore a shit ton of questions and freeze out randomly. It has to be one of the fastest ways to get her chasing - eventually she'll ask a question "where are you from"
and you can just fuck around and be like "penguins are awesome. have you ever owned one?" so easy to get in your own reality when you do that. shittt i miss it.
yh BG is on to something.
Completely forgot how bawse it is to ignore a shit ton of questions and freeze out randomly. It has to be one of the fastest ways to get her chasing - eventually she'll ask a question "where are you from"
and you can just fuck around and be like "penguins are awesome. have you ever owned one?" so easy to get in your own reality when you do that. shittt i miss it.