Text conversation setting up a date for someone who's asked me out. teach me how to make it better.
critique and pointers. i dont think it's too difficult and i would have to fuck it up pretty hard not to her out, i just want to use it for learning.
This is a girl i met out at a club about 2 months ago. we almost had a threesome with another girl but this second one backed out last minute. i didn't handle the situation right but was glad just to get the two out of the house since they were yelling it down and the one that backed out got annoying. They both contacted me a week after this. i stopped talking to the second one. the girl of topic, was cool, but had gone back to her boyfriend. she called me up to ask if i was down for either, a threesome with her and the bf or just her with the dude watching. hells no. she told she me she really wished she had met me before she got with her bf. both these girls said they wanted to do a three way date when they left my car on the night of the almost threesome. i wasn't keen at the time, the freaked one was sooo immature.
after about 2 months silence
Hey it's [name], i really hope you remember me. so this is probably going to end in rejection, but i was wondering if i could still take you on a sate sometime...?
lol, so THAT's what [shortened name she gave me previously] was short for. i thought you parents were just car fanatics. yeah i remember you :). i just smashed my car up a bit today. haha, doh. well pretty thang, whats on your agenda next weekend?
car fanatics? ahaha, no way! aw no that's terrible, i hope you're okay? yeah my car looks like such a bomb at the moment, i need to fix it. well, this weekend im gonna be out in [city/clubbing area] on saturday nigth, and then i'm headed to [city in another state] for a few days to visit a friend. so we could either meet up that night or the weekend after.
yeah i'll be fine (limbs grow back right?). [city in another state] will be awesome! its hard coming back to [our city] though, right. ha. well well, my dear, what are you up to on sat? i'm going to kidnap you from your friends at some point so i can ge to know YOU. howz abutts i take you to [club] and you take me down in pool. i've got a party this friday.
I love the language, just split your texts up into rapid fire n make em more concise
You don't really have to do anything just make it happen. Do you want to make this happen sooner rather than later? We always come at this from a logistical perspective, because that gives us something to aim for. What are you trying to get done here?
goal is getting her back to my place saturday night so her wildest dreams can come true.
its sorted now anyway.
hahahaha, i think they do...? yeah it'll be good. but i'm sure i'll still be able to come back to [our city] if you're here ;) well i dont know at this stage if i'll be going out any more, gotta love dem financial woes haha. but pool at [club] sounds pretty good, so let me get back to you on that one.
oh noes the woes! hey well if you pick this car-less bum up, i will repay you in a boozey beverage... and tantalizing pool cue butt whips. mmm.
whoa, that last sentence was so sexy on so many levels. of course i can pick you up you sexy devil you ;) and i wont say no to free alcohol!
awesomeballz, pick me up at 9:30. txt me for address when you're leaving. my place aka my love lair will seem familiar to you ;)
oh dear god no, not a lovelair!
yes *dun dun dun!* thats what the real estate agent marketed it as anyway.
she doesn't know this part yet, but my plan to is bring her back to my place (she has to drive me anyway, prob) to chill out with a bottle of wine which is code for me yanking her clothes off.
this needed to be out of my skillset to attain to get learnig value out of it. i wasn't expecting this reaction. no point posting anymore. :P what are you guys reading in it anyway?
Yeah I'm not sure what you were looking for. This was in the bag from the beginning
She's 100% dtf.
I would just shoot a few texts here and there to let her know it's still on and to keep her buying temperature up, then go for it when you see her. Just plan out the logistics and you're good to go. She's practically calling you saying it's on!
Good luck bro.
Good luck bro.
Boo I think the main realization here for you is this was already done, you thought it was harder. Just like everything else you got going on. Just invite/make plans/tell them to meet up and they will. Hairy and Belle and every other one of them. You could make them all line up outside your door and buy tickets. I would buy tickets to that for sure :p. There's no more "game", you're done. It's almost like you're trying to make these initial parts seem more complicated and difficult, just so you don't have to deal with the supposed tension of these future dates/get-togethers. But it's false fear, you're going to be FINE. You have all you need.