Spontaneous Julie
Another girl from daygame. Went great, but some trouble towards the end of the convo.
Me: reengagement meme
Her: Haha
Her: How are you? I actually went home this wknd so it was nice!
Her: What did u do?
Me: Sweet
Me: I went to Philly for a mini family reunion
Her: Nice! How was that?
Me: Ate lots of amazing food, got fat and now have a newly acquired Buddha belly
Me: Where’s home?
Her: Haha I’m sure that’s an exaggeration
Her: I’m from Virginia
Her: It rained all weekend :/
Her: I spent most of it in a hair salon…
Her: Dyed my hair brown
Her: What did u eat in philly?
Me: Well, I obvi gotta see yo new haircut
Her: Haha. I need to go to the mall again do u happen be studying there?
Me: French, English and Spanish food
Me: And the best version of egg on toast ever
Me: Nah, goin to a Muay Thai class now
Her: It seems like there is no good food in Boston
Me: Word
Me: I’m headin there later for groceries
Her: Where do u buy groceries?
Me: Allstar/shaws
Me: I’ll take you on a magical mystery tour of the supermarket ;)
Her: Hahahahahahaha
Her: How far is it from the mall? I don’t have that much time unfortunately
Her: Hey, I think another night would be better to meet up. I’m too pressed for time right now. Nice hearing from you tho! Take care
Me: yeah, def
Me: My class got out really late, but I finally found a great Muay thai class!!!
Me: What’s your schedule this wk? Someone’s gotta show off those luscious brown locks
Her: Hahaha
Her: My schedule varies by day, what’s is your sched
Me: Wednesday is pretty free in the evening, Thurs, get off work at 8
Me: And the wknd is up in the air
Me: Since I don’t have to go to class, sched is super flexible
Her: Where do u work?
Her: Why do you want to have coffee with me? Just curious…like did your friends dare u to ask as many girls out to coffee as possible or something?
Me: Somone went on interrogator mode, let me get the slit lamp…
Me: I go to grad school at Tufts
Me: And no, no dare
Her: People always tell me that
Me: That they go to grad school?
Me: No worries though, you just seemed cute and interesting, there’s no big thing about it besides that
Her: Hahah J different maybe
Me: How was the movie?
No response
Next day
Me: Hope you feel asleep during the movie, cz you obvi needed it ;p
Her: Haha
Her: I actually didn’t end up watching it
Me: Word, I didn’t go grocery either
Me: Spent 30 min looking for a burger and then passed out
Her: Lol
Her: Did u find a good burger?
Me: Oh yeah, that thing didn’t stand a chance
Me: 2 min flat. And I usually eat like an 80 yr old.
Her: How does an 80 yr old eat lol?
Me: Slowly
Me: very slowly
Her: Gotcha
Her: What else is unique about u?
Me: My mom tells me that everything is unique about me
Her: Oh ok so you are a mama’s boy J
Me: Oh yeah
Me: And you forgot, grandma’s boy too
Me: Why do I feel you’re daddy little girl…as in the youngest
Her: Haha I’m actually not the youngest. I have one younger sister. Your analysis doesn’t work on me it seems
Me: Well damn, there goes my aspiring career as a psychic
Me: Guess I’ll have to actually see you to get to know you. Do you lk ice cream?
Her: I do! We will it might have to be planned spontaneously
Me: If it’s spont, you better be ready
Me: Any sign of brain freeze, and I’m outta there ;p
Her: Hahahah
Me: Any your fav flavor
No response for some time
Me: I’m just gonna assume you like pistachio, ewwww
No response
2 Days Later
Me: Sent meme with Patrick stewart from star trek, about falling asleep in class
No response
Not sure where to go with this. I think I took the planning spontaneously thing too serious and should’ve just planned it. Or I was thinking txt, “Come get ice cream with me, you beautiful wench” ala MW, but I might wait a few days to send, I don’t want to be txting her almost everyday when she is not responding. Or I might try to send a start over and build the meetup after 3-4 txts.
No man. Beautiful wench does not fit this vibe. Neither does telling a girl you're a momma's boy. Derp
Hit her up randomly and spontaneously around a time you got free time, call her up even, and plan a spontaneous date. She told you how it could go down. Listen..