This Text Exchange was doen PURELY as an example for Katalyst... and it's gonna get me laid (EDIT: Help on framing the end)
Fri, 02/08/2013 - 18:01
I purposely texted this girl the way I did to show Katalyst what his most recent text exchange lacked- just compare the two
Re engagement Text: After about 2 months of not texting
Me: You gotta hit up Cheeky Sandwiches. Your tastebuds will thank me
Her: Wha?
Me: It's a sandwich shop. btw what happened to you
Her: Yo yo!
Her: What happened to you?
Her: How is your mom? : )
Me: I would tell you but then id have to kill you... plus this texting stuff is too nerdy for me. Lets grab a drink
Her: Want to come to our fashion show at 2 Saturday? A little fashion week runway show. : )
Her: Well, it's not little lol. At lincoln Center. Fun experience if you have never been.
Me: When is it?
Her: This Saturday at 2pm. It's fashion week babe!
Me: I'm looking at apartments in the afternoon
Her: Even if blizzard?
Her: Yeah.. You should move out of UWS!
Me: I mean, I could prob grab a quick drink with yo after your show before I head to my buddys bday party...
Her: All fashion shows last like 15 min. Just a total scene pre show. Whole process takes about an hour but show about 15 minutes. Gonna be awesome! Work has been insane this week but in a good way with prepping for the show. I LOVE FASHION WEEK!!! : )
Me: I'll stop by towards the end and pick you up and we can hit somewhere close
Her: Depends on timing. I might be going out after with friends, TBD. What time is your party?
Me: I'm taking him out around 7 or 8
Her: Oh, Well, if post show doesn't work, maybe pre my dins/show after party. We are starting up again around 8:30 so we can maybe grab a drink around 7 if u take your friend around 8
Her: Only if it is downtown. : )
Me: Saturday sounds hectic beb... As much as I love to dine and dash id rather chill out and grab a drink with you when I don't have to bolt the second after I remember how cute you are
Her (This morning): I think my plans for tonight are getting cancelled due to snow. Are you afraid of the blizzard? If not, let me know if you want to come downtown for drinks instead of "dash and dine" Saturday.
Me: Haha alright that sounds good. Id say wear something sexy so we match... but seriously - please wear something warm
Me: I'm living downtown right next to finale on bowery. meet me at my place. there is an awesome bar literally next door.
Her: Why are you looking for places if you just moved to Bowery?
Her: No way! You are coming to me. Am not getting stuck. Plenty of places near my apartment. : )
How would you frame a response here?
Her issues are the following:
1. There is a storm and she's using it as a bullshit excuse not to come to my place because she might get "stuck"
2. She wants control and has wanted it since I first met her- so if I do frame this, it has to be done in a way that allows her to maintain that "sense" of control
I don't think it actually matters that much, so I'm just going to go with it and meet her at her place because it's probably the most efficient and I can still just grab a bottle and cuddle up on her couch... I mean, fuck... I don't even really have pull logistics at my house so wtf am I even thinking
and yupppp- THATS why the community sucks... you start thinking/doing things for the sake of doing it because you've learned that it's the "right " thing to do, in terms of game, when in reality it's like wtf..
Re engagement Text: After about 2 months of not texting
Me: You gotta hit up Cheeky Sandwiches. Your tastebuds will thank me
Her: Wha?
Me: It's a sandwich shop. btw what happened to you
Her: Yo yo!
Her: What happened to you?
Her: How is your mom? : )
Me: I would tell you but then id have to kill you... plus this texting stuff is too nerdy for me. Lets grab a drink
Her: Want to come to our fashion show at 2 Saturday? A little fashion week runway show. : )
Her: Well, it's not little lol. At lincoln Center. Fun experience if you have never been.
Me: When is it?
Her: This Saturday at 2pm. It's fashion week babe!
Me: I'm looking at apartments in the afternoon
Her: Even if blizzard?
Her: Yeah.. You should move out of UWS!
Me: I mean, I could prob grab a quick drink with yo after your show before I head to my buddys bday party...
Her: All fashion shows last like 15 min. Just a total scene pre show. Whole process takes about an hour but show about 15 minutes. Gonna be awesome! Work has been insane this week but in a good way with prepping for the show. I LOVE FASHION WEEK!!! : )
Me: I'll stop by towards the end and pick you up and we can hit somewhere close
Her: Depends on timing. I might be going out after with friends, TBD. What time is your party?
Me: I'm taking him out around 7 or 8
Her: Oh, Well, if post show doesn't work, maybe pre my dins/show after party. We are starting up again around 8:30 so we can maybe grab a drink around 7 if u take your friend around 8
Her: Only if it is downtown. : )
Me: Saturday sounds hectic beb... As much as I love to dine and dash id rather chill out and grab a drink with you when I don't have to bolt the second after I remember how cute you are
Her (This morning): I think my plans for tonight are getting cancelled due to snow. Are you afraid of the blizzard? If not, let me know if you want to come downtown for drinks instead of "dash and dine" Saturday.
Me: Haha alright that sounds good. Id say wear something sexy so we match... but seriously - please wear something warm
Me: I'm living downtown right next to finale on bowery. meet me at my place. there is an awesome bar literally next door.
Her: Why are you looking for places if you just moved to Bowery?
Her: No way! You are coming to me. Am not getting stuck. Plenty of places near my apartment. : )
How would you frame a response here?
Her issues are the following:
1. There is a storm and she's using it as a bullshit excuse not to come to my place because she might get "stuck"
2. She wants control and has wanted it since I first met her- so if I do frame this, it has to be done in a way that allows her to maintain that "sense" of control
I don't think it actually matters that much, so I'm just going to go with it and meet her at her place because it's probably the most efficient and I can still just grab a bottle and cuddle up on her couch... I mean, fuck... I don't even really have pull logistics at my house so wtf am I even thinking
and yupppp- THATS why the community sucks... you start thinking/doing things for the sake of doing it because you've learned that it's the "right " thing to do, in terms of game, when in reality it's like wtf..
Fri, 02/08/2013 - 19:37
#1
I'll be like- cool, we'll
I'll be like- cool, we'll meet at your place but you got the first round to make up for my arctic trek and frozen toes ; b
Fri, 02/08/2013 - 21:31
#2
Woh- I think this girl might
Woh- I think this girl might be on crack right now.... I'm not sure how to handle this - I Know I gotta put her in her place but it's not my best skill as most of the time I don't get this kind of shit.
Her: Omg! Why are you always talking about me getting drinks?!?!
Her: Don't forget I left in middle of date last time. Be a gentleman. Or at least pretend to be one. : )
Her: Yes... Damn straight I am difficult... Because I can be. : ) ) ) ) )
haha I know how I would handle this in person and it would be easy but via text.... what do I do here?
I just sent her the follwing
Me: Shut up and behave like a lady
lol yeah that was prob slightly aggressive but like I said- I'm not very good at putting my foot down on this shit with the correct level of firmness- I tend to either under or over react to these types of situations.
Her: Omg! Why are you always talking about me getting drinks?!?!
Her: Don't forget I left in middle of date last time. Be a gentleman. Or at least pretend to be one. : )
Her: Yes... Damn straight I am difficult... Because I can be. : ) ) ) ) )
haha I know how I would handle this in person and it would be easy but via text.... what do I do here?
I just sent her the follwing
Me: Shut up and behave like a lady
lol yeah that was prob slightly aggressive but like I said- I'm not very good at putting my foot down on this shit with the correct level of firmness- I tend to either under or over react to these types of situations.
Sat, 02/09/2013 - 04:07
#3
I had the EXACT same thoughts
I had the EXACT same thoughts when I was reading.. e.g. why is he being a text game diva/frame control freak. After 2 months of no contact this girl has agreed to meet up with you, even cancelling her first plan cuz she knew it wasnt good enough. Just meet up with her she's being a good girl. And yes she doesnt want to get stuck in a blizzard. Soak her titties in some warm water, it relieves frost bite.
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Sat, 02/09/2013 - 16:06
#4
You're creating too much of a
You're creating too much of a confrontational frame with her, the way you handled her getting drinks was a bit obvious too mate. This would have been better:
"cool, we'll meet at your place. Have an alcoholic beverage ready for when I get there, I'm gonna need something to warm my frozen toes."
That way you're leading but not in a controlling way.
"cool, we'll meet at your place. Have an alcoholic beverage ready for when I get there, I'm gonna need something to warm my frozen toes."
That way you're leading but not in a controlling way.
Sat, 02/09/2013 - 17:19
#5
Fuck yeah dude that actually
Fuck yeah dude that actually would have been perfect. Damn homy
Mon, 02/11/2013 - 08:21
#6
Sorry - I've just resigned to
Sorry I read that shit and I'm pretty sure I could do something similar but I'm like fuck this - I've just resigned to calling bishes for the most part until I get it right.
What sucks about shitty text game is that i have 7 to 9 solid motherfuckin numbers and another 4 to 5 with very solid text game would make it out.
Shit will get better - been reading this text game e-book JMULV referenced as well as reviewing Manwhore's notes little by little. porquito.
Yo dawg is this the girl that I told you to get off the phone with at XX like 2 months ago when you two were on your Day 2.
If so pow pow pow.
And you're right about me being game-conditioned. that shit be killing me. I think outside the box for a lot of things - rarely do it in game for some reason, but thats bound to stop now that I feel somewhat confident that I can pull a cutie on any given night and have finally cultivated self-trust.
Whats honestly holding me back in game, is lack of theory and fundamentals to be honest. I have a weak buyer/seller dynamic in my game as well as having a weak ass pimp hand towards these hoes (frame control)... I also just didn't have fundamentals down before I met up with Manwhore.... It's why once i had internalized all Manwhore taught me - my game and BELIEF just hit another level.
About to do the same with text game. Need to switch up having a poor work ethic towards game when I'm not in-field. Can't keep relying on charisma and "coolness" to get the lay - time for me to start getting the fuckin mechanics down.
And lol as I promised - LR of how i lost my virginity
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/121289
What sucks about shitty text game is that i have 7 to 9 solid motherfuckin numbers and another 4 to 5 with very solid text game would make it out.
Shit will get better - been reading this text game e-book JMULV referenced as well as reviewing Manwhore's notes little by little. porquito.
Yo dawg is this the girl that I told you to get off the phone with at XX like 2 months ago when you two were on your Day 2.
If so pow pow pow.
And you're right about me being game-conditioned. that shit be killing me. I think outside the box for a lot of things - rarely do it in game for some reason, but thats bound to stop now that I feel somewhat confident that I can pull a cutie on any given night and have finally cultivated self-trust.
Whats honestly holding me back in game, is lack of theory and fundamentals to be honest. I have a weak buyer/seller dynamic in my game as well as having a weak ass pimp hand towards these hoes (frame control)... I also just didn't have fundamentals down before I met up with Manwhore.... It's why once i had internalized all Manwhore taught me - my game and BELIEF just hit another level.
About to do the same with text game. Need to switch up having a poor work ethic towards game when I'm not in-field. Can't keep relying on charisma and "coolness" to get the lay - time for me to start getting the fuckin mechanics down.
And lol as I promised - LR of how i lost my virginity
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/121289
Mon, 02/11/2013 - 17:05
#7
Yeah word- I would say this
Yeah word- I would say this text convo was VERY solid up until the moment when I started trying to get her to come to my place.
And yes- it's the chick you told me to get off the phone with lmao.
That report is awesome, haha that was you like 4 years ago... wow! Pretty awesome report though
PS: What was the drama shit you were tellin me bout on Saturday? lol I ended up pulling and fuckin this girl from the bar next door but I got that text from you about some drama shit and was like whaaaa
And yes- it's the chick you told me to get off the phone with lmao.
That report is awesome, haha that was you like 4 years ago... wow! Pretty awesome report though
PS: What was the drama shit you were tellin me bout on Saturday? lol I ended up pulling and fuckin this girl from the bar next door but I got that text from you about some drama shit and was like whaaaa
Tue, 02/12/2013 - 04:43
#8
Yeah I had a bit of momentum
Yeah I had a bit of momentum going on and then like 3 months later I had to take a 18 month break from pimping. sad times indeed.
Haha - Sat night the firefighters had to pretty much damn near break into my apartment to turn the radiator in my bedroom off as apparently it was leaking to the floor below. My roomie was sound asleep apparently when they were banging like crazy on my front door and she called me all freaking out. I thought the house was on fire, Luckily I was only 2-3 blocks away in my neighborhood so I sprinted my ass home. It was just dramatic because my roommate blamed me for a radiator leak that I had literally no control over and this carried on to the poor Spanish lady who lives below me who had her mattress and electricity in her bedroom ruined by the leak.
Undeterred, I went back to the bar and almost managed to pull some hipster chick until this creepy ass opportunist followed my girls friends out the bar. unlucky.
Haha - Sat night the firefighters had to pretty much damn near break into my apartment to turn the radiator in my bedroom off as apparently it was leaking to the floor below. My roomie was sound asleep apparently when they were banging like crazy on my front door and she called me all freaking out. I thought the house was on fire, Luckily I was only 2-3 blocks away in my neighborhood so I sprinted my ass home. It was just dramatic because my roommate blamed me for a radiator leak that I had literally no control over and this carried on to the poor Spanish lady who lives below me who had her mattress and electricity in her bedroom ruined by the leak.
Undeterred, I went back to the bar and almost managed to pull some hipster chick until this creepy ass opportunist followed my girls friends out the bar. unlucky.
Tue, 02/12/2013 - 05:18
#9
haha
I'm pretty sure there
haha
I'm pretty sure there are pictures of me and my buddy dancing on stripper poles last night and orchestrating an entire bar-wide rendition of "Don't you worry child"
LOL we both got up on stage- started dancing on the polls and then the song came on and we got in front of everyone and put up our hands and started pointing at people and singing and sure enough the entire bar started joining in... to the point where the DJ turned the song off and the bar was singing the words in its absense
I then got off the stage and was approached by 2 chicks- one of whom I ended up fucking.
Creating my own social proof FTW
Oh and sorry to hear bout your radiator, bro!
I'm pretty sure there are pictures of me and my buddy dancing on stripper poles last night and orchestrating an entire bar-wide rendition of "Don't you worry child"
LOL we both got up on stage- started dancing on the polls and then the song came on and we got in front of everyone and put up our hands and started pointing at people and singing and sure enough the entire bar started joining in... to the point where the DJ turned the song off and the bar was singing the words in its absense
I then got off the stage and was approached by 2 chicks- one of whom I ended up fucking.
Creating my own social proof FTW
Oh and sorry to hear bout your radiator, bro!
Tue, 02/12/2013 - 05:20
#10
haha my buddy is this black,
haha my buddy is this black, obese mother fucker and even he was making out with like 3 different chicks... it was absurd- haha I was so pumped for him
We actually took turns making out with this one chick who then went up to him and was like, "I want to take you guys home and tie you up" but apparently he isn't into that shit and declined and then he came up to me and I was like, "Yo what happened to that chick" and he goes, "She's into some shit we're not into" and I go, "What do you mean" and he's like, "She wanted to tie us up"
and i go, "WHAT THE FUCK! I'M RETARDEDLY INTO BONDAGE... YOU DICK!"
We actually took turns making out with this one chick who then went up to him and was like, "I want to take you guys home and tie you up" but apparently he isn't into that shit and declined and then he came up to me and I was like, "Yo what happened to that chick" and he goes, "She's into some shit we're not into" and I go, "What do you mean" and he's like, "She wanted to tie us up"
and i go, "WHAT THE FUCK! I'M RETARDEDLY INTO BONDAGE... YOU DICK!"