Taking Coaching, Getting Laid, Having Multiple Sext Convos At Once
So I came back here about a month ago due to the fact that my technical skills (such as texting, conversation, etc.) were not good at all. I immediately pre-ordered the texting manual because I knew it's going to be good and I also went through a lot of the texting conversations people have here. I started using the material and messaging new girls from OKC. I am now taking coaching as of last week and am going to be using this thread to update on my experiences so far.
I've only done one session of coaching so far and through that one session, it's been obvious that a lot of my previous learnings and beliefs are keeping me from succeeding. Manwhore has done a goodjob breaking down these beliefs and showing me why they're halting my progress in not just game but life in general which is great. I've been doing some reading as well and just overall trying to expans my knowledge so I can think bigger and better. Before the coaching, I felt that I just had no real purpose, a very limited, simple minded view of things. So it'ss good to think bigger and beyond. It's hard to explain but even though some of my previous learnings were all about 'lifestyle development' and thinking bigger, the opposite pretty much happened. So it's good to be out of that and seeing the bigger picture for realz.
As for results:
I met up with one of these OKC girls last week and the weekend and got laid. She's probably only a 6 or 7 but it's been a couple months since I've been laid so it's definitely a good step toward where I want to go which is being able to meet and attract and text and bang the 10's.
I've been texting another girl that I think is a 7 or 8/10. I haven't seen her in person yet so I can't say for certain, but she's cute. The text game that I learned here has really helped things take off. It's been a few weeks now, she lives a bit out of town and I've been out of town so logistically it hasn't happened yet. I should be seeing her this weekend though. Funny story is that while I was hanging out with the girl above and banging her, this 2nd girl texts me (because she was in town at a club for her bday) telling me to get to the club and fuck her on the dance floor. Had a good laugh with that one and manwhore. While I would have loved to ditch girl 1 and see girl 2, I just don't have the asshole capabilities to leave this girl right then and there, lol. I'm just too nice. Live to fight another day. So hopefully will be seeing this girl this weekend.
All of my successes have come from getting better at the text game as well as the coaching helping me to get better beliefs, less insecurities (which still need a lot of work), better interacting skills, and more so I look forward to the next sessions. I'll keep this log updated as I progress towards my goal of dating the stunners which I've never felt good looking enough or skillful enough to do and thus reject myself.
Dude. You been sexting ho's and banging them. How is it you can make that sound so fucking BORING lol. Good job buddy. Great work turning this into nerd city
I would have left. As your game gets better or at least as mine has variety, spontaneity, and "adventures" become the best part. You're accruing this skill, don't stagnate and get comfortable.
Jeff got a few of the text book chapters early ;)