Staying in the game with social media awesomeness
I have learned recently that I can keep some ladies interested by indirectly being awesome on social media. I have a tendency to burn an interaction to the ground if I think I have lost, but this behavior is just flat out stupid. Even when the interaction appears to have ended due to some sort of bump in the road, or maybe I am being a dick head, some girls ARE still receptive If I remain in the rearview. I have been sending out funny mass snapchats and a lot of girls that I thought were done with me actually send something cute back! I have even noticed girls texting me back minutes after I post something interesting on social media. This is cool and will enhance my game.
I have a few questions regarding reengagement with these girls:
- If your last interaction ended a bit rough, maybe she bails on the date, you lost your cool, etc. is it best to act as if none of that ever happened when you reengage? I have a very difficult time guaging when it is appropiate to apologize or simply acknowledge a potential problem that is holding back the interaction. I understand that acknowleding a short coming can potentially be destructive because these gals just wanna have fun.
Below is an example of a girl that flaked on me. I really thought she was donezo with me, but I still send her snapchats and she appears to look at my social media stuff so I assumed I was awesome enough to reenage. Obviously something is wrong, or was wrong, and I'm not sure if I should acknowledge it. I know with A+ text game none of this would matter, but I'm just not there yet lol.
Me: Hi Bella
Me: Hows your day treatin you :)
Her: im ok and you? <---- I was going to be challenging about how boring that response was but I felt that something was wrong and I tried to stay in a friendler frame
Me: I finished and i'm about to order a pizza
Me: so pretty good :)
Me: whatcha up to homie, are you on break yet? (2 hours later)
Her: No :( haha
Me: Aww
Me: at least your a senior your probbaly don't doin much :P
Me: you're** wow my brain doesn't want to function anymore :)
Me: Omg this Christmas song is fuckin amazing cant wait to show you
2 days later she texts back
Her: lol I could do better :) jk jk
- HOW do you guys game over snapchat? Are you seeding dates over snapchat?
I have tried using the messenger portion of the app, but with the dissappearing messages etc. it never really gets anywhere. My text game is a part of it, but sometimes I even find myself losing track of where we are at in the interaction especially if its over a long time period.
- When do you know it is time to reengage so you guys can start fresh?
I was a dickhead to a girl last week. The next morning I texted her:
Me: I'm sorry for being a dick last night, it was a misunderstanding on my part.
She never responded but she sends me a bunch of snapchats a few days later. We picture message back and forth a few times, is it best to text her immediatly while she interested? I can be a social retard at times and I just don't understand the illogical communication these girls use (they probably don't understand me at times too!).
I understand a lot of these situations can be avoided with really good text game, but we all need to do some damage control a times.
I would use less of these smileys: ":)", ":P"
Facebook: Having a good facebook profile sure helps. If you have a good profile picture, girls will notice you in their "friend suggestions", so when you're out they might recognize you and you have value from the start.
If my last interaction ended a bit rough, i wouldn't care to be honest. I just act like nothing happened because i truly don't care. I've found if i don't care, then girls don't really care either. If a girl is acting weak of course i will call her out on it though.
Snapchat game:
When you meet girls, chances are either you or her are gonna pick up the phone to send a snapchat to a friend. Then just say "btw do you have me on snapchat" and she'll add you. When she uploads a snapchat story you can comment on it and when she replies, the game is on. Even if you don't send her snaps, she will see your snapchat stories so she will still be thinking of you. I would also rather get a girls snapchat, than her number from tinder.
Don't reply immediately if she is sending unpersonal/mass snaps
Instagram: I don't really care about instagram, but i know guys that have been succesful there. I just connect it to my tinder so that i can display more pictures of awesomeness.
I would use less of these smileys: ":)", ":P"Facebook: Having a good facebook profile sure helps. If you have a good profile picture, girls will notice you in their "friend suggestions", so when you're out they might recognize you and you have value from the start.
If my last interaction ended a bit rough, i wouldn't care to be honest. I just act like nothing happened because i truly don't care. I've found if i don't care, then girls don't really care either. If a girl is acting weak of course i will call her out on it though.
Snapchat game:
When you meet girls, chances are either you or her are gonna pick up the phone to send a snapchat to a friend. Then just say "btw do you have me on snapchat" and she'll add you. When she uploads a snapchat story you can comment on it and when she replies, the game is on. Even if you don't send her snaps, she will see your snapchat stories so she will still be thinking of you. I would also rather get a girls snapchat, than her number from tinder.
Don't reply immediately if she is sending unpersonal/mass snaps
Instagram: I don't really care about instagram, but i know guys that have been succesful there. I just connect it to my tinder so that i can display more pictures of awesomeness.
Lots of value here, thanks dude :)
I think instagram can be fuckin sweet if your artistically inclined. Snapchat and facebook are very social value heavy, but a cool instagram speaks of personal creativity. I did not have one for a while then I realized a buddy of mine was getting a ton of attention for all of the professional quality photos he had, he was getting girls to pose for car pictures etc. I recenty started putting top notch photos of mine on insta and seems like I am getting lots of views/likes, so we will see how that goes!
Meow you need to go back and read your past text conversations you had some doozies in there. Get back in touch with that
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
I have been! I'm just a little eager I needa relax I guess
I think this girl must have seen me on facebook or something because we have some mutual friends and i didnt even have to game her. Tinder convo on a saturday night:
Her *emoji*
Me: heyyy
Her: how are you?
Me: I'm good. You going out tonight?
Her: just gonna drink wine with some friends. You?
Me: *club name*
Her: let me know if you wanna meet up later
Me: whats your number
Her: *number*
So i went to her place at 2 AM and smashed :P
With that being said, social media value is worthless if your in person game is shit. It's a good tool though, use it but don't get too caught up on it.
Nice! Lol
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
I think this girl must have seen me on facebook or something because we have some mutual friends and i didnt even have to game her. Tinder convo on a saturday night: Her *emoji* Me: heyyy Her: how are you? Me: I'm good. You going out tonight? Her: just gonna drink wine with some friends. You? Me: *club name* Her: let me know if you wanna meet up later Me: whats your number Her: *number* So i went to her place at 2 AM and smashed :P With that being said, social media value is worthless if your in person game is shit. It's a good tool though, use it but don't get too caught up on it.
Dude, I would have probably overgamed and burned this shit to the ground lol. So thanks for posting!
So i'm snapchating girls funny stuff after seeing their stories and getting "personal" responses, I just don't know how to take things further.
Example:
Her: (snapchat story of her working on christmas eve)
Me: (snapchat of me telling her to quit her job and become an elf while I'm using the santa filter)
Her: (snapchat of her saying something about not wanttng to be en elf)
Me: (snapchat of me with elf filter teasing her that she can't handle the jobs anyways)
Do I conintue to snap or DM?
I would say it depends on how good your text game is. Mine isn't top notch so i try to take easy opportunities. I usually just comment something cocky/funny on the snap story, not even trying to get a response, and eventually send snaps/texts. If i see a snap story of a pre party i sometimes ask where they going and mention meeting up later. If i don't find another chick that night i'll have options from snapchat.
It's not the best way, but certainly better than overgaming and then not going for a meetup. But you'll need to have many girls on your snapchat. This isn't a consistent strategy. I also have most girls living relatively close to me so i don't have logistical problems. It would be harder to do this in a big city. Most importantly: when you see an opportunity (she is responding well) go for it. But this is more college game, not big city game.
Meow are you in college? Are these girls you're gaming in the same college as well? It's wayyyy easier to overgame in college. Most of the context for lays are based on social proof (i.e. your looks, who you know, fraternity etc.). Like if I were on tinder near my campus, I wouldn't be msging so much to try to get them alone w/ me in the day. Instead, I 'd be messaging earlier in the week to setup pre-games, after party's, or meetups at a bar or house to all the hot girls I match with on tinder. They'll ALWAYS show up for those reasons. Then you do the job in person. Kinda like Papaya...short and sweet.
Meow are you in college? Are these girls you're gaming in the same college as well? It's wayyyy easier to overgame in college. Most of the context for lays are based on social proof (i.e. your looks, who you know, fraternity etc.). Like if I were on tinder near my campus, I wouldn't be msging so much to try to get them alone w/ me in the day. Instead, I 'd be messaging earlier in the week to setup pre-games, after party's, or meetups at a bar or house to all the hot girls I match with on tinder. They'll ALWAYS show up for those reasons. Then you do the job in person. Kinda like Papaya...short and sweet.
Yes, but none of the recent stuff i'm posting is college girls, I'm back home on break. Like you said I do the social circle type game at school, not particularly well yet, but this isn't my game plan at school.
Meow are you in college? Are these girls you're gaming in the same college as well? It's wayyyy easier to overgame in college. Most of the context for lays are based on social proof (i.e. your looks, who you know, fraternity etc.). Like if I were on tinder near my campus, I wouldn't be msging so much to try to get them alone w/ me in the day. Instead, I 'd be messaging earlier in the week to setup pre-games, after party's, or meetups at a bar or house to all the hot girls I match with on tinder. They'll ALWAYS show up for those reasons. Then you do the job in person. Kinda like Papaya...short and sweet.
Yes, but none of the recent stuff i'm posting is college girls, I'm back home on break. Like you said, I do the social circle type game at school, not particularly well yet, but this isn't my plan at school.
Where are you meeting these snap chat girls? I don't know about you guys but i'm meeting all of mine at student parties or by cold approaching at clubs (most people who go to clubs here are students). Haven't picked up a chick in school or in class, it's not my intention either. I'd rather make friends with them and eventually something might happen :p
I'm getting the impression you're not approaching all that much since you bring up high school girls every now and then.
That's a bit of a fallacy, jihad. There's a lot of other context for getting laid besides social proof - looks, fraternity, etc. Don't even say shit like that on my forum.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
College is very easy to show up to a random party or bar and leave with a girl.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Yes sorry! I should've explained it better. It comes across like i'm saying you need looks etc. Wrong on me. I was taking specifically about tinder if you have like an event to bring them to and that's where I was referring to house parties, fraternities etc.
Yes sorry! I should've explained it better. It comes across like i'm saying you need looks etc. Wrong on me. I was taking specifically about tinder if you have like an event to bring them to and that's where I was referring to house parties, fraternities etc.
Oh interesting. Girls use it to find parties? Ha! That makes sense I guess
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Where are you meeting these snap chat girls? I don't know about you guys but i'm meeting all of mine at student parties or by cold approaching at clubs (most people who go to clubs here are students). Haven't picked up a chick in school or in class, it's not my intention either. I'd rather make friends with them and eventually something might happen :p I'm getting the impression you're not approaching all that much since you bring up high school girls every now and then.
These are mostly tinder girls that are on my snap. Yes I don't approach enough at school because I'm a big pussy.
Lots of my girlfriends specifically match w/ fraternity guys to stay in the loop about events. Its funny
Lol those frat bros pull ALL of the bitches.
Who do you know here?