Here mostly for context, but feel free to comment/criticize:
Part of me kinda wants to paint you green and spank you like a disobedient avocado :O
Do you send the avocado thing to everyone? Or am I just lucky?
What do you mean, that's the most romantic thing I've said in weeks ;)
Besides, we first gotta know that you can make killer omelettes & while shamelessly singing like a disney princess!
I do cook very well and usually while singing/dancing around the kitchen without pants on. Not sure if that counts as disney-princess-like?
I'll probably get distracted by the rest of your antics, troublemaker, so my disney princess standards could be pretty low... :P
Although they do require strong discipline in order to be happy, thatll be normal :D
How am I a troublemaker?
Neuroscience. You're automatically on my "watch my back around this one" list
Send me a picture, something cute.
Ill only judge a bit if it isn't you!
With a bit of effort and forethought, Ive been doing better about leading chat/texts emotionally, but find myself sabotaging the frame I have set up at the meetups.
Ie she will say something & instead of owning it, I end up rationalizing or being "considerate."
A lot of that seems to be repressed guilt/shame/insecurity that keeps looping through my head & tries to "keep me safe" so Ive been journaling more & getting better about processing emotions in general.
Still doesn't feel like Ive got a solid grasp on understanding what's up.
Does seem like the more I practice Tolle, the easier it will be to flow, so headed that way, but curious of yalls thouhts.
Hey bro it actually looks like a pretty decent convo I'd be happy to give you some feedback on it but please label the texts correctly I lost track of who was who. Maybe color code them too.
Seems to me like your major problem is you asked for the # out of the blue as if in response to her not answering the way you wanted? Almost like it was a knee jerk response to perceiving you were losing her?
Yeah, I've noticed I kinda end up using the number to gauge interest & its often early. Im not in a situation where I'm around women much day-to-day, besides dates, so I'm sure that perception will improve as I change that.
I'm not really sure how to both keep conversation light & keep my intentions clear, as much as I enjoy teasing and being playful, its easy for me to get distracted & sidetracked and ignore signals.
Here's the rest of the convo:
Ill only judge a bit if it isn't you!
Hmm I don't take orders well. I have a problem with authority
It's hard to persuade me over text though. Choking and spankings usually work, but it's hard to send those things virtually
Haha thats cute! I do strongly suggest that we meet soon.
Whats yer smellyphone?
I only do textual intercourse for a good cause. I will admit to being more generous in person when the screws are put to me...
What good cause is that?
! That's for you to figure out xD
Ok, I'm mildly intrigued. But I don't usually give out my number. Do you use snapchat or anything?
Dude you're fucking up and not listening. I asked you to label your previous pasted text convo. Instead you paste another one labeled even worse. Go back and label them both.
I am in bold, she is not.
If this isn't showing up for anyone else, I'd understand, but it's pretty simple.
If there is a thread of generally accepted posting guidelines, that's fine. It's entirely possible I missed it.
Khan here's the way to do it
Me: JIhad is oh so cool
Her: Yes, yes he is
Also, this isn't an inner game issue. You don't got the txt chops holmes.
Her: How am i a troublemaker?
You went for compliance instead of building up more of a vibe. That doesn't work. To top it off...you asked for pics..lol wtf. Ya i've pulled off naughty pics after a few txt backs but you're going from Step B to Z in one jump. Then giving her your number? No no no.
Her: It's hard to persuade me over text though. Choking and spankings usually work, but its hard to send those things virtually
She took you guys from Step B to mutherfuckin Step W and you intercepted and ran it back in the opposite direction. She initiated sexuality but you didn't do anything with it, just got more pushy. Also, she's either really desperate or you're really good looking for her to still be around this long.
I already removed him from the forum. But yes for all others, that's ^ how it's done.
That definitely was Merv Perv 2.0
Ha! Naw that dude's long gone. I gave him back his training fee we parted somewhat cordially