Stay in state when at low energy bars
I struggle with staying in state if I am in a "low energy" bar. I feel weird constantly opening when its no loud music and high energy. What I sometimes do is just talk to random people in the bar or the bartender or I end up sitting quietly in the bar, haha, makes me feel like a big chode. Anyone have any ideas how to stay outgoing and keep momentum in these types of environments (ps. this is if you're going out solo)
Do a ton of solo daygame and this problem will become a lot less of an issue.
I'm the opposite lol.
When there is lots of music and chaos, i'm just like ''fuck, this is so fucking stupid, these people are morons''.
Not that i'm trying not to, but i'm gonna have to make another Vampire Diaries refference and say i'm more of a daywalker.
Learn to be social with everyone. Whatever environment your in. It will elevate your mood and "push" you into state. Give yourself daily tasks for example, say, "hi how are you" to everyone you walk past for a day. What I'll do is use one venue or "quiet bar" in your situation as my "warm up palace". After I've opened most people in the bar I'll just bounce to another bar nice and warmed up and brand new people. It's not that big of a deal to walk up to a group of people and ask what's going on. You may look like a dummy at first but this is pick up. Your gonna look like a dummy a lot so get used to it, lol.
That's good input. I'll try that.
If you're in a low energy bar, you could always just embrace that energy and be a little more chill... there's nothing wrong with that
^ For sure.
Someone post that video from Elliot Hulse about creating energy inside your body..
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
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I actually went to a sports bar yesterday and stayed in a more chill mode. Worked pretty well
I actually went to a sports bar yesterday and stayed in a more chill mode. Worked pretty well
Yeah, I think learning to embrace a chill energy and still know how to consistently approach and take down girlies from that place is a really good skill to develop.