Text game help
Tue, 04/30/2013 - 03:40
text game is the most lacking in my game right now. i need to learn how to generate attraction and set up day 2's. so i will be posting my text convos on here for help and critique.
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photo 1 by Shaudouthere5, on Flickr
photo 2 by Shaudouthere5, on Flickr
Tue, 04/30/2013 - 03:49
#1
First off man, the emoticons
First off man, the emoticons are annoying as hell. Trust me I used to do this a lot and its not sexy or attractive, try limiting yourself to :P and :-) those are the best ones in my opinion, and maybe a wink ;-) whenever appropriate. The way you text seems a little childish (no hate man just saying) Another thing is don't ask so many questions and try to limit your ! exclamation points. If you wouldn't shout it in real life, don't shout it in text
What you did good is establish a flirty frame after the whole weather thing and you didn't answer her question right away, that was good. Remember you wanna make the girls work to get you to answer them properly. If any girl asks what's up ill say something totally ridiculous and then wait if she says "lol, no rlllly" then ill give her a straight answer but ill either try to drop some DHV or ill just reply with a very broad ambiguous statement which makes her (hopefully) type back
So far you haven't lost her, just tighten up some mistakes and NO EMOTICONS :P
Good luck dude!
What you did good is establish a flirty frame after the whole weather thing and you didn't answer her question right away, that was good. Remember you wanna make the girls work to get you to answer them properly. If any girl asks what's up ill say something totally ridiculous and then wait if she says "lol, no rlllly" then ill give her a straight answer but ill either try to drop some DHV or ill just reply with a very broad ambiguous statement which makes her (hopefully) type back
So far you haven't lost her, just tighten up some mistakes and NO EMOTICONS :P
Good luck dude!
Tue, 04/30/2013 - 03:57
#2
HAHAHA
wtf
I've never seen
HAHAHA
wtf
I've never seen anyone use emoticons like that... stop that now- wow.
wtf
I've never seen anyone use emoticons like that... stop that now- wow.
Tue, 04/30/2013 - 04:23
#3
haha i got a little carried
haha i got a little carried away with the emoticons i'll admit so less of that? more flirty frame? anything else
Tue, 04/30/2013 - 05:05
#4
I thought the emoticons were
I thought the emoticons were funny because it was so obvious what he was doing. But this girl didnt seem to notice and neither did the guys on here so..
The basketball and bird one were pretty funny. You havent tried to go for tthe meetup so there is nothing to critique
The basketball and bird one were pretty funny. You havent tried to go for tthe meetup so there is nothing to critique
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Tue, 04/30/2013 - 05:12
#5
Manwhore wrote:I thought the
Manwhore wrote:
I thought the emoticons were funny because it was so obvious what he was doing. But this girl didnt seem to notice and neither did the guys on here so..
The basketball and bird one were pretty funny. You havent tried to go for tthe meetup so there is nothing to critique
Yeah bro, those emoticons were gay... Not sure if you're advocating it but if you are- I gotta veto that shit. Interesting that I've never seen you use emoticons like that in a text convo, or in any convo... same goes for anybody I know.
On second thought though- haha it might be kinda funny to do it- so yeah, if you were serious about it, then yeah it's gay but if you were sending them and laughing your ass off while doing so-- carry on
Tue, 04/30/2013 - 06:25
#6
I say use emoticons if you
I say use emoticons if you want. Conversation is descent but lead it somewhere. Lead it to a face to face.
If your looking for validation go beat up a small person.
If your looking for validation go beat up a small person.
Tue, 04/30/2013 - 06:35
#7
Yeah... that level of
Yeah... that level of emoticon use is weird though
I agree- the convo doesn't go anywhere yet... so same advise I've given to basically everyone on here, with regards to texting- get a gameplan and structure to your text game and push it forward.
Also- I would say there's way too much rapport right now. There's no point in having this level of conversation with a girl via text, when it isn't moving forward. I have lots of text convos that are super long- but it's always moving towards a date, texting to solidify a date that's already been established and yes, sometimes to build a little rapport- but not even that much...
I don't think this is an issue of wanting validation, as much as it is just not knowing what to do
I agree- the convo doesn't go anywhere yet... so same advise I've given to basically everyone on here, with regards to texting- get a gameplan and structure to your text game and push it forward.
Also- I would say there's way too much rapport right now. There's no point in having this level of conversation with a girl via text, when it isn't moving forward. I have lots of text convos that are super long- but it's always moving towards a date, texting to solidify a date that's already been established and yes, sometimes to build a little rapport- but not even that much...
I don't think this is an issue of wanting validation, as much as it is just not knowing what to do