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You’re pushing ideas and emotions she’s not ready for yet. You need to chill back a bit and let her catch up. Throwing out babes and pumpkins too early also.

Read your txts again and tell me if you can see what I can. Its a bit cringe my guy. And she’s still a teeny bit upset you called her a loser. I know, girls :p what can you do

In summary she’s kinda confused cause you’re all over the place. Give her something to latch on to and ground this convo.

And no, don’t send daddy or the “cmon” txt. Lol awful.

Here:

Her: Who said i got into trouble

Me: Your pastor, he said you skipped bible study this sunday. I’m just the messenger

Thanks man, yeah I see what you mean.

Nice one, she answered fast af.

Her: Why are you so involved in my religious practices :D

“I have to find a way to forgive you for ur sins. 

I’m trained and ordained in all practices ;)”

I'm thinking:

Regardless, I think you’re fine as long as she’s replying. Go for the meetup soon tho bro

bonobo dont send any of the ones you typed up. And no don’t go for the meetup soon. Superb lay back a bit I don’t think you should be giving txt advice man, no offense. Nothing against your txting.

You need to get some momentum going and then get her num and then go for a meetup.  But focus first txt at a time.

We’re gonna tweak superb’s txt a bit. It was too sexual for now and didnt follow the way this convo is going

Me: Someone’s gotta forgive you for your sins. I told God I’d help you out, he’s so over you lol :p

Cheers.

Do you always take the number without any mention of a meetup? I sometimes bring the meetup first and then # when the opportunity arises. (well not yet here, although soon we gonna bible study ;))

@SuperB - feel free to comment on any of my text topics in the future. I also always try to answer many topics as well, even though I'm often clueless lol. That way the learning process is stronger/faster as you're more actively involved.  I just add my disclaimer, as not everyone is familiar with my level of game. 

Yeah no that wasn't a shutdown of Superb lol. Anyone and everyone is free to comment but I don't want anyone sending anyone else in a wrong direction. That kind of shit has to be managed like seriously. This isn't an RSD forum. Superb the text was fine but needed tweaking. Bonobo you're in or have taken training correct?

@Bonobo - No I don't always take the number before any mention of a meetup. It ebbs and flows. Sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. It's good to seed a meetup as getting the number gets easier after that but in this case Superb was suggesting that you go for the meetup as in "GO FOR THE MEETUP", not seeding. and that would've fucked you up a bit. 

Imma lay back for now but I look at things way different. My rationale is she would ask “what practices are those” and then you would be like “Grabbing drinks and shooting the shit. I’ll scoop you up at 8 tonight.” And then from there we would see what she gives us. 

Im no expert but I pretty much do a quick display of personality and assume her engagement is interest and then go for meet up. Listen to Jihad and Manwhore more tho. I’m still a newb.

Jihads tweaking of my text is money btw. I think jihad and Manwhore make the girl more excited to see us with their texts, while mine rely more on the girl being bored or desperate so I just prey on the weak lol.

ha, love the “he’s so over you” part, I’m using the shit out of that. Niceeeee 

Is this RSD Bonobos? Like Bonobos / Minotaur??

Doubt it.

I ain't no rsd.

Her: Why are you so involved in my religious practices :D

Me: Someone's gotta forgive you for your sins. I told God I would help you out, he is so over you lol :p

Her: Good, then it would be a shame if he wouldn't forgive me  

I think this could be a good time to make her earn the "forgiveness" and take a number and seed a meetup after, right?

Me: yeah, too bad you haven't convinced me yet... 

or 

Me: you confession shall take place soon. Involving shots and prayers. But I don't know if you're ready yet...

Don't send either. Second one isn't as bad though. 

You want to ramp this up a bit more. 

Me: Ya you just have to buy me icecream though, this saint ain't cheap ;)

Well, seeing as how I'm the filling in, we may be able to work something out. How's ur cooking? It's tough for me to do god's work on an empty stomach lol.

Well, seeing as how I'm the stand-in forgiver, we may be able to work something out. Let's start you off with a few our fathers while washing my dishes, it's a bit of a mess rn lol. 

Don't send either as I think it's better to have you come up with your own, but that should give you an idea. You have so much material to work with here. 

Oh I see. The ones I wrote up would be a bit combative when she's starting to open up eh? Classic Aequitas lol.  

Nah don't send either cause they're trash lololol <3

I was thinking she'll be giving a lot of tests then started listening to Jihad... hahaha that what happens when you get to learn from the bests of the world.

Her: What kind of ice cream do you prefer? 

So here I could just go for a number?

me: "I'm picky, sending you the specifics over WhatsApp. what's your holy #"

Naw, now you’re just mervinpervin it lol.  

I wouldn’t, especially not with that text. Riff a lil man, have some fun with her. We keep telling you to build the vibe and every time she responds you keep asking the same thing. Lol. 

Lol i'm no where near the best. A lot of the guys on here are better than me. In person, I'm positive aequitas would stomp me.. Except his texting, that's seriously wack lol! (Love you aeq)

See how invested she is now and willing to buy you icecream? She's interested. Exactly what Aequitas said. This is going in a good direction so you don't want to jump the gun yet. You can definitely seed a lil here.

Also, you're kinda forcing the high value thing with all your texts. I.e. "I'm picky" or "I dont know if you can handle it" - They don't fit in the context you keep trying to place them in. 

Post some more examples of what you're thinking of txting I'm done writing all your juicy texts for you beotch. Iz learnnning time ;)

What Jihads saying is less is more in the context of “showing” you’re high value. Your texts already show it by how awesome n playful they are. You tryna display high value stuff like “I’m picky” betrays that image and works against you. In short, it’d be try hard.  

Well, it's text game now, and you definitely know what's goin on :)

Thanks, yeah makes sense. It's actually the first time I thought she opened up enough for me to take number or seed more. But yeah I tend to be too eager (and impatient) via text. 

Well maybe if you stopped using a hurt ankle as an excuse n go out lol. I’d be slapping girls butts with my crutches if I were you. Or air fisting one of the crutches to the beat dropping as you got some lil hottie grinding on you lmao. Ppl would lose their fucking shit if you did that and would feed into the frenzy. 

PFFFT. Texting just took a lil hiatus is all lol. Issa coming back. 

Here’s a tip I learned from Buddhagames:

Type out all possible txts you want to send out in response. Leave and come back later and look at what you wrote from a fresh perspective. You’ll often find that what you typed up is utterly repulsive and you were operating from a different headspace then lol

You’ll be able to tweak from there. 

love this. Although I will inevitably hit send by mistake once and the girl may think I’m a split personality sociopath ha, but it will be a hell of a story.  

Just out of curiosity, do you guys leave women on “read” or do you have it turned off

Nah my scripts are turned off. Women don’t really give a shit most of the time. If you dont read her texts someone else will. 

Yo! I just jumped on this thread, sorry. I figured you cooter mechanics were on this. But maybe nay? 

Anyway Bonobo I thought your second one was hot. Lol!

Except.. *your

'Cuz I'm a pussy pirate and a grammar nazi.

Thanks guys. Good shit. 

what does that mean lol. cooter is vagina, right?

yeah, I saw the spelling mistake but it was after I spent 5 minutes solving captcha editing another post so, I was like only MW would notice it anyways :)

Me: There's a sugar-free place I know have killer tastes, so I'm easy to bribe there even with a good ol' vanilla ;)

Her: Good ol' vanilla :D

Her: Okay

Her: I would rather rather pick dark chocolate or raspberry

I'm thinking with this it would be almost easier/would make more sense to go for a meetup than taking the number?

Another thing is that I'm injured and pretty much unable to walk for a while, so it won't happen for a bit if she doesn't come directly to me haha or I could get crunches and play around.

Me: Vanilla is underrated :P

Me: Let's move to WhatsApp, Tinder is not holy enough lol

or 

Me: Great choice girl, I hoped you don't say Curry or some odd flavor. That would have been a dealbreaker.

Me: What's your schedule like

Dark chocolate is only for gangsters so you probably won't qualify but I will share mine with you ;) Text me this tinder stuff is too nerdy ### ### #### 

Would some of the standard (time) reengagement make sense here?  like doing her nails or " excuse me, I'm gonna tell everyone in the church that you have freckles on yer booty if you take so much time to answer.."

What was the reasoning for this little push? she was really opening up as I understand (also answering fast). Or is the "I share with you" part is more important here?

you probably won't qualify but I will share mine with you ;)

 

^ Wtf? Gotta translates texts better mang. "in the church" is not right lol. And the rest i'm not even sure 

yeah the church is not something I want to talk about we just had this theme but yeah I get it haha.

it's an English convo, I only swapped the text me to whatsapp me. 

I was asking to figure out the reason for the push in your text as she was investing bravely as I understand.

It's at church, monkey. 

just wanted to be more attainable by her haha 

gosh if it was only grammar to fix in my text lmao

MW's text was fire give it a little time Bon-voyage. You'll run into this a lot, all is going well then at the pivotal moment a girl doesn't respond for an extra long time just to freak you out and see what you do. Its a giant shit test in disguise. She'll give the num or atleast respond lol that text was hawtt

lol it's not just to freak you out they prob don't even really care about your feelings yet.

its cause they're freaking out  

Seems like she's deleted her tinder as I don't see the convo anymore (also don't see her unmatch me with these pimp messages unless catfish?). But she didn't WhatsApp me. Fuck. 

I could hit her up on FB or IG, I remember the name. FB should better, her IG inbox must be a creepfest with that many followers lol

Nah don’t hit up her facebook Jus forget it she’s being a cunt

lol, she def didn’t delete tinder, she prob just blocked the convo. It happens bro, reference experience. +1 text game 

Some girls are whack and when push comes to shove they back out. 

She MIGHT call you/txt you. But I doubt it.

MY humble opinion is this convo went on for too long. I screen for DTF I want nothing to do with anyone else.

Next. And if she hits you up go for meet up. If she declines just next it. 

No time for anything but DTF

So bonobo what exactly was the sequence of events here? It looks like you guys sat on sending her a response, and then what did you end up sending her? And then you checked back and you'd been blocked, when? Lol

Her: Why are you so involved in my religious practices :D

You want too far with the whole “I’m so cool” act with that last message. She would have replied if you “Ooooo. Dark chocolate it is then. Let’s grab some tonight” Even if it was a “No I can’t” you woulda still had something to work with.

Id rather push for a meet up than act overly cool. Girls be getting offended like “pfff he thinks I’m gonna buy him ice cream for real? Ha” 

Considering the amount of time you took before sending the last message, ^ shithead's got a point.

Actually, I just looked at the comments' timestamps here and figured that the last message couldn't have taken that long. The one before it was slow for sure (1 day). 

I think I sent the last one like 80 minutes after MW's post, so there were maximum 4-5 hours before she got my answer (was already at night). 

Anyways, my timing certainly didn't help and it's one of the many takeaways from this whole thread. I mean I knew it but set a slow dynamics to the whole thing from the start so I thought it's less relevant as she's used to it. Already fixed it with some new girls. 

Oh wait...

This isn’t even taking place in ‘Merica is it?

Dude. You were talking to her like she’s a dumb ass American woman the whole time lol. Idk where you are but you could have probably banged her already if you were more of a down to earth gentleman with a bit of easy to understand humor. 

This is assuming u guys are not even in the US. Women from out of US care more about trust and comfort building and they don’t friend zone u as easily for talking like an actual person. In the US you gotta be a little more of that extroverted narcissistic alpha male persona. Think Donald trump if he was actually charming and 6 years old.