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So, this is something I want to do with some pooah's here in my town, but not 100% sure of the best way to go about making it happen. 

Basically the general concept is simple: 

Create a consistent dinner or brunch 

Get a group of 4-5 (no more in the beginning) pooahs to consistently go to it week-to-week

Have all of us text all our new numbers from the weeka nd invite them to the dinner//brunch every week

.......

.......

.......

Profit

But yeah- just wanted to get some advise on how to get this going, how to pitch it to the pooahs, how to keep it going, even in the beginning when there may be less girls at first, etc. 

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Check your homework/drills

Check your homework/drills from Week #1 I wrote several articles on this exact thing I link to in that session's hw. 

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It's just up to you to make

It's just up to you to make sure it keeps up. If you back off for even a week it can destroy a lot of momentum. If you can't manage it for one week just make sure some other "mover 'n shaker" is running it. 

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I got like the 3 best dudes I

I got like the 3 best dudes I can find right now (including myself) totally onboard with this. I was shooting for 4-5 guys tops to start, mainly cause I didn't want a ton of dudes at first. 

The issue is that I'm talkin to these guys, and outside of us 3, none of us can really think of pooah's in the area who are like on that level game-wise, to consistently bring value to the table.

My question is this:

Is that something I should care about even? Or for this type of thing would it be cool to just bring any ol' dude to the table, even if his "game" isn't quite at the level we'd want it to be at ideally. I guess I just see a balance with something like this between wanting to bro out, but also using this event definitley as a "tool" to help with slaying womenz... so yeah- do I just keep it at us 3, or do I say fuck it and open it up to 1 or 2 more dudes who are cool guys for sure, just not at the level game-wsie we'd want ideally. 

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I would say go for one or two



I would say go for one or two more dudes. It will be a good learning experience for them and possibly make their lives much better. Not only that, but I feel like it's just normal to have guys around that aren't all into pickup and shit.

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G-Money wrote: I would say

G-Money wrote:


I would say go for one or two more dudes. It will be a good learning experience for them and possibly make their lives much better. Not only that, but I feel like it's just normal to have guys around that aren't all into pickup and shit.

+1

I really dont see what the problem would be?

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I guess youd just want the

I guess youd just want the dude to be capable of bringing a new girl every week.

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Oh, well all the dudes will

Oh, well all the dudes will be pooahs. 

But, the issue is that there are a lot of uhmm... weird pooahs out there- so that's my concern... or dudes who just only leech value. 

And yeah, sure what you said trick is part of it too... it becomes an issue because if there's somebody whose like never bringing chicks, it's gonna be weird, or create an environment where he starts to mooch off of other dudes etc. 

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pottedflowers wrote: But,

pottedflowers wrote:

But, the issue is that there are a lot of uhmm... weird pooahs out there- so that's my concern... or dudes who just only leech value. 

Oh ya I totally get that. I wouldnt be hanging out with any weirdos.

Alot of guys in my social circle are naturals so they are the type of dudes you wouldnt think twice about inviting to a lunch with some girls.

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I actually dont have any pua

I actually dont have any pua friends so I guess were looking at it a bit differently.

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Also- just as a note... I'm

Also- just as a note... I'm also planning on doing larger group things with anyone who wants to come.

But I was thiniking of making this something else, where it's a little less "open to the public" sotospeak...

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TrickAssMark wrote: I

TrickAssMark wrote:
I actually dont have any pua friends so I guess were looking at it a bit differently.

Oh shit, for real?

Yeah dude, you should def. get on that- pooah's are awesome... you just gotta find the good ones 

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Ya always wanted a wing or

Ya always wanted a wing or 2.

I just got used to going out solo or with a buddy. One buddy in particular actually goes pretty hard tho. He doesnt really know what hes doing but he watched me blow up a venue one time and he just started copying me hahah. Hes a fucking champ lol.

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pottedflowers wrote: Also-

pottedflowers wrote:
Also- just as a note... I'm also planning on doing larger group things with anyone who wants to come.

But I was thiniking of making this something else, where it's a little less "open to the public" sotospeak...

Yeah you sorta screen them a bit harder for these sorts of events. But having 4-6 guys at this event that are solid is uber fantastic. Women are currency in the social world. You can start throwing them at millionaries and get invited to mansion parties. Plus your girlies will invite you to events as well. Pretty fucking sweet deal. Some guys you'll notice don't have a lot of killer instinct or really any game whatsoever but for whatever reason women are just down to hang out and they'll bring like 3+ girls to any event. 

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Your new wing will be a great

Your new wing will be a great fit for this stuff too. 

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oh shit I hadnt even thought

oh shit I hadnt even thought ofthat. ill hit him up for sure

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Lol yeah i saw that in the HW

Lol yeah i saw that in the HW I was like uhhh aint got much of a social circle here so Ill have to pass. 

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