I do this thing where I kiss a girl and figure out by the way she kisses, how much she is down to be dominated.
If I get the sense she's down... I'll spin her so that she's pushed up against a wall and then grope her... like inspect her booty.
and then I bend her over a table or something and I'll spank her. No warning.
And the first spank is really fucking hard.
I used to do it kinda gently to see how they reacted. Nowadays.. I hit it really hard the first time.
It's funny how they react. Cos they don't know how to react. They gasp, jump, freeze, sometimes a little scared (not in a terrible way) then wait for more....
You can kinda see their brain ticking.... 'what the fuck just happened' ... 'holy shit that was hard'... 'what the fuck is happening'... 'i guess this is happening.'
I think some girls know they like it and go with it.
Other girls are not yet experienced and don't know whether they like it/ whether they should like it. With these girls spanking hard the first time kinda puts them directly in that situation .... so you bypass their moral reflection. Some of them fall into the frame of... 'i don't really know.. but he's totally enjoying this ... so I guess i'll go with it... hell i enjoy it.'
One girl told me she kinda gets really competitive with herself when she's getting spanked. Like she'll be saying to herself' ... 'ouch that hurts... I can take more...I can handle it! come on!' hahah
Anyways... Massive Disclaimer: Obviously if you do this without feeling her vibe before or don't know how to calibrate after... haven't got her sexually comfortable with you.... then you become a complete douche psychopath.
Wondering if there are weird things like this that you do that seem to work?
That's actually quite clunky. But it's good for intermediate guys. You want to learn to use your WHOLE body, as well as hers of course, as an escalation mechanism.
Shit yeah thanks for pointing that out. I guess it was one of the things that I was getting away with rather than something actually good. Levelling move lol. Will hopefully get your coaching soon.
Go through some of my lay reports mang. You'll see a bunch of stuff like that jump out at you ;)